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Kids ? (pg. 2)
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| VDub |
I feel that if you don't procreate by choice, then you have wasted your basic existence...
Carrying on the species is our purpose in life... |
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| Geoffb3 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Intangible
Your dad is controlling when you have kids:wtf: |
ya i know .... oh well personally i dont want kids ... i can be a selfish prick... but im young things can change ... so its better to pick and choose my battles ... so why argue about something ten years away ? |
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| Inrush |
| quote: | Originally posted by Djsketchbag
We dated for like 2 months then I met her kid and he was such an annoying brat she never herd from me again.
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the kid was only a brat because of the way he was brought up. People dont understand that kids are hard work. you cant just sit them down to play xbox for the full day and expect them to grow up good. they need order, love, activity and diet to be well behaved. If you are basing your hole decision on seeing other peoples kids messing around and not behaving then suggest you reconsider your options because not all kids are brought up like brats that are out of control. But if you just dont like them then yeah... dont have one :) |
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| Djsketchbag |
| quote: | Originally posted by Inrush
the kid was only a brat because of the way he was brought up. People dont understand that kids are hard work. you cant just sit them down to play xbox for the full day and expect them to grow up good. they need order, love, activity and diet to be well behaved. If you are basing your hole decision on seeing other peoples kids messing around and not behaving then suggest you reconsider your options because not all kids are brought up like brats that are out of control. But if you just dont like them then yeah... dont have one :) |
I know that a child is behavior is based on the way it's parents raised it and that each child is different. I was such a good little kid when i was younger and i was sooooooooooo loved, i was an only child and the first in the fmaily. But in all honesty little kids have bugged the living _ _ _ _ out of me all my life i could never stand them. And if i feel i won't give my child the same devoition and love i was given by my family i don't think its fair for the child I'm not being selfish i'm putting myself in that childs shoes although a lot of girls who know me tell me i would be a wikkid dad :toothless |
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| Skipper |
| quote: | Originally posted by VDub
I feel that if you don't pro-create by choice, then you have wasted your basic existance...
Carrying on the species is our purpose in life... |
Huh? The purpose is to enjoy your life while you're living it. That may or may not involve kids. We have a massive population problem on this planet and there is no dire need for every person to spew out more kids...I'd argue procreation is actually detrimental to the planet at this point.
However, I do want kids. I just don't see myself getting my life in order until my mid-30's to be able to do so. |
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| English Rachel |
I love children and they love me. I give them love and respect as well as fun and I get respect and love back. I treat them like they are adults with the things they can process in their minds allowing them to make decisions and mistakes and encourage talking about things before, during and afterwards.
I don't think I will have children of my own. I am 30 now and I think the love and care I would feel for a child of my own would be debilitating to me.
So I will stick with being a bunny mummy. |
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| Djsketchbag |
| quote: | Originally posted by English Rachel
So I will stick with being a bunny mummy. |
awwwww :toothless |
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| patpicos |
argg kids! i already cant stand dogs that need attention and stuff...let alone kids!
good thing my gf is not into kids.....unfortunately she has the needy dog...argggg |
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| malek |
| we weren't into kids either heheheheheh |
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| FunkyCrew |
| quote: | Originally posted by English Rachel
So I will stick with being a bunny mummy. |
where do I sign up? please adopt me :D |
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| zokissima |
| quote: | Originally posted by Inrush
the kid was only a brat because of the way he was brought up. People dont understand that kids are hard work. you cant just sit them down to play xbox for the full day and expect them to grow up good. they need order, love, activity and diet to be well behaved. If you are basing your hole decision on seeing other peoples kids messing around and not behaving then suggest you reconsider your options because not all kids are brought up like brats that are out of control. But if you just dont like them then yeah... dont have one :) |
+1 to that, but additionally, its really difficult to judge yourself as a parent if you are not one. Thus, if you were in a position to be having your own, you can't say with certainty that you would feel the same annoyance towards your own child. |
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