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mixed signals. (pg. 3)
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| politicsofdancin |
| give it a week..if she doesn't call you or answer your phone calls, then i think you should move on...that is why it is very important not to get your hopes up when you first meet someone coz of these circumstances... |
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| LiveTheDream |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ M.G
She is probably taking you for a mug,
I wouldnt bother ringing her |
Thats that i was thinking, but i nomaly can see it coming from a mile away when someone is trying to take me as a mug. |
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| insecurity |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ M.G
She is probably taking you for a mug,
I wouldnt bother ringing her |
Agree. If you are always calling her you come across as desperate & insecure. If she wants you, let her come to you, otherwise count your losses & move on. |
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| LiveTheDream |
| quote: | Originally posted by insecurity
Agree. If you are always calling her you come across as desperate & insecure. If she wants you, let her come to you, otherwise count your losses & move on. |
Agreed |
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| DJ M.G |
Then she is trying to play a game with you,
My ex did something simmilar with me towards the end we were going out for 7 months and i didnt even see it
Girls can be evil bitches when they want to be.
She wrote me a bitchy letter telling me that she wanted to make me "Fall In Love With Her" so that she could finish with me when i least expected it, and she did it by text, but she did live 20 miles from me and we only saw eachother like 3/4 times a week.
But anyway still a bitch |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ M.G
Then she is trying to play a game with you,
My ex did something simmilar with me towards the end we were going out for 7 months and i didnt even see it
Girls can be evil bitches when they want to be.
She wrote me a bitchy letter telling me that she wanted to make me "Fall In Love With Her" so that she could finish with me when i least expected it, and she did it by text, but she did live 20 miles from me and we only saw eachother like 3/4 times a week.
But anyway still a bitch |
games suck. |
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| DJ M.G |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
games suck. |
Yes they sure do butterfly, as i found out |
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| insecurity |
| Girls like a guy who is confident. If you follow her around like a puppy she will lose respect for you & piss all over you. Being a door mat is so uncool. Invest time in someone who will appreciate you. Good luck |
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| LiveTheDream |
| quote: | Originally posted by insecurity
Girls like a guy who is confident. If you follow her around like a puppy she will lose respect for you & piss all over you. Being a door mat is so uncool. Invest time in someone who will appreciate you. Good luck |
Last wendays i agreed to meet up with her in a pub, in my town, i was on my way there and i get a call from a mate, wanting to borrow some from my house, am like
Me "am in town"
Him "oh i am ment to be meeting richard at yates, go in and tell him am not going to be there"
Me "ok"
Whent to yates waited ages and he came in,
richard "you meeting someone?"
Me "yea, but ill have a drink, she will wait"
2 MINS LATER I GET A PHONE CALL
Her "where are you?"
Me "in yates ill be there in 10 mins"
her "no ill come to yates"
me "no wait with your mates ill be there in 10mins"
her "no am coming"
When am with her she is the cliniy one who follows me like a sheep, but i dont mind. |
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| Mister_Michel |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ M.G
we only saw eachother like 3/4 times a week. |
Only?
I can see mine only 2 a week or something :( |
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| Orbax |
forget about her. dont call, dont even mention her in conversation. Shell only be able to stand that for a bit, and shell come crawling back. that first time she does is important though. Whatever her date is say NO, and say how about (then something 6 days later).
honest to God, you have to be a challenge. They key is actually forgetting about her though (Swingers had that part nailed the down) somehow they always know when youre just pretending, you gotta actually forget about them. Ive had girls who called me 4 months after I stopped talking to them. I mean at that point I just said (after about 2 mins of convo) yeah well I gotta go, good tlaking to you, and hung up and went and turned the TV on again.
Games suck. but there is a thing called psychology that you have to be aware of. Women PLAY GAMES UNINTENTIONALLY, they are Weird weird creatures and they dont know it, but get too close and they cut you off, to clingy they cut you off, TOO INTERESTED they cut you off, they think YOU LOVE THEM TOO MUCH youre a goner. with women everything in Moderation is MORE important thaN EVER and ERR ON THE SIDE of frugality!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
minimal amounts of time, effort, love (showed), talking. ALWAYS be in control of the conversations that you DO have. you ALWAYS end a conversation. Women dont want to be the powerful one in a relationship (no matter what they say). They want a remote tough guy who wont balk when life gets hard. Its evolution man, think about it. They want a mate that wont be so attached to them, that itll try to make her happy at the expense of other things like, being able to provide for offspring, house, cars, money, jewelery etc....cuz those things are more important. they show you are doing the right thing, regardless of your love for her, and thatll make the love even more.
\pant pant ok im done |
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| LiveTheDream |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
forget about her. dont call, dont even mention her in conversation. Shell only be able to stand that for a bit, and shell come crawling back. that first time she does is important though. Whatever her date is say NO, and say how about (then something 6 days later).
honest to God, you have to be a challenge. They key is actually forgetting about her though (Swingers had that part nailed the down) somehow they always know when youre just pretending, you gotta actually forget about them. Ive had girls who called me 4 months after I stopped talking to them. I mean at that point I just said (after about 2 mins of convo) yeah well I gotta go, good tlaking to you, and hung up and went and turned the TV on again.
Games suck. but there is a thing called psychology that you have to be aware of. Women PLAY GAMES UNINTENTIONALLY, they are Weird weird creatures and they dont know it, but get too close and they cut you off, to clingy they cut you off, TOO INTERESTED they cut you off, they think YOU LOVE THEM TOO MUCH youre a goner. with women everything in Moderation is MORE important thaN EVER and ERR ON THE SIDE of frugality!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
minimal amounts of time, effort, love (showed), talking. ALWAYS be in control of the conversations that you DO have. you ALWAYS end a conversation. Women dont want to be the powerful one in a relationship (no matter what they say). They want a remote tough guy who wont balk when life gets hard. Its evolution man, think about it. They want a mate that wont be so attached to them, that itll try to make her happy at the expense of other things like, being able to provide for offspring, house, cars, money, jewelery etc....cuz those things are more important. they show you are doing the right thing, regardless of your love for her, and thatll make the love even more.
\pant pant ok im done |
:cool: You make aload of sence, wich is sad becoue i just dont have the energy to play mind games. Too much assile, i think ill got to the pub.
Cheer anyway:crazy: |
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