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Browsing through your SO's phone (pg. 3)
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| Slylee |
it's only acceptable when you are convinced they are cheating. otherwise...no. it doesn't even occur to me to do it when i'm in a relationship where there is trust.
my hotmail password is automatically saved on my bf's computer too. he can check my email any time and i don't really care because A. i know he wouldn't even do that and B. nothing to hide (for a change lol) |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
it's only acceptable when you are convinced they are cheating. otherwise...no. it doesn't even occur to me to do it when i'm in a relationship where there is trust.
my hotmail password is automatically saved on my bf's computer too. he can check my email any time and i don't really care because A. i know he wouldn't even do that and B. nothing to hide (for a change lol) |
and is his stuff on your comp? |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by tubularbills
and is his stuff on your comp? |
no. he is hardly here... i trust him i don't care to look through his emails. he isn't really an internet type of guy aside from being into world of warcraft and watching porn. that's all he really gets on the computer for. he created a facebook account recently and now he never logs in and barely checks his email.
i think i accidentally made it so that it remembers my password on his hotmail page so now i just click my email address and it automatically starts signing me in. i haven't bothered to change it though cuz it's easier and one less step i have to take to read my emails lol |
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| Fpcookie |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
No. No. Never. No. |
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| woscar99 |
| I hate it when she does it to me so I don´t do it to her... |
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| Jer |
Nothing to hide in my BlackBerry - Can't ever remember my SO ever going through my phone behind my back or vice versa. In hindsight, kinda wishing I did (as I would have clued in a lot ing sooner) but it was bound to happen - She is what she is.
Humorously enough, my best mate steals my Berry everytime I go over for beers and Xbox - He's convinced I keep stacks of porn on it. Not to say he's wrong, he just can't navigate himself around the media player. |
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| MeLLyMeL |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jer
Nothing to hide in my BlackBerry - Can't ever remember my SO ever going through my phone behind my back or vice versa. In hindsight, kinda wishing I did (as I would have clued in a lot ing sooner) but it was bound to happen - She is what she is.
Humorously enough, my best mate steals my Berry everytime I go over for beers and Xbox - He's convinced I keep stacks of porn on it. Not to say he's wrong, he just can't navigate himself around the media player. |
WTF are u doing in the cor!?!
get outta here. :tongue2 |
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| Yohan |
| quote: | Originally posted by MeLLyMeL
WTF are u doing in the cor!?!
get outta here. :tongue2 |
clearly jer is lonely
ps: where were you last weekend in london, jer, you silly goat :p |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Omega_Blue
i would rather know for sure than either a) live in denial about someone ing around on you or b) never knowing for sure and constantly stressing about it. it's not healthy. |
yeah but where do you draw the line? will you install a keylogger on their computer and sign into their messaging accounts and check their e-mail and get one of those phone tapping things they sell on infomercials? or maybe follow them and spy when they say they're going out with friends?
i mean i see where you're coming from. if you have suspicions it's hard not to "check up" on someone... but if you're really that worried/paranoid/insecure, what are you doing with that person in the first place? |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
yeah but where do you draw the line? will you install a keylogger on their computer and sign into their messaging accounts and check their e-mail and get one of those phone tapping things they sell on infomercials? or maybe follow them and spy when they say they're going out with friends?
i mean i see where you're coming from. if you have suspicions it's hard not to "check up" on someone... but if you're really that worried/paranoid/insecure, what are you doing with that person in the first place? |
i agree. i've been in relationships where i went through their phone and i found that pissd me off (pretty much confirmed my suspicions) and then i've been in relationships where if some random girl called the house and asked for my bf, i'd be like, "yea sure hold on". lol
it all depends on the relationship.
i'm a firm believer in doing what you gotta do to get to the bottom of things, but in moderation. u have to go out w/ some dignity and know where to draw the line. if u find yourself doing the extreme things like key loggers, etc... then u really need to just let that in itself be enough closure and move on, whether you have concrete evidence or not because that's just not a healthy situation to begin with lol
i mean if you even start considering it (which i'm not gonna lie, i have before) then u need to be able to say "woah, this is getting a little out of hand" |
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| Renzo |
| Checking your SO's phone is the lamest ever. Ever. |
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| narcism |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
your boyfriend/girlfriend really has no right to be looking through your phone to begin with. Oh...unless they are looking at videos you took of your dog.:gsmile: |
ZING!!!
haha i dont care if someone looks thru my phone, have nothing to hide & if they look in the right spot they might find some nudes :tongue3 |
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