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My Confusion ( Girls ) (pg. 8)
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| Endlesswave |
| Yeah, the nice guy thing is a prob. Somehow niceguy = not datable (or able for that matter). I think it's because I'm not aggressive. Used to be somewhat but now I could care less. lol |
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| AmbiguousBliss |
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I don't really see it in that ^ one, but somewhat more in this one...
Kinda like BTG and Matt Damon... :toothless |
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| DigiNut |
I don't know if any of you guys have seen the new liquor commercial (I think it's for Smirnoff vodka or something, but I'm not sure... it's that "one part this, one part that, blah blah" slogan), but for those who haven't:
It shows a guy chatting up a girl in a bar, dancing with her and all, she starts making a total ass of herself... they leave the club together, flag down a cab, he opens the door for her, lets her in, then closes the door and sends her off with the cabbie. :p
That scene sorta sounds to me like how my elders describe human interaction in the 50s and 60s, before hollywood movies started brainwashing us with the whole "true love" thing... it's called "balls!" If you don't have some, get some! Yes, you want them... no, you don't need them, so start standing up for yourselves!
P.S. "Agressive" doesn't work much better than "Nice Guy" - you're looking for "confident."
P.P.S. Gotta hand it to you Vivid, that's some serious balls, if you really did it then I'm impressed. ;) |
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| hardcore trancer |
| quote: | Originally posted by AmbiguousBliss
If in the end, you're just too frustrated with it all, watch this: Uhmmm... |
now that was freaky!!!:nervous: :nervous: :nervous: |
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
i agree nice guys usually serve as doormat for these types of girls, but for the love of god why did u have to waste a perfectly good molsen, why oh why...  |
easy it wasnt my beer :D |
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| AmbiguousBliss |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
i agree nice guys usually serve as doormat for these types of girls, but for the love of god why did u have to waste a perfectly good molsen, why oh why... |
lol... Silly Americans. Molson = Urine anyway. T'was not a waste. ;) |
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| AmbiguousBliss |
| quote: | Originally posted by Endlesswave
I think it's because I'm not aggressive. Used to be somewhat but now I could care less. lol |
Yeah, Chris. I miss the days when you used to be an aggressive mofo to us chicks... :rolleyes: Y'know, like the good ol' entrance v2.0 days. :p lol |
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| AmbiguousBliss |
| quote: | Originally posted by Endlesswave
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*le sigh*... Get it now? :) |
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| Mako |
lol that reminds me of "but i'm le tired"
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| Prod |
| Like most already said (I always come in late to a good thread) is that you'll meet people that you're supposed to meet. By "supposed to meet" I mean the people that you're destined to meet that will eventually lead you to the right person one way or another. I'mnot a big believer in anything, even fate, but I do believe that every experience you have with any person is there for a reason, so even if things go awry with one girl, it'll teach you what NOT TO DO the next time (remmeber, it's not always her fault, we do our share of bad as well bud) so just sit back, enjoy the ride, and don't worry about finding that person, they will find you (philosophically, and physically). Whatever the case, just hang in there, it can't be long before we all find what we're looking for :D |
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| halo20 |
hah This thread picked up steam pretty nicely. A lot of frustrated guys on the board. As happy as I am with my gf, I still have to admit that women are the bane of my existence. Holy fawk.
The best advice I can contribute (aside from my earlier quote: "I COULD WRITE A BOOK") is that in time you will find someone who is right for you. Don't shape or mold who you are for someone who you think is right, but rather let time (and a dash of fate) bring that person to you.
It's odd, at many times during my life I've just known to stop looking for that certain person and to just enjoy being single. While other times, just as I thought something was missing, poof, lucky me has had that great girl show up. Off the record, some relationships have been nightmares, but ultimately take from all the bad experiences and spin them out of negative into positive. AKA Fate would have your cards dealt another way.
Whatever will be, will be. If it's wrong, it's wrong, if it's right, it's right.
I'm not here to glorify fate in the most extreme of cliches, but I can honestly say I've lived my life accordingly and have nothing but great fortune come my way. (knock on wood)
Anyone who knows me (outside of this board) might be rolling their eyes at me because I could come off as a hypocrite. Seeing as these last few months have been stormers in terms of relationship/love etc.
I'm the biggest suck / hopeless romantic (MALE) you will ever meet. And I can tell stories about fate for days. In the end, my words of advice are to "know thyself" (in the words of Plato) and to balance your life accordingly especially in terms of relationships and love.
ROLL THE DICE
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