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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
forget about her. dont call, dont even mention her in conversation. Shell only be able to stand that for a bit, and shell come crawling back. that first time she does is important though. Whatever her date is say NO, and say how about (then something 6 days later).
honest to God, you have to be a challenge. They key is actually forgetting about her though (Swingers had that part nailed the down) somehow they always know when youre just pretending, you gotta actually forget about them. Ive had girls who called me 4 months after I stopped talking to them. I mean at that point I just said (after about 2 mins of convo) yeah well I gotta go, good tlaking to you, and hung up and went and turned the TV on again.
Games suck. but there is a thing called psychology that you have to be aware of. Women PLAY GAMES UNINTENTIONALLY, they are Weird weird creatures and they dont know it, but get too close and they cut you off, to clingy they cut you off, TOO INTERESTED they cut you off, they think YOU LOVE THEM TOO MUCH youre a goner. with women everything in Moderation is MORE important thaN EVER and ERR ON THE SIDE of frugality!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
minimal amounts of time, effort, love (showed), talking. ALWAYS be in control of the conversations that you DO have. you ALWAYS end a conversation. Women dont want to be the powerful one in a relationship (no matter what they say). They want a remote tough guy who wont balk when life gets hard. Its evolution man, think about it. They want a mate that wont be so attached to them, that itll try to make her happy at the expense of other things like, being able to provide for offspring, house, cars, money, jewelery etc....cuz those things are more important. they show you are doing the right thing, regardless of your love for her, and thatll make the love even more.
\pant pant ok im done |
3rd paragrah: right on.
4th paragraph: that's twisted dude. |
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| Orbax |
your odds of finding a woman who doesnt think this way are next to 0, mate, and this way is actually better cuz youll end up with a chick who you can go to work, go on vacation, go hang out with the guys, and her love will have increased by the time you get home. Like I said, they are weird as , but it does kind of make sense.
I usually just get drunk too, because at the moment they are more trouble than they are worth. I want all my money for me, and whenever I go out and do something, I have to limit myself so I dont outstrip them in all categories of ability. drinking/hiking whatever. Its just the way the world works. So id rather get throwing up drunk in my room alone, than go with some chick to a club and only be able to have 2 expensive ass beers which arent that great. No thanks.
Ill just go to house parties at the Uni and have fun with drunk girls :D |
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| Orbax |
| twisted that there are guys out there who know all your dirty little secrets?!?!? |
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| LiveTheDream |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
your odds of finding a woman who doesnt think this way are next to 0, mate |
What about bisexuals. |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
twisted that there are guys out there who know all your dirty little secrets?!?!? |
no twisted that you think that way. some women truly are genuine. |
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| Orbax |
the apellation after the sexual orientation is the part you have to worry about.
but, on the other hand people who are all ed up are gonna be weird anyways. Those are unknowns, and I cant give an equation for them. its more of an ad hoc kind of thing for those. |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
no twisted that you think that way. some women truly are genuine. |
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| Orbax |
k here is a more honest response to that.
genuineness does not = agressiveness, forwardness, or openness.
MOST girls you come into contact act like the aforementioned ones.
So some girl acting "genuine" (whatever THAT means) will = no interested to most guys, and they will think they got shot down.
unless the girl clearly states/acts in a way that lets a man know that she is interested, shes gonna bomb.
EVEN THEN, the girl i kicked out of bed...we had had sooooo many talks about how she "doesnt play games" "always speaks whats on her mind"....basically I had already told her all the that women do to piss me off. and she regurgitated it quite well.
So you never know. Which is why I err on the side of, Im gonna be slightly assholish like most women want, so I dont overextend and get thrown down. |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
k here is a more honest response to that.
genuineness does not = agressiveness, forwardness, or openness.
MOST girls you come into contact act like the aforementioned ones.
So some girl acting "genuine" (whatever THAT means) will = no interested to most guys, and they will think they got shot down.
unless the girl clearly states/acts in a way that lets a man know that she is interested, shes gonna bomb.
EVEN THEN, the girl i kicked out of bed...we had had sooooo many talks about how she "doesnt play games" "always speaks whats on her mind"....basically I had already told her all the that women do to piss me off. and she regurgitated it quite well.
So you never know. Which is why I err on the side of, Im gonna be slightly assholish like most women want, so I dont overextend and get thrown down. |
you are jaded. i hope you find a woman who you can be open and honest with. sounds like you play games with the best of them. |
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| LiveTheDream |
| I feel like my brain is going to explode. |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by LiveTheDream
I feel like my brain is going to explode. |
go smoke a bowl. you'll be fine. |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
you are jaded. i hope you find a woman who you can be open and honest with. sounds like you play games with the best of them. |
jaded is world-weary hehe, im just a misogynist :D
Once I have hooked a girl, i open up, and its all good.
I play games out of neccessity (if I want a date).
but right now...women are just too much fookin work. and add uber levels of stress to your life. If nothing else worry about them being happy will make you stress.
My viewpoint is that women are fragile in a LOT of ways, no matter how tough they act, and that the constant fretting over them (even if they never see any of it) is hard on a guy. I walk girls who are friends of friends back to their dorms/apartments after 7pm because I dont think women should walk alone on the streets. Im that kind of guy. I know there is messed up , and I want to protect them.
So basically it boils down to my techniques are utilized less and less as the relationship progresses, and are pretty much stopped after you both open up and just admit some .
Like I said hehe, this is why i am not dating right now. Its a pain in the ass @ first, and I want to supercharge my car right now, so I cant worry about it all
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I almost forgot. After the age 26 or so YOU DONT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT THIS AS MUCH. Women have gone from relationship to relationship and finally figured out that...SHOCK OF SHOCKS!!!! Guys hate having to ing do this stuff to get a date. So they actually start acting like they enjoy your presence if they do!!! Things get a lot more normal later on, have hope...cept your girlfriend wont be a virgin, and she'll put you to shame in bed, and your caring about her might annoy her hardened heart a bit.
All in all, Women are messed up, forever.
Hope that makes you happy lol |
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