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why are boys so inconsiderate sometimes? (pg. 4)
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| Vlad |
| I can only speak for myself and say that if I say Ill do something, expect it to be done. If I promise something, you better believe its gonna get done. I definitely care, but than again, Im not that typical breed of guys. :tongue2 |
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| vtec junkie |
| I dunno call me weird but I never had the problem letting somebody know where I was or what I was doing or checking in.....Rachel will testify for me. I guess im diff from most guys.....it makes me feel uncomfortable knowing that the chick im dating doesnt know where im at. If shes worried....im worried (again thats just me) But when people just dont call at all....there is no excuse for this. Communication is so important in a relationship and if you dont have that....what does that leave you with??? You will always be worried sick about your loved one and it will eat you up inside. This type of thing has happend to me before.....ex girlfriend would get pissed that I didnt spend everyday with her so she would go out with her friends and not call, not return my calls...blah blah blah. Only to find out the slut was having three-somes with her one friend and her boyfriend.:wtf: Bree....I understand what your going through....you really need to sit down and have a talk with Patrick...im sure you already have many times but maybe make this one a warning.....if he doesn't act the up....tell him you get the out.;) You deserve better than this.;) |
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| bubbleravegirl |
| quote: | Originally posted by keithos27
PS. Age isn't a good thing to measure by... I know 19 year olds that are more mature than 25 year olds, and vice versa. |
very true these words...age isnt everything. it does play a role but its all about timing for each individual. my 21 yr old bf is immature at times but when the time comes to be mature he does handle it amazingly well...and on some issues im even less ready or mature than he is. i find that weird sometimes but like i said, its all about timing. i dun rush him cuz i know that age does play a factor into things but ive been surprised wid how calm and relationship-minded he is overall...much calmer than even some ppl my age |
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| bubbleravegirl |
| quote: | Originally posted by vtec junkie
Only to find out the slut was having three-somes with her one friend and her boyfriend.:wtf: |
OMG brian...SUXORS yO. -=[ thats fukin gay. i mean dayams -=X well thank god thats over.
but going back to the topic, tho...sunshine, jus sit him down and tell him that it would make u keep ur peace of mind for him to call you...at LEAST if he wasnt coming back for the night...thats jus courtesy...nuddin wrong wid establishing common courtesy. i mean how would he feel if u didnt call him for a nite? how long have u two been going out again?
i mean, yeah i joke about gettin revenge and everything but i would rather have had everything be straight instead of having to "play games" -- playing games doesnt make constitute a healthy relationship. it gets old. all i know is THANK GOD my bf and i talked it out after our first 9 months or else id be single right now. |
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| EyesOfExtasy |
| quote: | Originally posted by vtec junkie
I dunno call me wierd but I never had the problem letting somebody know where I was or what I was doing or checking in.....Rachel will testify for me. I guess im diff from most guys.....it makes me feel uncomfortable knowing that the chick im dating doesnt know where im at. If shes worried....im worried (again thats just me) But when people just dont call at all....there is no excuse for this. Communication is so important in a relationship and if you dont have that....what does that leave you with??? You will always be worried sick about your loved one and it will eat you up inside. This type of thing has happend to me before.....ex girlfriend would get pissed that I didnt spend everyday with her so she would go out with her friends and not call, not return my calls...blah blah blah. Only to find out the slut was having three-somes with her one friend and her boyfriend.:wtf: Bree....I understand what your going through....you really need to sit down and have a talk with Patrick...im sure you already have many times but maybe make this one a warning.....if he doesn't act the up....tell him you get the out.;) You deserve better than this.;) |
When there is nothing to hide, people usually dont hide it.....Thats what I have learned in life. When people are honest and open about themself it usually mean they are true to themselves and true to you. |
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| Vlad |
| quote: | Originally posted by EyesOfExtasy
When there is nothing to hide, people usually dont hide it.....Thats what I have learned in life. When people are honest and open about themself it usually mean they are true to themselves and true to you. |
Yea well... honesty and being open hasnt gotten me far. |
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| keithos27 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vlad
Yea well... honesty and being open hasnt gotten me far. |
Maybe you just haven't met the right one yet. :) |
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| Sunshine79 |
| quote: | Originally posted by bubbleravegirl
OMG brian...SUXORS yO. -=[ thats fukin gay. i mean dayams -=X well thank god thats over.
but going back to the topic, tho...sunshine, jus sit him down and tell him that it would make u keep ur peace of mind for him to call you...at LEAST if he wasnt coming back for the night...thats jus courtesy...nuddin wrong wid establishing common courtesy. i mean how would he feel if u didnt call him for a nite? how long have u two been going out again?
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we've only been together for 5 months |
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| bubbleravegirl |
| quote: | Originally posted by EyesOfExtasy
When there is nothing to hide, people usually dont hide it.....Thats what I have learned in life. When people are honest and open about themself it usually mean they are true to themselves and true to you. |
well some ppl FRONT...and then there are ppl who take advantage of openness...it suxs overall that there are ppl like this, but thats how it is...
personally id rather stay away from ppl like dat |
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| Sunshine79 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vlad
Yea well... honesty and being open hasnt gotten me far. |
vlad! promise me you won't change!! and i promise you one day you will have a girl who LOVES your openness and honesty!
i know i would.
and i also hope to one day find someone who loves these things about me. for i am also an honest & open person.
:) |
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| bubbleravegirl |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sunshine79
we've only been together for 5 months |
hmmz even more reason to nip this quickly in the bud...the first six months are crucial...and u have to figure out if it truly bothers u. if its ok then let it go...if it really bothers u, like everyones been saying, talk to him. if he wont consider it or even try...then thats saying sumdin to u. dont change who u are cuz its valid how u feel. u just want him to be mindful of u.
but then again u did say you guys are staying together right? maybe its cause he knows you will be at home, thats why he doesnt call? sometimes its better when a couple doesnt stay together so soon, but its hard to say, for all the cons aka taking each other for granted etc. etc. there is also the plus side, that you two become more intimate quicker and more deeply attached.
iono...
anyway good luck to u tho...n i hope things work out...i love happy endings. and if not, then u do what u need to do...
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| pyro264jb |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sunshine79
we've only been together for 5 months |
Patrick seems like a cool guy to me. Hows he doing? |
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