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| LoCa |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Powerful weak!
(haha, sorry, Simpsons addict)
But yeah, so we're in agreement. ;) I would never say this. I wouldn't say "you're a ing slut" either. It's best just to state the obvious, that the two people in question are obviously not right for each other. |
i would probably say " you're a ing slut".... i suppose that's why i've never had any "nice'" breakups.
Can't stand even knowing my exes are alive... all bastards really :D |
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| hitokiri |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Crazy that I just noticed this thread, since it's huge. Since everybody else is doing it, figure I might as well share my story.
Sometimes, I think some girls have learned to do this to test guys. To see what they'll put up with. When you're on their "potential intellectual wh0re" list, they'll jerk you around for a while, then one day see you or call you up and pretend that everything's okay and that nothing ever happened (they definitely won't apologize or offer an explanation). If you give in, they'll do it again and again, until you're their non-sexual bitch.
My attitude is to be a complete gentleman until/unless I get jerked around. Then I immediately turn into a cold-hearted . No warnings, no backing down. They should know better than to with guys, but they don't, because of the wimpy guys that go around telling them "don't worry, you deserve better, you'll find someone who will treat you like a queen right from the start" - these guys apparently don't realize that those guys who treat them like queens get blown off in seconds.
The EXACT same thing happened to me as in the first post, she was never around and took 2 weeks to return messages. Eventually I stopped calling. Last time I saw this one at a party, I didn't even look at her, and after a few times of passing by her and paying no attention, she grabbed me aside and tried to make me pay attention. This happened a couple times on the same night, and each time I basically just stood there giving 1 word answers until she ran out of conversation, then I walked away. I could see she hated every minute of it. Let me say right off the bat that I don't enjoy doing this, it's hard doing it to a cute girl that I like, but she ed up, and if she's not ready to explain herself, then I'm not ready to give her the time of day. That's my viewpoint.
So my advice to anyone else who goes through this is, stop associating with them, period. Happiness is all relative, and if you can't make yourself feel better, at least you can make them feel a lot worse. They may try to blame it on you, but the point is, you don't really give two s. |
u know i completely agree with u on this specially the 3rd paragraph its so true its happened to me im not gonna go into details but its hard just shuttin her out but do it an afterward u ll forget bout her an move on if it was meant to be she ll come back after she realized a good thing went byor maybe not point is dun stress it an waste ur time on it lifes to short that all
"a mans test in life... is a woman" - dave chappelle |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by LoCa
i would probably say " you're a ing slut".... i suppose that's why i've never had any "nice'" breakups.
Can't stand even knowing my exes are alive... all bastards really :D |
OUCH!
Does Carlos know this!?
:p
I told my ex that she was selfish, immature, naïve, insensitive, bitchy, shallow, insecure, unrealistic, impulsive, possessing no grace or social skills, and that her life lacked any kind of direction or meaning, but not that she was a slut. :p Hey, I was honest, and you can't hang a guy for telling the truth!
We still talk on occasion btw. :haha: |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
OUCH!
Does Carlos know this!?
:p
I told my ex that she was selfish, immature, naïve, insensitive, bitchy, shallow, insecure, unrealistic, impulsive, possessing no grace or social skills, and that her life lacked any kind of direction or meaning, but not that she was a slut. :p Hey, I was honest, and you can't hang a guy for telling the truth!
We still talk on occasion btw. :haha: |
you sound a little bitter over her. |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
you sound a little bitter over her. |
lol... me? Nahhhh... not now I'm not, I moved on many months ago.
But yes, I was bitter like a turnip in horseradish when I said that to her, obviously. Like I said, I can turn into an reaaaal fast if somebody jerks me around. |
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| Orbax |
Here is my journal entry I later turned into my speech, I actually covered pretty muche verything when I said this to her
Today i spent most of my time playing Jedi Knight 2, a most excellent game. My spare moments were mainly devoted to (name of bitch AKA NOB) Nob's ed up e-mail to me. It was a long e-mail trying to explain to me, WALKER, that she is more independent, wordly, and all around more intelligent than myself. She talks about living in the Windy City of Chicago, the most blue collar, industrial city in the U.S. besides Detroit. She called ME sheltered, this coming from some chick who learned how to do laundry when she was TWENTY FOUR YEARS OLD. She talks about knowing what "ghetto" means and she satys sge has seen ghetto.Does she even know that ghettos were originally a walled off portion of English cities that non-christians lived in?
It only became "popular" when the Nazis used Jews skin and hair to make lampshades and pillows. The place where Jews awaited processing and eventual death by gunshot, incineration, or cruel medical experiments, were Ghettos. This woman had the ing cajones to tell me that she KNOWS ghetto? What an ignorant bitch. Not to mention Selfish for thinking that her experience is more visceral and real than holocaust, or Burning Wind, survivors (editors note that last line is weak and I omitted it in the speech). I bet she does even know that thats what Holocaust means. She is also selfish in other aspexts. She walks into a room and immediately starts having Logorrhea, which means excessive talking, kind of like a turkey squirt coming out of your face. Because it is that offensive.
I seriously dont know what would be worse, poop coming out of someones mouth or listening to them talk and talk and TALK FOR ING EVER about themselves!!!!! Thats all she ing does! Oh! HI! im NOB, NOB (lastname)! Here is something about me, or Pearl as my mom calls me! And my mom is beautiful and perfect and Im her pearl and im going to be like ehr, Nob, Nob, Nob, Nob, NOB.
like the dude says, "why dont you ing LISTEN for once, you might learn something". She talks about people could CARE LESS about. ING SPARE US PLEEEEASE!!!!!Everything is about her. She sometimes asks about me because she thinks im cute, and wants my ass. So besides the fact that she is unrepentently selfish (because she isnt Christian even though she thinks she believes in a God), she is ignorant and lets be blunt, stupid. She doesnt even get the fact that people couldnt care less about the dull, boring, low class she is spewing out of her mouth half the time. LIKE I CARE THAT SOMEONE I DONT KNOW IS 3 YEARS OLDER THAN YOU!!! SPARE ME!!
How could I possibly care about that? I DONT! and no else does either. So you cant understand PEOPLE, which is what you are (i think). Brilliant. ing Brilliant. So after she sends the email (editors note: ill post it next) she realizes how ing stupid it was and starts crying. Well if you are crying you must be really...stupid? Not only were the things you said in the email completely indefensible, when not made up out of thin air entirely, but you lack the conviction and strength of character to stand by them. You are, for recap, and those of our readers that have just joined, Selfish, Ignorant, Stupid, spineless, weak, lacking in character, and a false-christian.
So now she is all panicky thinking WHAT DID I DO?!?! So she says "I just felt I needed to stand up for myself"
Against what you dumb bitch and I dont use that term lightly. Dumb, and you are a bitch for the way you handled all of this. In a ing email, you gutless coward. Im sorry, you are forgiven, I hold no ill will towards you, but we are no longer friends, this act has me med think about you and the behaviors you have chosen to follow. You lie about being a Christian (editors note LOTS more history behind the Christian thing...) you are ignornat. You are stupid by choice. You are weak in will and character. You wallow in self-pity. You have low self-esteem and are totally unaccepting of yourself (editors note: I love that line, after I rip her a new one I get pissed about her feeling ty for herself ! ahahahah!). You talk a lot about nothing. You lack substance. You are not my friend, and I begin to wonder if you ever were. I was YOUR friend, but were you mind? No. and now you never will be.
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thats pretty much what I told her, but I was also to insert a logic stucture into my speech where I narrowed it down to a "are you stupid or just dont listen" choice and made her pick which one before I continued.
Best break up IVE ever had hehe. ill post email next :D |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | | Dumb, and you are a bitch for the way you handled all of this. In a ing email, you gutless coward. |
at least she used email. i've had it done to me over IM. i hate breakups. |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
at least she used email. i've had it done to me over IM. i hate breakups. |
Are you trying to say that e-mail is better than IM? It doesn't get any more impersonal than e-mail, you're not even giving the other person the opportunity to respond to your comments as they come. It's like leaving a message on someone's voice mail compared to saying it on the phone with them.
I've actually noticed recently that girls like to use e-mail and the Internet in general when they don't have the guts to say something up front... that's why if I ask a girl her number, and she gives me her e-mail address, I walk away. |
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| Orbax |
The worst might be an answering machine hehe. I cant find her EMAIL! we went to a club and she asked if she looked good. So i said you look ghetto, youre the most ghetto person I know.
next morning BAM i get this emial calling me sheltered and shes had a black friend and a mexican friend so she KNOWS ghetto... im like ha this is a joke right. Then she said that was her beef with me and she just needed to defend herself.
ENDED HER EMAIL with you looked good last night, I care about you a lot lets play tennis soon...
NOB "the jerk"
... my e-mail response was
You are lucky you are not a man
that sent her into 3 days of crying in her bed not eating. I finally had to talk to her because her friends were worried about her health... hey zeus!
then 2 weeks later I met her at the party and she asked whats wrong...Speech time!
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im still trying to get over an IM breakup...thats just gay. SO GAY. I have NEVER had someone that chicken. ive always broken up in person, face to face....some people. |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Are you trying to say that e-mail is better than IM? It doesn't get any more impersonal than e-mail, you're not even giving the other person the opportunity to respond to your comments as they come. It's like leaving a message on someone's voice mail compared to saying it on the phone with them.
I've actually noticed recently that girls like to use e-mail and the Internet in general when they don't have the guts to say something up front... that's why if I ask a girl her number, and she gives me her e-mail address, I walk away. |
idk... i guess you do have a point. but at least with email it is better articulated than IM. either way, i dont think breakups should be done over the computer. |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
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im still trying to get over an IM breakup...thats just gay. SO GAY. I have NEVER had someone that chicken. ive always broken up in person, face to face....some people. |
i forgave them. but my opinion of them dropped a lot. this was one of three cases where he broke up with me then went out with a friend of mine. i am cursed. |
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| Orbax |
actually he didnt go out with your friend. he went out with your acquaintance
ac·quain·tance ( P ) Pronunciation Key (-kwntns)
n.
Knowledge of a person acquired by a relationship less intimate than friendship.
A relationship based on such knowledge: struck up an acquaintance with our new neighbor.
A person whom one knows.
your friends wouldnt date your ex. |
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