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Aggresive guys in clubs (pg. 11)
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rodrico
Dave Chapelle said it best..
Now ladies, no man is calling you outright a slut, but if you think about it. If I was wearing a police uniform, and walking the streets, and you saw me and said "Officer! Officer! theres a crime taking place at my home", I would be like honey, just because Im wearing a cop uniform, doesnt mean Im a cop. Well ladies, you may not be a slut, but that is definately a sluts uniform. :p |
for sakes people.
fine, so a chick dresses like a slut. does that mean she has to be harassed? does that mean she has to be raped? does that mean anything? seriously. i know that it was dave chappelle that said this quote here, but there is a difference between a cops uniform and a short sirt. and what about the people that dress normal like myself, what possesses these nuts to come around and bother me? is it my hair? i'm a wearing it too sexy? |
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| roxxie |
I still think that the issue here is the aggressiveness...if you think that I look like a slut at the club and you SAY so, that's one thing.
You have the right to say whatever you want...but it NEVER gives anyone the right to come up and grab my ass!! And that's the problem!!!:crazy: |
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| DJ El Kay Dee |
| what if i asked nicely???:tongue2 |
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| roxxie |
| Well, if you asked nicely that's a different story...it's random ass grabs that are unwanted!!!:D |
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| DJ El Kay Dee |
| quote: | Originally posted by roxxie
Well, if you asked nicely that's a different story...it's random ass grabs that are unwanted!!!:D |
may i?:D |
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| drgoodvibe |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
I admit I don't know much about this personally but I've talked to some Italians about the way it is in those places, and they say it's not exactly what it seems.
That is to say, yes, a guy may slap a beautiful woman's ass, but it's not really an attempt to pick up or anything. It's just like a sign of appreciation. They don't try to grind or rip a girl's clothes off on the dance floor. Does that make any sense? When a girl in Italy wears skimpy clothes it's not taken a sign that she wants a and wants it now, it's just showing off her beauty, and guys there will show that they notice it but not try to rape her.
Maybe I'm totally wrong on this, like I said I haven't been there personally. According to my information though, ass-grabbing is just ordinary flirtatious behaviour, like a wink, it's not supposed to be overtly sexual at all. That is in contrast with the creeps at clubs here who really and truly are trying to get the girl's clothes off and will even resort to drugs sometimes in order to accomplish that. |
hrmm thats a difficult one to assume though. Its hard to figure what goes on in each individuals mind. I can safely assume however that the Italian guys who did that sort of thing ofcourse like any man would of taken advantage of the situation if say the girl were to give him a positive nod if he were to slap her ass.
It is overtly sexual and suppose to be, however the way it is taken is with a grain of salt as it should be as well. Girls over there (from what I saw) didn't pay any attention at all to guys like that, ofcourse that is to say when they didn't want the attention. I hate to admit it, but this is common among men everywhere ladies.
Girls and guys over there take the whole game as if it were a game, really. Mention the inklings of rape on the dancefloor and so on and you'd hear from both sides that, thats going a bit too far.
These types of men exist in every culture across the world. I'm not saying you just have to suck it up becuase that is unfair, but take it with a grain of salt as well.
It's just a game luv... just a game!
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| Jayx1 |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
for sakes people.
fine, so a chick dresses like a slut. does that mean she has to be harassed? does that mean she has to be raped? does that mean anything? seriously. i know that it was dave chappelle that said this quote here, but there is a difference between a cops uniform and a short sirt. and what about the people that dress normal like myself, what possesses these nuts to come around and bother me? is it my hair? i'm a wearing it too sexy? |
No one deserves to be harrased and of course no one deserves to be raped. But expect people to react to how you dress. If you don't then you lack common sense in it's simplest form. |
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by roxxie
I still think that the issue here is the aggressiveness...if you think that I look like a slut at the club and you SAY so, that's one thing.
You have the right to say whatever you want...but it NEVER gives anyone the right to come up and grab my ass!! And that's the problem!!!:crazy: |
exactly. ok, in your mind you may think that a girl is dressed like a slut but in no way does that mean you can go and grab her or anything of that nature. |
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| DJ El Kay Dee |
| ^^^^tell taht to ginos live vivid boy and roderico....:whip: |
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee
^^^^tell taht to ginos live vivid boy and roderico....:whip: |
i try but vivid always tries to sneak a peak at my elbows. weird gino. |
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| Xavier Moriarty |
| quote: | | Maybe I'm totally wrong on this, like I said I haven't been there personally. According to my information though, ass-grabbing is just ordinary flirtatious behaviour, like a wink, it's not supposed to be overtly sexual at all. |
i can tell u for sure (i lived in Yu for first 19 years of my life) that ass grabbing is just what it is, ass grabbing. if a girl likes you then MAYBE, but its not normal behaviour. its same like here, u grab u gonna get it.
i have NEVER grabbed girls ass just like that "wow she's cute, im gonna grab her ass, she wont know who did it" there is nothing arousing in that for me, whoever does it lack respect towards himself and towards lady.
on the other hand, if there's some kind of invitation to do it(winking, extra shaking in front of me, or "smack it, it aint gonna bite you") you can bet ill tap that ass.
now somebody here will say "how do u know its an invitation to do it, maybe shes just playing with you or whatever" and to those who ask that ill say YOU HAVE TO KNOW WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT.
happy girl = happy ME ;)
plus, im more of a boobie man |
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| MarkT |
| guys can be crazy and rather offensive to girls, no doubt, but girls can be just as aggressive as guys, I've noticed. I've recently had my ass slapped by girls on the dance floor at Guv :stongue: I suppose it was flattering... |
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