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Is it true attractive women live in a reality dominated by cock? (pg. 5)
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| shaw |
| quote: | Originally posted by david.michael
"Ogling Avana" is my new screamo band's name |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
It just needs to be circumcised right? |
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| yukii |
| quote: | Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
It just needs to be circumcised right?
Right Yukii? |
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| wienerschnitzel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Joss Weatherby
It just needs to be circumcised right?
Right Yukii? |
lol SEE!! SEE! NOU BRINGS IT UP!
as you were, people..:stongue: |
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| nefardec |
| quote: | Originally posted by dj_alfi
Imo, looking a women up and down once, and possibly turn your head to see her walk by is perfectly okay, and many women like that. I doubt they put on slinky dresses unless they'd want the attention. But when it goes from a quick look to outright staring, that's not only tacky but disrespectful.
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sure. but sometimes women don't necessarily want to look good for the sake of the opposite sex. sometimes just for friends, and sometimes it's just fun to dress up and look nice and feel confident about oneself. Yes that can be attractive to others, and sometimes acknowledgment can be nice, but other times people can simply be invasive. There are certain appropriate occasions and situations for approaching someone, and other times it's rude, creepy, or frightening. Some guys get that, others don't. I think women in general are more sensitive to this, and men feel entitled more often to take whatever they want. Just because a woman looks pretty doesn't mean she wants to talk to you or waste a part of her night out with any random John Douche.
Not to mention that it's also heterosexist to assume automatically that a woman is interested in men even if she's actively expressing affection to another woman. Some guys actually believe they can 'turn a lesbian straight'. :haha: |
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| Zyklon_Jay |
| What about women who oogle men? You bitches are not exactly June cleaver anymore, and are pretty aggressive these days. If they know you have a gf, they can be even worse. |
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| nefardec |
| quote: | Originally posted by Zyklon_Jay
What about women who oogle men? You bitches are not exactly June cleaver anymore, and are pretty aggressive these days. If they know you have a gf, they can be even worse. |
i brought this up already - it's another thread.
ogling is disrespectful all around, IMO. I think it's sexist that some women think they can get away with it simply because they are women. |
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| Zyklon_Jay |
| quote: | Originally posted by nefardec
i brought this up already - it's another thread.
ogling is disrespectful all around, IMO. I think it's sexist that some women think they can get away with it simply because they are women. |
I got my grabbed the other week right in front of my gf. Needless to say what happened afterward was more than a little annoying. Had i known that 21 year old girls love men in their 30's so damn much, i would have turned 30 a long time ago. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by nefardec
I don't know how else to communicate this to you. It's not OK to ogle someone, it is disrespectful. Ogling is not just looking. And the ogling is often accompanied by a rude remark or cat call, also disrespectful. And yes, plenty of people do this, but the reality is it comes more from men because it's more established as 'normal' 'male' behavior in modern society. I'm not at all saying it should be this way, this is just what we're working with. |
I do get what you're saying and I wouldn't disagree with you for a moment if you said blue-collar culture puts too much emphasis on male aggression. However, I'd draw the limit in an altogether different place: I used to be ogled in Japan (and I love that country for that :p) even when my fiancée was by my side and angrily stuffing her cheeks like a blowfish ready to charge. Was it disrespectful? I'd be hard-pressed to say yes, because I really can't see how that affects me or anything related to me in any way.
Rude remarks maybe are degrading because they expose you in public in an unflattering way... but silent ogling? I find it hard to follow you that far. |
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| Zyklon_Jay |
It certainly affected your gf....which should be relative if you enjoy your relationship:p
I'm not really jealous, and I kind of enjoy it when my gf gets looked at. That being said, when it is flagrant and I'm standing right there, I do occasionally get the urge to play Jay the Dentist and give the dude a "Gordie Special" right in his grill.
It just feels disrespectful towards me, and alpha males don't play that puto. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by Zyklon_Jay
It certainly affected your gf....which should be relative if you enjoy your relationship:p |
Not really, we both just laughed about it later - it was more of a territory marking thing :p
She had never noticed how brazen girls are there. |
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| Zyklon_Jay |
| It was the same in Korea. I felt like i had a 40 inch penis. |
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