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Am I unreasonably jealous? (pg. 12)
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| samochod |
| quote: | Originally posted by kr00t0n
I'm sure it'd be ok if it were anyone tbh :p |
yes but no :clown: |
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| iclone |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
if my boyfriend said to me, "oh hey honey, i'm gonna go to this concert with jenny, i'll probably be home around midnight or so" i'd be like, "oh ok...so what you're saying is you'd like me to chop off your balls right now..ok":stongue: |
so, balls AND penis if he takes the "do it anyway then apologize afterwards" stance? |
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| nchs09 |
| Apologizing = forgiveness |
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| iclone |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
Apologizing = forgiveness |
all your gods are belong to us. |
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| smellyblack |
| quote: | Originally posted by XaNaX
"no body, no murder" |
pretty much:p |
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| Zild |
| just read this and want to say to the OP... you're a complete psychopath and you need to get a ing grip |
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| RickyM |
| quote: | Originally posted by Kaidreas
Maybe you should lock her up in you basement, so she'll never see any sunlight again, and when you have little kids... well, lock them up. et voila the next dutroux/fritz
edit: I forgot.... :rolleyes: |
Incidentally, I hear social services are going to be giving Josef Fritzl an award for 'the most improved father'...they said that recently he has been coming into his own. |
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| Akridrot |
This was childish and I have completely resolved the issue. I had a big discussion with my girlfriend (before reading most of this thread) If I can't trust her, than I don't really love her. But I do love her, and I do trust her. It's just that sometimes I don't approve of the friends she has. The specific guy in question was from my drug addled past, so I don't want him hanging around her.
Everything is fine now and she will not 'hang out' with this guy at all, because she couldn't care less if he lives or dies. I later found out that he was merely going to meet up with her and friend at this museum outing and she wasn't going to be alone with him whatsoever, but I was like "I don't like that guy and what he reminds me of" so she was like "OK, I'll just drop him from my plans, he wasn't that big of a deal anyway. Now I have completely different outlook from the one in the OP. I feel much happier as a person.
It was absurd of me. How will either of us ever grow as people by imposing such retarded constraints on each other?
Life experience, +9001 |
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| Akridrot |
This is why communication is important s. It makes more sense to actually talk to your partner about that's bothering you 1 on 1 instead of posting crap on the internet. That NEVER works and if I had followed your advice (which, I admit, was mostly correct on the face of it) I wouldn't have benefited nearly as much as I have from the long conversation I had with her.
Far better to talk and let out those feelings and 'insecurities' and barriers with the person you love instead of having this big internal cluster inside you and making decisions about the relationship all on your own.
Zen. |
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| idoru |
| quote: | Originally posted by Akridrot
Haha, all you overly permissive guys should know that your girlfriends are having other men slide up inside them when you're not around. All women cheat. Every single one.
It's a matter of prevention, not trust. It doesn't matter who she is, if she likes to have fun, she will cheat. |
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| The17sss |
| quote: | Originally posted by Akridrot
I had a big discussion with my girlfriend (before reading most of this thread) If I can't trust her, than I don't really love her. But I do love her, and I do trust her. |
This may be beside the point, but it is very possible to love someone and not be able to trust them at the same time. One is not exclusively dependant on the other. |
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