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Aggresive guys in clubs (pg. 4)
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| amb_ |
| i can die happily now, my life is no longer worth living. |
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| roxxie |
What I don't get at the Guv are the guys who blow on the back of your neck as you walk by...then you turn around and they give you a greasy smile...if you're lucky you'll get the ass grab, after you continue walking :rolleyes: !! What's wrong with just saying hello to someone?!?
If a guy comes over and starts a conversation with me, I'll be polite, but if he's grabbing my ass (or anything else for that matter!!) I be a bitch!!:D |
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| DigiNut |
I think Rob gave me the best explanation for all sorts of dumb behaviour in clubs.
The Guvernment in particular has done an excellent job of integrating the club scene and the bar scene. Under one roof, you have the hardcore EDM freaks who tweak and do nothing but dance their asses off all night wherever they can find a bit of space, and the hardcore bar flies whose sole missions are to make out with as many girls as possible on the dance floor.
This element is the key point that differentiates the Guv from other clubs, for better or for worse. For the most part, the Toronto bar scene is comprised of people who are psychologically still in high school, and this is very easy to understand if you ever go to the Toronto meat markets. There, it's generally OK to slap a girl's ass, or to start grinding with whoever you want, because that's why people go there in the first place (either to pick up or be picked up). People also bring guns, get -faced drunk, start fights, and do all sorts of other undesirable crap. At a bar, this is called a Regular Night. All this is perfectly fine as long as there is separation between the bars and the clubs, but at places like the Guv you have both.
And in a startling display of utter sleaze, which is precisely what Tara was talking about in one of her posts, many of these dudes get the idea into their head that all the clubbers, who generally don't attend ordinary bars, are all high and thus easier to pick up. They get so much confidence from this mindset that they actually become predatory, not just sleazy, and will never give up. I actually once heard my friend say "it's so easy to pick up at raves" - aside from the fact that he doesn't know what the f*ck a rave really is and his idea of hard trance is Alice Deejay, I really had to give him a piece of my mind for that one. It's precisely that attitude that will lead to the demise of the club scene in Toronto if it's not kept in check.
Call it personal if you want, but I can and do blame the Guv for trying to bring these two totally incompatible scenes together. And it is at the Guv that these same sleazebags find out about places like System, where they probably hear about the vast "untapped resources" there. Honestly folks - be careful who you talk to about the "underground" clubs, because there are some people who are best kept out of those places.
My two cents. |
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| arek |
| quote: | Originally posted by geroin
you guys...its not like you dont wanna grab them
stop acting so innocent
jesus you dont have to grab it but you could at least admit you want to and you get jelous when other guys do |
lmao |
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| voodoochild |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigiNut
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And in a startling display of utter sleaze, which is precisely what Tara was talking about in one of her posts, many of these dudes get the idea into their head that all the clubbers, who generally don't attend ordinary bars, are all high and thus easier to pick up. They get so much confidence from this mindset that they actually become predatory, not just sleazy, and will never give up. I actually once heard my friend say "it's so easy to pick up at raves" - aside from the fact that he doesn't know what the f*ck a rave really is and his idea of hard trance is Alice Deejay, I really had to give him a piece of my mind for that one. It's precisely that attitude that will lead to the demise of the club scene in Toronto if it's not kept in check.
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hahaha - I am also glad to report that I have experienced many truimphant moments where for whatever reason the creepo gets the message to stay away. And that's when I'm glad I have people who watch my back- friends and strangers alike. Maybe there is an end or an improvement to these scenarios- we watch over each other. I know, I know- I dream much but its certainly a thought worth entertaining- right...;)sometimes all that's required is..... but a male presence around. |
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| Rodrico |
Such an underachiever... |
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| Vivid Boy |
| hahahah im the perv ur talking abt. i grab titties ass and legs. i lick girls faces when they bump into me. when they walk by me i try to get a sniff of their panties by bending over/ i go ino the womens bathroom pretending like i thought it was the mens. LONG LIVE THE PERV! |
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| Vivid Boy |
yeah what abt the women in clubs. lkike lay off the booze sometimes. like for example last night im standing in this club pissed off im even there. and im smoking my ciggarrette trying to cool off before i strangled too of my friends for coming to this hole and asking me to come. anyways im staring into the crowd blankly. when all of a sudden this drunk chick comes right into my face. She was reaking of alchol couldnt stand straight and one of her eyes was half closed. she looks at me and says "You spilled your diiinkkzz onn meh". at first i was like "what the is she talking abt". so i just noded and looked back into the crowd. she got closer into my face and said the same thing with the same slurred words. This time i figured this girl just wants to talk to me. so i replied "what the are u talking abt?". and as a reply i got "what do u mean what the am i talking abt". so im like "listen bitch i dont know what ur talking abt, look at my hands i have no drink its in impossible for me to spill anything on you so quit wasting ur in time". anyways from there i got "OMG im sorryzzzzz" and then a half stumble and a hug. and she walked away. her friends came up to me right after and said "shes really in hammered." i juts nodded.
come to think of it i could have brought that drunk girl home and her friends home if i played it right.
actually come to think of it again. what does this post have to do with anything? |
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| Rodrico |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
yeah what abt the women in clubs. lkike lay off the booze sometimes. like for example last night im standing in this club pissed off im even there. and im smoking my ciggarrette trying to cool off before i strangled too of my friends for coming to this hole and asking me to come. anyways im staring into the crowd blankly. when all of a sudden this drunk chick comes right into my face. She was reaking of alchol couldnt stand straight and one of her eyes was half closed. she looks at me and says "You spilled your diiinkkzz onn meh". at first i was like "what the is she talking abt". so i just noded and looked back into the crowd. she got closer into my face and said the same thing with the same slurred words. This time i figured this girl just wants to talk to me. so i replied "what the are u talking abt?". and as a reply i got "what do u mean what the am i talking abt". so im like "listen bitch i dont know what ur talking abt, look at my hands i have no drink its in impossible for me to spill anything on you so quit wasting ur in time". anyways from there i got "OMG im sorryzzzzz" and then a half stumble and a hug. and she walked away. her friends came up to me right after and said "shes really in hammered." i juts nodded.
come to think of it i could have brought that drunk girl home and her friends home if i played it right. |
Always thinking with the wrong head... |
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| StereoPrincess |
| quote: | Originally posted by jenna_rae
Margaret has a great idea for a shirt that would fit this scenario. |
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| voodoochild |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
hahahah im the perv ur talking abt. i grab titties ass and legs. i lick girls faces when they bump into me. when they walk by me i try to get a sniff of their panties by bending over/ i go ino the womens bathroom pretending like i thought it was the mens. LONG LIVE THE PERV! |
no thread would be complete without a dose af Vivid boy humour :haha:
long live Vivid Boi and THAT's actully a sincere compliment...
can always make me laugh provided you catch me in the right mood.
vc |
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