i know what im looking for and if they dont fit the bill i toss em. Unless theyre skanky then i bang em a few times and move on. I don't get emotionally involved in girls I don't think its worth getting emotionally involved with. I've also had a limited amount of actual "gf"'s and the relationships I have been in, though a limited amount, have all been long term.
I meet girls weekly, If theyre nice i break em off quickly and easily if they're not what I'm looking for. If they're skankyish and lookin for some fun i keep em around at a distance and have fun. The girls I do keep and get emotionally inolved are top quality women. So I would neevr be unhappy, and never consider cheating. I guess that's what happens when you impose standards on yourself. At the same time though, when there have been issues and things get teetering I'm not scared to sit my significant other down and ask what the is up and discuss. I'm also not afraid to be single, so that helps too when discussing issues. I guess my point is watch for people who have issues out there,
cammaxwell
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Originally posted by Moral Hazard
That's why Mrs. Hazard and I discussed it and I have a free pass to bang Jenny if I ever get the chance
You hear that Jenny?
call me:gsmile:
Well god bless you guys, I really appreciate that!
pozz
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Originally posted by Vivid Boy
If you want to live a single life
:stongue: i read this as "If you want to live in sin"
/dyslexia
VDub
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Originally posted by Swamper
I'd rather cut out the s and trust those that I keep around instead of wasting time with 'empty' relationships. For the most part, I've been lucky, but there have been a few instances where people really crossed the line and I had no qualms about dropping contact with them. It's harder to do this if you have mutual friends.
Yup...
If you can't trust your friends, then they're not worth having as friends...
VDub
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Originally posted by Vivid Boy
well i just categorize women i meet.
i know what im looking for and if they dont fit the bill i toss em. Unless theyre skanky then i bang em a few times and move on. I don't get emotionally involved in girls I don't think its worth getting emotionally involved with. I've also had a limited amount of actual "gf"'s and the relationships I have been in, though a limited amount, have all been long term.
I meet girls weekly, If theyre nice i break em off quickly and easily if they're not what I'm looking for. If they're skankyish and lookin for some fun i keep em around at a distance and have fun. The girls I do keep and get emotionally inolved are top quality women. So I would neevr be unhappy, and never consider cheating. I guess that's what happens when you impose standards on yourself. At the same time though, when there have been issues and things get teetering I'm not scared to sit my significant other down and ask what the is up and discuss. I'm also not afraid to be single, so that helps too when discussing issues. I guess my point is watch for people who have issues out there,
And this way, when you meet the lifer, you'll have the experience to know it...
yankeeBaby
Cheaters suck, there is not much more to say.
VDub
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Originally posted by yankeeBaby
Cheaters suck
Only if the person they're cheating with is lucky.........
:stongue:
pkcRAISTLIN
never cheated and never would, but i dont see why i should be constrained by contracts made by third parties. it is not my responsibility to conform to the agreed upon boundaries in someone else's relationship.
Stilez
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Originally posted by Skipper
Most bang on thing I have read in this thread. I agree 100%. Although I'd add that the person who stays with a cheater isn't necessarily insecure, if both parties are being open and honest about working through the whole mess together.
True. Sometimes the person who stays is simply unaware, or if they find out, they're mature/strong enough to try & work it out & give the other the benefit of the doubt that it won't happen again. I believe that everyone deserves at least a second chance. That being said, I'm not strong or even emotionally mature enough to give a cheater a second chance.
Yohan
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Originally posted by Stilez
True. Sometimes the person who stays is simply unaware, or if they find out, they're mature/strong enough to try & work it out & give the other the benefit of the doubt that it won't happen again. I believe that everyone deserves at least a second chance. That being said, I'm not strong or even emotionally mature enough to give a cheater a second chance.
How do you trust again someone who cheated on you? I dunno. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me?
Luckily I never had a gf who cheated on me (then again, I'm not the dating type), but once a person broke my trust, I find that I can never fully trust that person again, because there is always that lingering doubt that the person might break your trust again. Not to mention total disrespect of you as a human being.
In time, I think I can forgive the person for cheating on me. But my heart is not something to be toyed with.
VDub
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Originally posted by Yohan
How do you trust again someone who cheated on you? I dunno. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me?
But seriously, that expression is about giving a second chance...
