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Cheaters (pg. 8)
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My ex didn't physically cheat, but she went out to the club with her girls and gave a guy her number and was texting him... and I found out by looking at a convo with her friend when she left her email open.
Just as bad I think. So dumped that on the corner. |
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| Zyklon_Jay |
| cheaters are always insecure...they act like they aren't, but they always are. |
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Pie
I never said it was. I don't think it's wrong to have high expectations of people, rather than just accepting that "people are warped anyways". That's how people end up surrounded by s. Lol. |
sometimes you have no choice but to be surrounded by s. so you just have to accept it. no need to be stressed out about certain things. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| Uh, I wholeheartedly disagree. In the context of "normal life", yes you have every choice as to what kind of people you're surrounded by. It's never a coincidence. |
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Pie
Uh, I wholeheartedly disagree. In the context of "normal life", yes you have every choice as to what kind of people you're surrounded by. It's never a coincidence. |
well, whatever. i don't have the energy to be a ing hardass all the time. and to hold every single person around me to some impossibly high standard at every single ing point. so draining. sometimes you have to let things slide. people make mistakes, people up, unless you think that you are holier than thou, it's really not worth it.
i am cynical, if i cut out every out of my life, i will be all alone, so now i don't trust anyone and go along with my life not getting my feelings involved and not stressing about it. everyone is an ass.
EDIT: the only person i hold to high standard is myself. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| You're taking what I said far too much to the extreme. But it's not hard to not be surrounded by s. You get what you give in life, it's actually pretty easy. ;) |
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Pie
You're taking what I said far too much to the extreme. But it's not hard to not be surrounded by s. You get what you give in life, it's actually pretty easy. ;) |
well, maybe our definition of s are different. lol.
anyways, of course you can cut out the real big s easily, i just keep a tally of all things people do but don't get upset about it just slowly move away. |
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| ~C~ |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Pie
You're taking what I said far too much to the extreme. But it's not hard to not be surrounded by s. You get what you give in life, it's actually pretty easy. ;) |
Since all cheaters by your standards are "s", and you refuse to surround yourself with people of that nature, is it safe to say you have no friends in your life that have ever cheated on someone? |
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| *~LiSa-LoO~* |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
well, whatever. i don't have the energy to be a ing hardass all the time. and to hold every single person around me to some impossibly high standard at every single ing point. so draining. sometimes you have to let things slide. people make mistakes, people up, unless you think that you are holier than thou, it's really not worth it.
i am cynical, if i cut out every out of my life, i will be all alone, so now i don't trust anyone and go along with my life not getting my feelings involved and not stressing about it. everyone is an ass.
EDIT: the only person i hold to high standard is myself. |
I think what she's trying to say Margaret (correct me if I'm wrong Jennie) is that you have a choice whether or not you want to surround yourself with people who are complete douchebags day in and day out. You have the choice whether or not you want to be friends with them, and most people will often chose not to...unless they're also a douchebag (people like people like themselves).
Margs, it seems that you're referring to the fact that not everyone is perfect, and people make mistakes and do stupid things that we may not approve of, whether they believe it's right or not. But just b/c people make these mistakes, you're not going stop being friends with them or surrounding yourself with them b/c it happens to everyone and some things you have to look past. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| Yeah I know a few cheaters. Again, taking what I said to the extreme/out of the context of why I said it. |
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| ~C~ |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Pie
Yeah I know a few cheaters. Again, taking what I said to the extreme/out of the context of why I said it. |
How so? I think you're viewpoint on this is incredibly harsh. Obviously cheating affects a large amount of people at some point or another. And honestly, you're coming off like you think you're better than everyone else, just because you're one of a few ppl out there that has never cheated on someone. I think that's unfair. Especially if you're still friends with ppl that have cheated, when you've gone out of your way to categorize cheaters as horrible people in this thread. Not everyone is as strong willed as your are in life, or has as much self worth/self esteem as you do. Some people need to make mistakes to learn from them, that's just how it is. I 100% agree that cheating is wrong, but it happens all the time, for so many different reasons. People have moments of weakness, they're only human. I know a lot of amazing and smart people who have cheated, it happens to the best of us. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| I was quite specifically talking about people who go out of their way to cheat and be dishonest. Did you miss that part? |
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