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Cheaters (pg. 6)
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| Spin Laden |
| you guys are the other half.. half the peeps here have cheated, maybe even Bedpan Betty. An anonymous poll would give you a statistical idea at least. |
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| Intangible |
| quote: | Originally posted by Yohan
man, this sounds like a challenge |
tota game night? lol
Cheating in a relationship I still cant ever see me doing. If you aren't in it sexually or mentally, _or if something has you curious its time to end it ... or at least take a break and figure your out.
I find cheating somewhat forgivable if the person breaks up with the person immediately after... but if cheaters stay in the relationship... That REALLY pisses me off |
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| Endlesswave |
Even if they break it off immediately after... :(, still cheating.
I say people should just end it then do your thing. ;) |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Intangible
I find cheating somewhat forgivable if the person breaks up with the person immediately after... |
How is that forgivable? They still haven't been honest with the person. Coming out AFTER the fact is not honesty. If anything it's just a way for the person to absolve their guilt.
Are honesty and respect not important to people anymore?
edit: Oh you said BREAK UP. I thought you meant came clean. Lol, that's even worse!! Even more cowardly, lol. |
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| ~C~ |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
back to the matter at hand, People with no self control, can't evaluate situations, too chicken with no confidence...are we missing anything else???
id love to see some people who have cheated in the past come out and tell their story so we can try to get an understanding. Because really I've been in a few long term relationships in my time and I have never wanted to cheat. when the fire was dead it was dead, we addressed it and parted ways. It's not a happy moment when you break up with someone you have spent years with but its the right thing to do. Then you're free to bang who you want. |
I think you already touched on it. I think a lot of ppl that cheat are insecure, and terrified to be alone. BUT, there's also ppl that have no concern for anyone but themselves, and just cheat because they think they can get away with it. I think there's genuinely good people that can and will cheat, and regret it, and have a conscience, and then there's selfish ppl that just really don't give a about anyone but themselves. It's a sick game to some people to see what they can get away with, and for how long.
| quote: | Originally posted by Intangible
I find cheating somewhat forgivable if the person breaks up with the person immediately after... but if cheaters stay in the relationship... That REALLY pisses me off |
That's def. worse....I agree.
Not everyone is perfect people. People will make mistakes. If they learn from it, and don't do it again, that's what matters imo. |
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| Vivid Boy |
ya thats like sayin i knew our relationship was for me but i was too chicken to do anything so instead of making me feel bad about it< i decided to boost my confidence by in someone else now im so guilty feel so bad i got to run from my problem...peace.
what happened to "this isnt working, im sorry we should go our separate ways" then calling a booty call the following weekend and having a rebound? |
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| evil_cookie |
Cheating only sucks if you're the one who got cheated.
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| ~C~ |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
ya thats like sayin i knew our relationship was for me but i was too chicken to do anything so instead of making me feel bad about it< i decided to boost my confidence by in someone else now im so guilty feel so bad i got to run from my problem...peace.
what happened to "this isnt working, im sorry we should go our separate ways" then calling a booty call the following weekend and having a rebound? |
I agree with you. It's def. a selfish, and cowardly way to deal with things. |
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| jad |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
Personally i have no respect for that . If you want to live a single life and random people then just break up and be single. And why do whore bags feel so attracted to men with gfs?
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Cause they're road-tested.
Cheating is sleazy. |
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| jad |
| quote: | Originally posted by evil_cookie
Cheating only sucks if you're the one who got cheated.
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Ahaha nice one :P |
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| Endlesswave |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
Personally i have no respect for that . If you want to live a single life and random people then just break up and be single. And why do whore bags feel so attracted to men with gfs?
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Maybe, some women are attracted to men that are already attached and think "why is he with her? I'm better than her and should be banging him, and if I can get him to bang me then I'm hotter than her", maybe it's an ego thing?? |
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| Silky Johnson |
| Sure it is. But if you're older than 17 and still make choices based on ego/at the expense of others, you've got issues. |
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