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sex is overrated (pg. 2)
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| kuollutrunkkau5 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr.Mystery
The only people who say sex is overrated are the ones that never get any. |
More like the inverse. The people who talk about sex being awesome and doing women then entire time are the people that barely have sex or are virgins altogether.
Things short of tend to lose their appeal if done often enough.
Also, sex is so over-rated and used in media nowadays that about any person once they first do it are like 'Okay, that was hardly as fun as porn would make it seem.' |
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| we_R_DNA |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr.Mystery
The only people who say sex is overrated are the ones that never get any. |
The only people who say people who say sex is overrated because they never get any are the ones who never got any. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by EddieZilker
Of course, they always get put off and want more so I know I'm doing something right. |
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| Mr.Mystery |
| quote: | Originally posted by we_R_DNA
The only people who say people who say sex is overrated because they never get any are the ones who never got any. |
The only people who say people who say people who say....
Oh, it. |
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| kuollutrunkkau5 |
| quote: | Originally posted by EddieZilker
I totally know what you mean. I hate it when they get off before I do. Definitely makes it seem like an anhedonic chore. |
Well, only a small portion of women do during penetrative intercourse. And together with that the function, of any, of the female orgasm still puzzles sexologists...
Nature, sadly, isn't fair.
Also, there are some studies which seem to imply that orgasms, for both males and females, are cultural. Apparently there were entire societies where no one ever considered such a thing as a female, or even a male orgasm. Basically they imply that it's sort of the power of suggestion. You can have an orgasm because people say you can have an orgasm to you. Even in western society. In the 19th century, no one seemed to consider such things as female orgasms at all.
Orgasms are also more between your ears than truly physical. Some women, for instance a friend of mine, have orgasms sooner from stroking their hair than touching their genitalia. Maybe it's because her hair to her is a private part that people are rarely allowed to touch?
| quote: | | If I can't get it out in the first minute-thirty, it's gone on for too long and I just stop. Of course, they always get put off and want more so I know I'm doing something right. |
I'm afraid that for most guys, about any woman will do. Nature isn't fair I said.
Basically, about any woman that looks half decent and asks a guy for sex will get what she wants. A guy doing the same is called a perv. This is quite standard behaviour in mammals after all. The male is 'supposed' to court the female, the female is simply to approve the right male.
Not that I agree with that it works that way, but there's little I can do to change it. |
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| Mattinsanity |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr.Mystery
The only people who say sex is overrated are the ones that never get any. |
I wish I didnt get any (and I want my money back from that ho). I'd rather jack off to a good porn flick. |
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| kuollutrunkkau5 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mattinsanity
I wish I didnt get any (and I want my money back from that ho). I'd rather jack off to a good porn flick. |
Porn flicks are of course for people that never saw a woman sexually aroused.
This includes 75% of all males who have sex with them, they can fake orgasms you know. |
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| EddieZilker |
| quote: | Originally posted by kuollutrunkkau5
Well, only a small portion of women do during penetrative intercourse. And together with that the function, of any, of the female orgasm still puzzles sexologists...
Nature, sadly, isn't fair.
Also, there are some studies which seem to imply that orgasms, for both males and females, are cultural. Apparently there were entire societies where no one ever considered such a thing as a female, or even a male orgasm. Basically they imply that it's sort of the power of suggestion. You can have an orgasm because people say you can have an orgasm to you. Even in western society. In the 19th century, no one seemed to consider such things as female orgasms at all.
Orgasms are also more between your ears than truly physical. Some women, for instance a friend of mine, have orgasms sooner from stroking their hair than touching their genitalia. Maybe it's because her hair to her is a private part that people are rarely allowed to touch?
I'm afraid that for most guys, about any woman will do. Nature isn't fair I said.
Basically, about any woman that looks half decent and asks a guy for sex will get what she wants. A guy doing the same is called a perv. This is quite standard behaviour in mammals after all. The male is 'supposed' to court the female, the female is simply to approve the right male.
Not that I agree with that it works that way, but there's little I can do to change it. |
It's refreshing to find someone so like-minded. I made the mistake of dating a psychologist who, after a few dates, broke it off stating, somewhat more clinically if not diplomatically, that it felt like I was just grudge-ing her and that my persistent refusal to gratify her was "disturbing and symptomatic" - whatever that means.
All I know is when they start making all that moaning noise, it's so distracting and sometimes I just stop. It really is selfish of them to want so much and who wants to cuddle with someone after they've so readily given it up? It just makes me feel so dirty to be close to someone so slutty - kind of like when your mother tries to hug you after she's come home from another of her swinger parties.
I've had a few of those girls who want me to "warm them up". Screw that. I only want one appendage to smell like their bad decisions - and even then, I'd rather it smell like latex, lube, and nonoxnonyl-9. At least I feel safer.
And kissing them. Not after my has been in their mouth. It's ing disgusting. So, yeah. I pretty much just want to get it over with. The thrill of the chase is soooo much better than the conquest. I just don't understand how come they don't want to settle for me. I could totally be a one-girl guy but they always stop calling after the fourth date, or so. |
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| kuollutrunkkau5 |
| quote: | Originally posted by EddieZilker
It's refreshing to find someone so like-minded. I made the mistake of dating a psychologist who, after a few dates, broke it off stating, somewhat more clinically if not diplomatically, that it felt like I was just grudge-ing her and that my persistent refusal to gratify her was "disturbing and symptomatic" - whatever that means. |
A reason I am not too fond of psychology as a "science", they seem to take pride in being as vague as possible rather than to be as clear as possible. Their jargon seems to be invented to confuse rather than to be clear and brief.
| quote: | | All I know is when they start making all that moaning noise, it's so distracting and sometimes I just stop. It really is selfish of them to want so much and who wants to cuddle with someone after they've so readily given it up? It just makes me feel so dirty to be close to someone so slutty - kind of like when your mother tries to hug you after she's come home from another of her swinger parties. |
I've debated this issue quite often as of late. Basically the idea is that a lot of people say that men are selfish and bed and women aren't. I'm not so sure, the point is that there is a large pressure on men to perform, while not on women.
Often women say 'You never make me come', but in most cases, well, women don't really do that much and just take it between the sheets.
Not that I'm misogynistic, more the inverse. I've never really been able to connect with guys.
| quote: | | And kissing them. Not after my has been in their mouth. It's ing disgusting. |
As disgusting to have one in their mouth for them I supposed.
I never really got the idea of fellatio myself.
| quote: | | So, yeah. I pretty much just want to get it over with. The thrill of the chase is soooo much better than the conquest. |
I'd agree here though.
| quote: | | I just don't understand how come they don't want to settle for me. I could totally be a one-girl guy but they always stop calling after the fourth date, or so. |
Kind of implies you do stuff wrong, no? |
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| EddieZilker |
| quote: | Originally posted by KilldaDJ
MUST NOT FAP |
Especially right around the time you're expecting them on your first date. I've made that mistake a few times and it always gets a nasty reaction. |
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| EddieZilker |
| quote: | Originally posted by kuollutrunkkau5
A reason I am not too fond of psychology as a "science", they seem to take pride in being as vague as possible rather than to be as clear as possible. Their jargon seems to be invented to confuse rather than to be clear and brief. |
I'm suing one for saying, in divorce court of all places, that I had some personality disorder with paranoid hues - whatever the that means. Definitely pseudo-science. I'm also suing my lawyer and I'm pretty sure he was one of the guys sleeping with my ex-wife - who I'm also suing.
| quote: | Originally posted by kuollutrunkkau5
I've debated this issue quite often as of late. Basically the idea is that a lot of people say that men are selfish and bed and women aren't. I'm not so sure, the point is that there is a large pressure on men to perform, while not on women. |
They just have to lie there. I hate - and I mean HATE - it when they try to get on topf.
| quote: | Originally posted by kuollutrunkkau5
Often women say 'You never make me come', but in most cases, well, women don't really do that much and just take it between the sheets. |
EXACTLY!!
| quote: | Originally posted by kuollutrunkkau5
Not that I'm misogynistic, more the inverse. I've never really been able to connect with guys. |
The last guy who tried to 'connect' with me, I punched his lights out. I heard he was calling me a homophobe behind my back after that and I went straight to his work to tell him I was definitely NOT afraid of his little candy-ass.
| quote: | Originally posted by kuollutrunkkau5
As disgusting to have one in their mouth for them I supposed. |
I'd sooner eat sushee.
| quote: | Originally posted by kuollutrunkkau5
I never really got the idea of fellatio myself. |
That's actually the most fun, when you get both hands on their head and push it down.
| quote: | Originally posted by kuollutrunkkau5
I'd agree here though. |
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| quote: | Originally posted by kuollutrunkkau5
Kind of implies you do stuff wrong, no? |
You're probably right. I just haven't found the right girl, yet. I think my taste in women has a lot to do with it. |
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