Originally posted by jennypie
I wouldn't think twice about it if I suspected my partner was being dishonest about something I already confronted him about. Otherwise, no. I can't even imagine being that insecure/paranoid in a relationship.
i did that once and it didnt go over well lol
Lira
I find this "privacy talk" kinda funny. I know all her, and she used to browse my phone in front of me when she wanted to tease me :p
Omega_Blue
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Originally posted by Lira
I find this "privacy talk" kinda funny. I know all her, and she used to browse my phone in front of me when she wanted to tease me :p
i was about to bring that up, privacy is privacy but one could argue that you shouldn't keep any secrets from your SO in a healthy relationship, blah blah blah
in other words, why get pissed if you've got nothing to hide? i don't care if you look at the fart jokes that my friends send me, ffs
Orbital32
I still have the right to hide that i have nothing to hide. The way i see it is that i do not have right to look her stuff.
I see it this way: If i do, especially behind their back, that automatically means that 1) I am already having thoughts 2) I don't trust her.
Basically if i have to sneak around to do things its already not healthy.
nchs09
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Originally posted by Omega_Blue
have you done it? would you do it? when is it acceptable to do so? if you find out your SO is doing behind your back, does the ends justify the means?
Who cares really? What do you keep in your phone that is so "private"?
Mindless text, making plans texts, and phonecalls to friends.
Whats the big secret?
Omega_Blue
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Originally posted by nchs09
Whats the big secret?
krysta_101's identity? :conf:
Lira
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Originally posted by Orbital32
I still have the right to hide that i have nothing to hide.
What for?
This may be healthy after the first couple of months but... if both of you feel there's something to be hidden, nothing but drama will come out of that, specially if there's nothing to hide.
Frenchie
It's the principle to be entitled to your own in' business. Regardless if you're hiding plans to take over the world or not, your boyfriend/girlfriend really has no right to be looking through your phone to begin with. Oh...unless they are looking at videos you took of your dog.:gsmile:
nchs09
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Originally posted by Frenchie
It's the principle to be entitled to your own in' business. Regardless if you're hiding plans to take over the world or not, your boyfriend/girlfriend really has no right to be looking through your phone to begin with. Oh...unless they are looking at videos you took of your dog.:gsmile:
I guess i just dont care if someone looks at my private stuff...... i dont really have anything private. Except for my love for clown porn:(
oh wait, maybe i shouldnt of said that.
Orbital32
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Originally posted by Lira
What for?
This may be healthy after the first couple of months but... if both of you feel there's something to be hidden, nothing but drama will come out of that, specially if there's nothing to hide.
You are 100% right. Once there is no trust, its time to break up. I am not looking for marriage when i date a person. I don't see it as a huge loss. Keep searching until you find a person that feels the same way.
treeboo
Checking the phone is a no-no Nate. I'll let Bashy take it from here:
tubularbills
whats better, to me, i think, is when your partner shares things in their phone with you.
why does have to be so negative all the time? haven't you bastards ever been like, "haha, look at this" and shared w/ your SO? i did it once, and it was so fun to share!
