Originally posted by iammesol
I didn't kiss my last girlfriend in 2+ months, but we did other stuff that felt just as great.
Wait, were you guys already "a couple" before your first kiss?
I always thought of the first kiss as the thing that sealed the beginning of a relationship.
Fledz
quote:
Originally posted by Lira
Wait, were you guys already "a couple" before your first kiss?
I always thought of the first kiss as the thing that sealed the beginning of a relationship.
Same here, otherwise I've pretty much been dating the girl I'm after for like 3 months now. If there's no beginning to intimate contact, then I don't consider it a relationship yet.
iammesol
Definitely not with me.
I'm that cautious :p
Fledz
quote:
Originally posted by iammesol
Definitely not with me.
I'm that cautious :p
But then how do you know? Serious question :)
iammesol
You just make it official. words
Fledz
I wish it was that easy in my case. Lucky bastard :(
Ania_xox
I have read the last 6 posts over like 3 times and I have NO idea what you guys are talking about :confused:
iammesol
lol
Lira
quote:
Originally posted by Ania_xox
I have read the last 6 posts over like 3 times and I have NO idea what you guys are talking about :confused:
Here, I'll summarise the whole thing:
iammesol finds a girl and says "Yo, wanna be my girl?"
She says "Yeah, sure. So, what do we do?"
iammesol - "You know, we hang".
Her - "Oh, cool"
iammesol - "Yeah"
Her - "Yup"
2 months later
iammesol - "Wanna kiss?"
Her - "Oh, cool"
iammesol - "Yeah"
Both - *slurp*
Fledz
lol it's not that hard to follow :p
whiskers
quote:
Originally posted by MrJiveBoJingles
I've considered it.
Last night she went out for two hours at a pub with a guy she used to date.
I was going to complain about it, but I didn't want to deal with the storm about "lack of trust" that would probably follow, and likely further decrease my chances of having sex anytime soon...
Ugh.
Uhh, you might be in an emotionally abusive relationship. Not just speaking from the "Been there, done that" perspective, but the fact that she's refusing physical closure, keeps you in fear about talking about the issues (i.e. runs away from conflict), forces you into guilt ("You don't trust me!!")
You might want to take a few steps back and take an emotionally-removed look at the bigger picture - what's been going on, etc.
