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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
i hope you are right. the hard part is letting go of the ones you care about but they dont care about you. i need to do that now and i dont know how. |
i just get drunk and delete their names and stuff from all of my phones, emails and stuff. That way I couldnt talk to them if I wanted to.
^^serious |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
if its gonna be 2 years before you get a degree though...?
short term- long distance is fine, especially if after you plan on moving in together. But if its just another i like you, you like me, thing, dont bother. |
Well the situation I was in was -
This girl and I had been dating for quite a while. All of last year during school pretty much (on and off). A lot of her friends had already moved away and she kind of latched on to me. I mean I cared alot about her and her about me, but I don't think it was fully a real relationship, just a matter of 'convenience' (for lack of a better word - don't take that the wrong way). Then she graduated May, and I am in December. But as she's been down there we've both kind of been doing our own thing and been happy like that so we decided it wasn't worth it.
And now I've met this new girl who is graduating in December and moving to my city. She's exactly like me, we've spent days on end together and not gotten bored. Life was fun again after I met her.
This time I care to keep the distance thing to a minimal issue, since we both already have made the effort to go visit one another, etc ... |
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| PhloTron |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
k you might have misunderstood me. |
| quote: | ...by orbax
what did you mean |
probably misunderstood as well...when you get older people that are ...ahem..."used goods" are those which have kids already, are divorced already (maybe more than once), or co-habitated with others for a long period of time (i.e. might as well been married)...the older you get, the more of these people that are in your age group fit into this category...and for me...these aren't the people that I relate too..simple as that.
It's beyond simple "experience" which is just fine and by then probably more common place at this age.
Thus Orbax's definition of "used" jokingly..is diffent than mine.
sorry to make you *snap* :)
bahh...now remain on topic...:D |
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| DaveSaenz |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
no twisted that you think that way. some women truly are genuine. |
Some people are genuine.
For some reason I seem to have this 6th sense about "fake" people. I just avoid those people for the most part.:)
Don't ask me to explain what "genuine" is, because all I could tell you is it's the opposite of "fake." It's something I can just "feel" and can't put into words. I'm sure I'm not the only one though.
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| LiveTheDream |
| quote: | Originally posted by DaveSaenz
Some people are genuine.
For some reason I seem to have this 6th sense about "fake" people. I just avoid those people for the most part.:)
Don't ask me to explain what "genuine" is, because all I could tell you is it's the opposite of "fake." It's something I can just "feel" and can't put into words. I'm sure I'm not the only one though.
dave |
I feel the same, nomlay i can tell if someone is being fake. |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by PhloTron
probably misunderstood as well...when you get older people that are ...ahem..."used goods" are those which have kids already, are divorced already (maybe more than once), or co-habitated with others for a long period of time (i.e. might as well been married)...the older you get, the more of these people that are in your age group fit into this category...and for me...these aren't the people that I relate too..simple as that.
It's beyond simple "experience" which is just fine and by then probably more common place at this age.
Thus Orbax's definition of "used" jokingly..is diffent than mine.
sorry to make you *snap* :)
bahh...now remain on topic...:D |
wow i REALLY REALLY misunderstood you. and you are completely right. my current relationship is suffering at the moment because of his issues with having been hurt in the past. |
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| Orbax |
sincerity is the key to success, if you can fake that, youve got it made :D
-mark twain or someone |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
i just get drunk and delete their names and stuff from all of my phones, emails and stuff. That way I couldnt talk to them if I wanted to.
^^serious |
i would do that but i am really good with numbers... i deleted my ex's number from my phone but i still remember it. and i deleted his IM name like 10 times only to put it right back when i wanted to talk to him. |
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| Orbax |
i agree with you phlotron... plus I still hate the thought of a woman acting "loose" and in a dave chapellian sense, throwing their vaginas around. Flooding the market so to speak.
"if vagina was a stock, itd be plummeting right now" |
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| LiveTheDream |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
sincerity is the key to success, if you can fake that, youve got it made :D
-mark twain or someone |
sincerity is easy to fake, but i chose not to. |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
i would do that but i am really good with numbers... i deleted my ex's number from my phone but i still remember it. and i deleted his IM name like 10 times only to put it right back when i wanted to talk to him. |
oh...that sucks then hehe. I hate that! |
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| UWM |
Deleting your ex's numbers is better than making the mistake of not deleting them and calling them when you are drunk.
That's just bad news bears. |
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