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My Confusion ( Girls ) (pg. 18)
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| disko-kandi |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
lol, but they *are* successful, as long as they play it out right...
I'm not saying I subscribe to that philosophy, but I'm not going to deny that it works either! |
depends on the kinda girl they wanna get busy with as well, i guess!
different calibre girl -different strategy, different ball game! ;) |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by disko-kandi
depends on the kinda girl they wanna get busy with as well, i guess!
different calibre girl -different strategy, different ball game! ;) |
Sure, can't deny the logic in that.
But I'd hedge my bets on the fact that the "animals" aren't really looking for the qualities you're talking about. The ones that are - the ones that have higher standards in terms of intelligence and stuff - probably lose the race in purely numeric terms. Whether or not they're getting better quality for their decreased quantity is really a subjective call.
I'm not trying to say they're right, I don't go for the trashy ones... just playing devil's advocate here, you can't apply your own standards to other people's relationships (or flings). |
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| KawalaBear |
| quote: | | I understand what you're asking, and it is hard in retrospect to separate who did what. All I know is that when I was interested in someone, I made it known, and not just by twirling my hair or batting an eyelash here and there. But I do agree that some girls don't make it obvious (same could be said for guys though). I maybe made it too obvious |
| quote: | | But I do agree that some girls don't make it obvious (same could be said for guys though). |
If every girl took that advice, same goes for guys but I am pretty simple and I'll straight up tell you if I like you or not most of the time if you ask, or I will show it in some way. I am pretty honest when it comes to feelings because I dont think they should be played with you only get in deep crap if yah lie or play with someones feelings. As for girls well the ones I've met so far I might of cought some of the signals but mostly its a innccent fling nothing more past that. And its usually when I am on vacation or out of town somewhere.
P.S thanks for the great posts, alot of help from mostly everyones post. Keep it coming. ;) |
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| EvilElf_Of_Kryn |
Hmm.... it's hard to know when the girl is showing some signals since you don't exactly stare at her constantly to notice..
I guess u have to be lucky to catch one, like to get more then one eye contact or any other signals. (or i might be wrong and u have to stare :eyes: at her to show that u are interested.) |
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| disko-kandi |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Sure, can't deny the logic in that.
But I'd hedge my bets on the fact that the "animals" aren't really looking for the qualities you're talking about. The ones that are - the ones that have higher standards in terms of intelligence and stuff - probably lose the race in purely numeric terms. Whether or not they're getting better quality for their decreased quantity is really a subjective call.
I'm not trying to say they're right, I don't go for the trashy ones... just playing devil's advocate here, you can't apply your own standards to other people's relationships (or flings). |
yea yea ok. fine.this is stupid. everyone has their own experiences. it's all elastic. can't go 1,2,3 this is what's gonna happen if u do x,y,z. why not write a book on "dating for idiots" then!? haahaha!
hey, btw, nut ~ what's that in your sig?!!? We're a generation of men raised by women... I'm wondering if another woman is really the answer we need... hahahaha! mmmm.... :whip: |
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| discojoe |
| quote: | Originally posted by disko-kandi
don't be condescending! oh yes, fate plays a part in this game! in my game anyways! and destiny is not far behind cos every event is a consequence of your actions at some point. ;) what u believe in is ur cup of tea! this is what i believe in!
...and 'still'...'actually'?!? |
fate.. destiny.. hmmm 20% of the world lives on less than a dollar a day. millions of people have so little food they eat shrubs and mud and drink water with more parasites and bacteria than a toilet bowl. If there is such a thing as fate destiny and happy endings it applies to everyone. It doesnt for millions of people. no fairytail marriage for millions of people around the world. Sorry i dont believe we are destined to live happily ever after with a chosen one. my opinion though
i havnt read most of this.. well really any of this at all. but i can say this. while guys normally just stare at breats with their toungue out and for the most part thats all they really need to be happy. Girls are different. They like a sense of humour usually someone they can have fun with. Iv seen some pretty ugly guys in my life get some pretty in hot girls cause they know how to talk. But for the most part girls just want someone who can take care of them. They'll deny it till they die.. but thats what attracts them. Be honest with yourself girls did you dream of that chemistry lab partner sweeping you off your feet? nah it was the knight in shining armour wasnt it.. learn how to talk to girls and dont fuss about how you look. and dont talk about your homework. you dont really give a .. do you think they do? |
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| Tordan |
| quote: | Originally posted by discojoe
fate.. destiny.. hmmm 20% of the world lives on less than a dollar a day. millions of people have so little food they eat shrubs and mud and drink water with more parasites and bacteria than a toilet bowl. If there is such a thing as fate destiny and happy endings it applies to everyone. It doesnt for millions of people. no fairytail marriage for millions of people around the world. Sorry i dont believe we are destined to live happily ever after with a chosen one. my opinion though
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I'm glad to see someone take a step back and look at the big picture. We're so lucky to be living in the western part of the world. We forget that many people living in the other parts don't even get a choice when it comes to finding a partner. |
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| KawalaBear |
Okay I have nothing against what both of you are saying about the big picture etc... and sympathize with you, but whats with the sudden change of topic here? I have my own problems to deal with there for how do you even think about other peoples problems if its hard enough to solve your own...? Its alot easier to say this on a forum, however I always get screwed cause im too nice, in real life that is.
( just speaking out loud ) |
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| halo20 |
| quote: | Originally posted by discojoe
fate.. destiny.. hmmm 20% of the world lives on less than a dollar a day. millions of people have so little food they eat shrubs and mud and drink water with more parasites and bacteria than a toilet bowl. If there is such a thing as fate destiny and happy endings it applies to everyone. It doesnt for millions of people. no fairytail marriage for millions of people around the world. Sorry i dont believe we are destined to live happily ever after with a chosen one. my opinion though
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Destiny and happy joy-joy destiny are two different things. |
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| dEsidEL |
blah blah blah .. guys the weekend's comin!!
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| maxtuh |
Any hot women coming, hey i am single.LOL
Ya, em is right you guys talk too much. weekendsa aahereeeeeeee!! |
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