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Browsing through your SO's phone (pg. 6)
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| david.michael |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
nah, I can't see bobby and I going 2 cock... unless there's a few millimeters of Jamie in between us. |
It's not gay as long as the balls don't touch. |
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| elFreak |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
My girlfriend has all my e-mail logins / passwords and bank / credit info and passwords and I have hers. I'm hardly concerned about anything devious we'd find in each other's phones, yet I'd still never take it upon myself to do so simply because I trust her and respect her privacy. |
best answer of the thread.
usually if you are not doing anything wrong and live your life openly you do not have to hide anything from anyone.
ffs...my girlfriend is all-nite-freak |
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| r5a |
honestly no.
i haven't wanted to and i dont really give two s to be honest. like nachos said its all just random bull anyway. i dont really care much about. |
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| bananas |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
Why is it when men get mad at us and start insulting us they have to mention hair color? What does that have anything to do with it? |
dont they talk bout your weight?
edit: i agree with your point of view on this matter |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
No. No. Never. No. |
Mostly this. Although if they tell you to go through it, then it is obviously ok, but otherwise, unless they are overprotective of going through this , there is no reason to. |
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| squirrelly |
I don't ever go check on my own. However, there have been plenty of times where I've thrown my phone to my hubby and told him to answer the phone or check to see who texted me and vice versa. We know each others passwords to each others emails, but we never check them without reason (i.e. he asks me to send an invoice through his email to a customer, etc).
I suppose since we have each others passwords, we don't feel the need to check anything because we trust each other enough.
I have nothing to hide, and neither does he. |
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| Yohan |
| it all comes down to the trust issue, eh |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
I don't ever go check on my own. However, there have been plenty of times where I've thrown my phone to my hubby and told him to answer the phone or check to see who texted me and vice versa. We know each others passwords to each others emails, but we never check them without reason (i.e. he asks me to send an invoice through his email to a customer, etc). |
This is exactly what I was referring to. This is the only time it is ok to really go in there imho.
The only time I would be worried is if they get all stupid overprotective of their privacy. Then you know something is up. |
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| squirrelly |
Yea it's weird, my girlfriends are like OMG I can't believe you're not going through his stuff, I would, all the time!
I'm home all day on our computer, and I have no need to go through his private stuff. I think KNOWING that I can go through it, if I REALLY wanted to... makes me care less. |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
Yea it's weird, my girlfriends are like OMG I can't believe you're not going through his stuff, I would, all the time!
I'm home all day on our computer, and I have no need to go through his private stuff. I think KNOWING that I can go through it, if I REALLY wanted to... makes me care less. |
Not only that. The fact that he GAVE IT TO YOU WILLINGLY, makes it obvious he has nothing in there that worries him or puts the relationship in jeopardy. As too many people have mentioned, it is 100% a trust issue. If you trust each other, there is nothing to worry about them finding because you have nothing to hide in the first place.
I still don't agree with going through it, even if you have been given the okay though. That just breaches the trust, even if you had the permission to go into it. |
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| squirrelly |
| yeah, that's why I never do. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by gehzumteufel
Not only that. The fact that he GAVE IT TO YOU WILLINGLY, makes it obvious he has nothing in there that worries him or puts the relationship in jeopardy. |
Nigga please, any half assed smart cheater maintains a second email account, credit cards, cell phone, and bank account that their partner knows nothing about. If you're going to around and no one get hurt then you need to be prepared. What I'm saying is just because someone doesn't mind you going through their email or cell doesn't mean you have nothing to worry about. |
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