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Aggresive guys in clubs (pg. 12)
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| DJ El Kay Dee |
| quote: | Originally posted by MarkT
guys can be crazy and rather offensive to girls, no doubt, but girls can be just as aggressive as guys, I've noticed. I've recently had my ass slapped by girls on the dance floor at Guv :stongue: I suppose it was flattering... |
cmon admit it, u told her to slap u some more |
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| Jayx1 |
I agree. ive had my crotch grabbed a few times recently. Too bad it happened to be at the barn!
LOL Just kidding.... |
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| Kytracid |
^^^
The difference being, that most guys (even if they're in a relationship) will take being groped by a chick (so long as they're not caught) as a sign of flattery, and not really make a deal out of it.
Women don't always see it that way, and rightly so, given the number of men that they have to fend off in a club during the course of a night. (although, i do know a few hoe's who don't mind being grabbed, gropped, felt up and spanked once in a while -- unfortunately they hate all that silly "techno" music and so the chance to do that to them at the Guv is rare ;) |
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| Jayx1 |
| thats quite an assumption. I didnt see it as a compliment at all. Not to mention the one time it left my balls feeling like they were in a vice.. OUCH!! |
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| MarkT |
Kytracid, true (for str8 guys, anyway, lol)
one of my friends gets mildly harassed pretty much every time we're there...poor girl. Most guys seem to be reasonably polite...but some definitely have problems taking no as her answer (until they see her bf, anyway, haha).
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee
cmon admit it, u told her to slap u some more |
meh...maybe there was a little bit of extra booty shaking after that, just to tease her :p j/k
| quote: | Originally posted by Jayx1
I agree. ive had my crotch grabbed a few times recently. Too bad it happened to be at the barn!
LOL Just kidding.... |
well that's could be nothing more than a polite "hello" there, lol!
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| Jayx1 |
| tell that to my aching balls LOL |
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| Kytracid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jayx1
thats quite an assumption. I didnt see it as a compliment at all. Not to mention the one time it left my balls feeling like they were in a vice.. OUCH!! |
I'd say you deserved having your balls in a vice, since you're such a fan of breaking the TOTA balls with your repeat posts (sorry, just couldn't resist that 'low blow' :D)...hey, maybe it was SP in disguise, giving your boys a workout to see just how much 'passion' you have. (having already seen it spew forth from your numerous posts) :D
And if you didn't see it as a compliment, i think you're well within your rights to tell her to off. Me, i'd probably pimp slap the girl if she had her grabby mits on my precious jewels without permission.
It's not an assumption though, that by and large most guys won't mind being groped by a girl (so long as it's playfull, and she's not some feminist trying to test the theory that men can't think if you squeeze their 'heads')
MarkT: Granted, you probably didn't get a 'rise' out of it like us st8 men would...but admit it, you were flattered that she wanted your ass.
(and smiling on the inside, cause you knew there wasn't a chance in hell she was gettin any ;) |
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| Jayx1 |
| by the time i realize what had happened she was gone LOL or else i would have grabbed her ass for sure. |
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| Rodrico |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ El Kay Dee
^^^^tell taht to ginos live vivid boy and roderico....:whip: |
Well if your mother never complained, how am I suppose to learn?
Go make me a sandwhich bitch! mwhahahah |
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| MarkT |
| quote: | Originally posted by Kytracid
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MarkT: Granted, you probably didn't get a 'rise' out of it like us st8 men would...but admit it, you were flattered that she wanted your ass.
(and smiling on the inside, cause you knew there wasn't a chance in hell she was gettin any ;) |
hahaha...oh hell yeah! I was stunned...and I blushed, lol. Hey, who doesn't like a little harmless stroke of the ego? :D
IMHO, flattery from pretty much any source can (at minimum) be taken as a compliment! (crude come-ons from creepy pervs notwithstanding) |
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| The Highroller |
| quote: | Originally posted by StereoPrincess
for sakes people.
fine, so a chick dresses like a slut. does that mean she has to be harassed? does that mean she has to be raped? |
Definately not. I hate when people say, "look what she was wearing, she deserved it!".
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If a girl is wearing slutty clothes, she should come to expect this kind of attention, regardless if it's right or wrong. |
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| Kytracid |
| quote: | Originally posted by The Highroller
Definately not. I hate when people say, "look what she was wearing, she deserved it!".
BUT
If a girl is wearing slutty clothes, she should come to expect this kind of attention, regardless if it's right or wrong. |
I agree. It's all a part of that double standard where chicks want to go out looking like hoe's, but in return want to be treated like the girl next door. Sorry babes, don't work like that. Yes, Guys are to blame most of the time, and if you're talking about clubs, then booze and mind altering substances have a lot to do with how a guy might react. There's no real excuse for being felt up by some , but on the flip side, i see so many women, wearing hootchie clothes, giving off all kinds of signals that they want to be leered at, and then screaming to high heaven when a guy actually makes a move.
Often times, it's a no win situation, where if you don't make a move -- you're blowing your chance, if you do -- you stand being told by some bitch in a skirt that's just barely covering her coochie "That she ain't no hootchie...and she's just wearing what she wants to wear, cause it makes her feel sexy". Yeah right, sure you do hon. :rolleyes:
Girls should do what an old club friend of mine used to do when she felt pushy guys not getting the hint. Light up a ciggerate, and burn that mofo's arm with it...then look up at him, sweetly smile and say "Ooops, i'm sorry...i guess you were standing too close". :D |
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