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To tell the truth, or lie. (pg. 12)
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Dude, for your own sake I would lie to her.
All I have to say is...Once a cheater, always a cheater.
And for her sake, I hope that she finds out and rips your heart out.
What the ...being wasted is no excuse. If you wouldn't piss on her if she was on fire then why the hell would you her when you were drunk.
Loser.
No sympathy for cheaters here. |
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| {b.s.e.} |
| quote: | Originally posted by GelatinPufF
OMG! Now let's break this statement down and analyze it logically!
So you opinionatedly state that you should "never" lie to the ones you love, as it's a "mean" thing to do.
Never lie now? Oh really? Well, I'll be sure to follow your advice on that one the next time me and my girlfriend have just finished having sex. When she confronts me with the question, "So how good was I?" I will follow your never lie attitude! And point out the fact that she was in fact, loose as a clowns pocket!
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I think you were interpreting what I said very literally. White lies, whatever, something that would save someone's feelings are often necessary in today's daily life, so you can get rid of your asinine attitude. It's not my fault you hang around loose women. But maybe you were being hypothetically lame and just trying to make a nonexistant point. I would be struck dead, I'm sure, if I was to ever point a finger and chastise someone for being a liar. If you need to reserve your lies because you can't find the balls to tell your woman she's loose, or because you cheated on her with some fat ho, it doesn't matter. Lying is an original sin and I do not condone it, though I cannot say I do not lie on the occasion if it suits the purpose.
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Not only that, people don't seem to realize that ALL relationships are built around complex plethora of lies and deceit. The only way you can truly learn to accept this statement is to get over the universal belief that lying is always wrong. Well guess what, always telling the truth is wrong and can get you into just as much as lying can. |
Maybe you should save this statement for marriage counselling in 15 years.
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Another hypothetical:
You and your wife are enjoying a eloquent breakfast together one morning. Suddenly, you hear a knock on the front door, and she enthusiastically gets up, and goes to see who it is. Opening the door, she is startled to find a large angry looking man wielding a sawn off shotgun. He then asks "Is *insert your name here* home?" Startled and fearing for your life, should she *drums rolls* tell the truth, or lie? |
This is retarded. I don't know what sort of people you associate yourself with to come up with this sort of situation. Seems a little more Compton than eloquent to me. Why don't you sit down and relax with the real world for a while? :rolleyes: |
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| DaveSaenz |
| From where did you cut and paste this story out of?;) |
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| Mrs.Spice |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
Sure you would. When someone is seducing you, resistance is a matter of willpower, not commitment. People who'd do this when they're sober just have no willpower, but when someone is drunk, they have their guard down, and they're easier to take advantage of. They're slave to their instincts.
Having said that, I'm not condoning that kind of behaviour; the people who do those things are weak-willed (or weak-minded, whatever you want to call it). But don't confuse weak-mindedness with a lack of devotion, lack of feeling, or lack of respect. It's the same result in the end if you get caught, but that doesn't make it the exact same thing. |
I guess you've never been in love then...You don't want other people sexually when you're in love even if you're completely hammered... |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mrs.Spice
I guess you've never been in love then...You don't want other people sexually when you're in love even if you're completely hammered... |
You don't want other people when you're in the "infatuation" stage and you can't stop thinking about them, maybe.
Love doesn't stay like that forever, though. And yes I've been in it before, so I know. I'm not saying that everybody who's in love will eventually go off and screw someone else, just that they're not going to spend the rest of their lives so emotionally unstable that they'd be incapable of ever being with anyone else. If that were the case, they'd never find another partner after a breakup!
And then of course you have the people who are in love but don't have the guts to admit it or say it, nor the willingness to actually put any effort or care into it - those people are still "in love" but just can't handle their emotions and end up doing stupid things (like screwing around).
See, when you make a blanket generalization like that, all it takes is one exception to bring it crashing down. |
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| MsGod |
| quote: | Originally posted by GelatinPufF
You’re in a relationship with the greatest girl in the world *Natalie*. 2 years go by, 5 years go by. You love her to absolute DEATH and she’s the best thing that has ever happened to you. You spend every day and night together thinking about each other, and you vowel to each other that you'll never do anything to hurt one another.
One night at party tho, you get trashed and do it with someone who you wouldn’t piss on if they were on fire. However, you love *Natalie* so much that you don't want to hurt her, knowing that it was a one time thing and the biggest mistake you've ever made, especially after voweling to her that you'll never hurt her. You know that if she found out, not only her world, but your world would be completely and utterly ing shattered.
So do you keep it from her, and lie (not that lieing is always a bad thing), or tell her the truth?
If someone did this to you, what would you want them to do?
Would you forgive them if it was truly the biggest mistake of their life and dearly loved them? |
which vowel did you give her? a e i o or u? maybe even sometimes y? |
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| {b.s.e.} |
| Whatchoo talkin' 'bout MsGod. I think it's sometimes lie. |
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| astroboy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mrs.Spice
You don't want other people sexually when you're in love... |
Not true. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by astroboy
Not true. |
Unless you're a robot.
IMO, being sexually attracted to another person can make a relationship stronger as it is a test of your love. |
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| Maaz |
| quote: | Originally posted by MsGod
which vowel did you give her? a e i o or u? maybe even sometimes y? |
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Er... "y" is a semi-vowel, not a vowel :p That's why you say "an ear" but "a year" ;)
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| {b.s.e.} |
| quote: | Originally posted by Maaz
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Er... "y" is a semi-vowel, not a vowel :p That's why you say "an ear" but "a year" ;)
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It acts as a vowel in words such as 'cry' and 'by' and 'my' etc. when there is no other vowel, otherwise it's consonant in nature, I believe. |
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| DigiNut |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
Unless you're a robot. |
Was that a knock at me? :p
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