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Cheaters (pg. 7)
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| ~C~ |
| quote: | Originally posted by Endlesswave
Maybe, some women are attracted to men that are already attached and think "why is he with her? I'm better than her and should be banging him, and if I can get him to bang me then I'm hotter than her", maybe it's an ego thing?? |
LOL. I don't know many women that think like that. Usually it's the attached man, that pursues the unattached female, or vice versa. I don't know anyone that purposely seeks out ppl that are already in relationships. That's just ed. |
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| Endlesswave |
| quote: | Originally posted by ~C~
LOL. I don't know many women that think like that. Usually it's the attached man, that pursues the unattached female, or vice versa. I don't know anyone that purposely seeks out ppl that are already in relationships. That's just ed. |
Ah. Fair enough. Well it does take two to tango no? I say ego still plays a big deal, as well as insecurity issues obviously. I dunno.
I can't really say b/c I don't date (or haven't really) in the past so what do I know? |
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| Silky Johnson |
| Of course it takes two to tango. And making it "an ego thing" doesn't excuse it. ing other people's partners is a warped way to satisfy one's sense of self worth. |
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Pie
Of course it takes two to tango. And making it "an ego thing" doesn't excuse it. ing other people's partners is a warped way to satisfy one's sense of self worth. |
well, people are warped in general and this isn't the worst thing that people do to each other. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| I never said it was. I don't think it's wrong to have high expectations of people, rather than just accepting that "people are warped anyways". That's how people end up surrounded by s. Lol. |
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| Endlesswave |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Pie
Of course it takes two to tango. And making it "an ego thing" doesn't excuse it. ing other people's partners is a warped way to satisfy one's sense of self worth. |
Of course. I was in no way coming up with an excuse for it. Just thinking of why people might do it. Some might want the 'best of both worlds' where they have the illusion of being free enough to bang someone else while in a relationship. Douchey for sure.
Either way, I agree w Eric, if it's going down hill to where it needs to end, end it.
Also, Jenny of course w the high expecations, you're in a relationship, certain things should be important! |
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| Silky Johnson |
| I don't think it's really a mystery why people do it. I think the point of Eric's thread here is to talk about what pieces of cheaters are, exactly because we know why they do it. So let's just carry on with that. Lololololol. |
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| Endlesswave |
| Sure. Douchebags! |
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| Silky Johnson |
| :stongue: :stongue: |
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| Endlesswave |
lol
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| *~LiSa-LoO~* |
I think there's a big difference btwn people who do it over and over and don't even care, and people who mess up one time. Maybe in some instances "once a cheater, always a cheater." But there are also cases where people do it because they aren't happy and make a mistake, and that mistake pushes them into dealing with their unhappiness and fixing it. That being said, I am not trying to justify people who make a mistake one time - cheating is always wrong. And yes, making out is still cheating.
And while I think there's a hell of a lot of people out there that do cheat, I hate blanket statements like "all women cheat" or "all men cheat" b/c it's not true. If you believe that, it's probably just b/c you're a cheating jerk that's just trying to justify your actions by telling yourself that everyone does it. |
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| VDub |
I cheated on JenniePie once...
Won't be doing that again... |
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