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why are boys so inconsiderate sometimes? (pg. 5)
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| dj tek |
| boys will be boys.. however, if it happens constantly you must keep him in check.. especially if youre living together.. stuff like that just shows theres lack of care.. |
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| EyesOfExtasy |
| 5 months isnt really that long...i wouldnt even have someone living with me in only 5 months. I have known my bf for almost 11 years now. I have broken up with people for less than this and in larger and smaller time periods. If its not what u want (meaning his attitude towards the relationship) then find what u want. |
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| Sunshine79 |
| quote: | Originally posted by pyro264jb
Patrick seems like a cool guy to me. Hows he doing? |
he is currently pissed off at me for getting upset with him about not calling me this morning. he knows me way to well. i can't stand having anyone upset with me.
John, you are right. Pat IS a cool guy. WE have so much fun together and i really care about him. He's my best friend....
eh. |
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| EyesOfExtasy |
| of course ...reversing the situation and manipulating you into thinking you have done something wrong so you forgive him. |
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| Busy Child |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sunshine79
he is currently pissed off at me for getting upset with him about not calling me this morning. he knows me way to well. i can't stand having anyone upset with me.
John, you are right. Pat IS a cool guy. WE have so much fun together and i really care about him. He's my best friend....
eh. |
sunny youll be ok. if youre gonna move, move my way. . . .:wtf: |
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| TranceMe |
recently my ex and I broke up over this...I wouldn't really hang out w/ any of my other friends but only with him b/c I didn't quiet trust him and always wanted him around....I told him when he goes out with his buddies, to call me but he said he didn't want to do that b/c it felt like checking in with me and that he's married....we tried to work this out but it never did. Now we broke up for good and I feel much better..
they'll never change...i guess it's even worse when you live with him...like said u have to decide if you can deal w/ or not...and if you can't get rid of him...
you can find someone that will think about you all the time and consider how you are feeling... |
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| politicsofdancin |
Yeah , sometimes guys don't like the idea to "check in" with their gfs coz they think they are "locked down". :rolleyes: If he is willing to change for you , then he will do it on his own. I think you stressed it out to him more than enough. You are just giving yourself a unecessary headache. I understand it is very frustrating as i went through this kind of problems with guys numerous times. Trust me girl, you are NOT the only one. give him an ultimatum. If he doesn't change then, that just shows you that he doesn't care about your feelings and is not willing to make you happy as this is very important to YOU. Sometimes, as i learn in the past, guys just need an extra PUSH to make them see things clearly. Repeated "nagging" as they call it, will not work trust me. Sometimes, silence is stronger than actions or words. Good luck..just speaking from my own experiences. If patrick really loves you , as he says he does...he will do this for you and for your relationship
good luck
indy:) |
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| Sunshine79 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Busy Child
sunny youll be ok. if youre gonna move, move my way. . . .:wtf: |
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| Busy Child |
ffs, how hard is it to make a quick call??
i mean as long as the girl doesnt try to talk for like 30 mins, a call to let her know that youre chillin is doable. Although I am against having to do it because its expected, cuz i think thats wrong. . .but i would do it to keep me girl from worryin about me so she can sleep. |
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| Sunshine79 |
| quote: | Originally posted by politicsofdancin
Yeah , sometimes guys don't like the idea to "check in" with their gfs coz they think they are "locked down". :rolleyes:
good luck
indy:) |
ok..here's the thing. he DOES check in though. he was txting me up until about 2am and then disappeared. it's when he gets really f*ked up that he doesn't care. sober, he is an absolute doll. he's as sweet and kind as can be. |
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| politicsofdancin |
| ooo yeah! speaking of boyfriends!!!!!!!!!!:mad: :whip: :mad: :whip: my in bf went out with his friends tonight and he told me he will back in like 6 hrs or so.......WAY AND BEHOLD!!!!!!!! GUESS IN WHAT!!!!!! its 10 o clock ..3 am in in england and where is my boyfriend?????????? FCUK KNOWS!!! MIA! no call..no text..no email...he didn't even fcukin show up on msn!!! finally just called him..no answer! yeah...so considerate right? sigh...i wouldn't make such a big fuss if he didn't promise me he would be back at a certain time...now i'am worried...its not that i'am bitching coz he went out with his friends..pls he can do that all he wants..just like what bree was stressing is that at least take 1 minute of your fcukin time..tell me if you are OK! so i won't sit here worrying the fcuk out!:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :( ok end of rant! |
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| ShellSh0ck |
i wont't give any advices bc there's no universal way to solve problems like this..just a small hint...nobody changes his/her persona for someone else. only thing you can do is to communicate...and try to find a way which is acceptable for both sides.
@ indy ...omg give this guy some space to breathe...
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cheers Michi |
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