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Browsing through your SO's phone (pg. 4)
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| Arbiter |
It seems to me that if you wanted to keep something private, then you wouldn't leave it on your phone, and proceed to leave your phone just sitting around for any passer-by to read.
I'm inclined to think that if you can't be bothered to take basic precautions to protect your privacy, then it can't be very important to you... |
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| elFreak |
i can't wait till you lonely s live with someone. People who complain about the violation of rights usually do so because they are ing wrong, and also most of you have no one to look in your phones.
ps. what arbiter said. |
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| jpisani |
I once dropped my phone @ about 3:30am, it went off my foot and I couldn't see where it went, i thought it went under the bed, but I wasn't entirely sure and instead of turning the bedroom light on and waking her up, I thought, just use her phone as a flashlight. So I grabbed her phone off the charger, and as I'm walking back towards my side of the bed, I see it lights up before I even open it, it's a call from a guy who I know is a scumbag. I hit the ignore button, go about my business and find my phone, and then I decided to see why he was calling by checking the text messages. It was the worst and best decision I've ever made.
and when I confronted her about it I didn't mention that I had already gone through her texts, so as she was lying it just made her sound so stupid, it was hilarious, then she had the balls to call me sneaky when I told her how I got all of my information. |
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| kr00t0n |
Yep, back when I was 22 and insecure.
Wouldn't do it again. |
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| Jer |
| quote: | Originally posted by MeLLyMeL
WTF are u doing in the cor!?!
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I heart the cor. Humor is key. |
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| MeLLyMeL |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jer
I heart the cor. Humor is key. |
haha yay!
good 2 see u post though! don't think i ever have. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Omega_Blue
would you do it? when is it acceptable to do so? if you find out your SO is doing behind your back, does the ends justify the means? |
It's permissible if you've flown across the Atlantic to be with someone who would rather you not be there. No, it doesn't justify it... but it might justify installing a keystroke logger. |
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| MeLLyMeL |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
It's permissible if you've flown across the Atlantic to be with someone who would rather you not be there. No, it doesn't justify it... but it might justify installing a keystroke logger. |
lmfao. |
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| UWM |
| My girlfriend has all my e-mail logins / passwords and bank / credit info and passwords and I have hers. I'm hardly concerned about anything devious we'd find in each other's phones, yet I'd still never take it upon myself to do so simply because I trust her and respect her privacy. |
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| david.michael |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
yeah but where do you draw the line? will you install a keylogger on their computer and sign into their messaging accounts and check their e-mail and get one of those phone tapping things they sell on infomercials? or maybe follow them and spy when they say they're going out with friends?
i mean i see where you're coming from. if you have suspicions it's hard not to "check up" on someone... but if you're really that worried/paranoid/insecure, what are you doing with that person in the first place? |
I spied the out of my ex-wife, and don't regret it for a second.
< GEEK >
I have a 24-port managed switch which I connected to with Hyperterminal and set up port-mirroring. Everything that came in on port 23 got repeated on port 24. My wireless access point connected to port 23 and port 24 was connected to a second NIC in my PC running packet-sniffing software. The wife used the laptop on the wireless and all traffic got repeated and routed straight into my machine. I also ran key-loggers on my machines.
< /GEEK >
I don't regret it because:
- She gave me plenty of reasons to be suspicious
- She always seemed overly concerned with having her privacy
- She's pretty much just a bad person
- I was right, and found plenty of evidence of infidelity
I confronted her about everything I had found, she cried, we had a long talk, etc. and tried to move on. I agreed to remove all spying from my agenda. Turns out, I accidentally found additional evidence down-the-road.
There has never been any spying in the relationship I'm in now, however. I just know I have no reason to suspect anything and we both are a pretty open book to each other.
Essentially, if you have been given enough reason to truly suspect it (to the point where I feel the need to investigate it), I'm sure it's probably pretty much over by then anyway. So, why not? It provided the hard evidence I needed to be able to truly make a rational decision about my future (and health, the skank.) |
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| Rose |
| Yeah I have nothing to hide in my phone. I've read Pierre's text messages before but that was because he was driving and he told me to read him the messages lol. |
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| david.michael |
| Also, I just realized how psycho all that makes me sound.... but, meh. it. |
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