What is the best way to approach females without coming off as creepy? I've never been very good at it and I rarely approach women in the wild. It's awkward at clubs BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO TALK REALLY LOUD basically scream in her ear and I never know what to say anyway. It's not worth the effort if you've got nothing to say (or nothing meaningful beyond superficial comments about her appearance). Pickup lines are just embarrassing for everyone but I've heard of a few that might work. So what methods do you guys use? Any of you alphas out there have any advice?
LAdazeNYnights
yeah I very rarely approach girls but occasionally it just seems like the right moment and then it works out. generally you have nothing to lose. if your nights out are music-oriented then there's always the really easy discussion about the current music/party.
leading in with something that simple will elicit a response one way or another and you should be able to gauge if she's interested in having a conversation or wishes you'd stfu and let her enjoy herself. if she seems up for a conversation you can impress her with your knowledge of the tranz/haus/tekn0. if she's totally daft then you can always resort to "hey have you heard of this guy - dead mau five?"
ziptnf
It's automatically creepy if the first thing you talk about to a girl is her appearance. Talk about the party, make fun of that drunk retard over there who is dancing like a lunatic. Ask her where she's from.
To quote Biggie:
"Most of these niggaz think they be mackin but they be actin
Who they attractin with that line, "What's your name what's your sign?"
Soon as he buy that wine I just creep up from behind And ask what your interests are, who you be with
Things to make you smile, what numbers to dial
You gon' be here for a while, I'm gon' go call my crew
You go call your crew
We can rendezvous at the bar around two"
Vector A
Women are just human beings like you, who like to talk about all sorts of stuff with people who are not boring. Sometimes, but probably not most of the time, they will even want to have sex with you.
Act accordingly, I guess.
dj_alfi
punch them in the arm and run away
knowhope
After approaching, just let them give off the signal and follow them. Let them lead, focus on reading.
Silky Johnson
I'm not single, but guys talk to me all the time when I'm out....and I would have to agree that the most successful ones (the ones I don't start to rip on for being fags/lame), usually talk about how great the music is, have I been a fan of this DJ for long? etc. Even basic like asking where I'm from or what I do works. I guess it works on the premise that people love to talk about themselves...so get women talking about themselves and you're golden. :p
Moral Hazard
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Originally posted by Miss Pie
I'm not single, but guys talk to me all the time when I'm out....and I would have to agree that the most successful ones (the ones I don't start to rip on for being fags/lame), usually talk about how great the music is, have I been a fan of this DJ for long? etc. Even basic like asking where I'm from or what I do works. I guess it works on the premise that people love to talk about themselves...so get women talking about themselves and you're golden. :p
Wait, so you didn't go for my "hey wanna be penetrated?" line? Were you just leading me on?
Vector A
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Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Wait, so you didn't go for my "hey wanna be penetrated?" line? Were you just leading me on?
Dude, "wanna be penetrated?" shows a total lack of confidence and game. You have to come right out and specify an orifice to show you're a man who knows what he wants.
jonSun
walk up to them & start smelling their hair. then comment on their hair conditioner
Aureliou
All you need to know is contained within this video
Meat187
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Originally posted by Aureliou
All you need to know is contained within this video
Indeed it is. You can only successfully approach a girl while What is Love is playing. It's a scientific fact.
