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Good sex? (pg. 8)
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
All I'm going to say is that I feel bad for girls who are prudes in bed. Usually they are probably really nice and stuff and the kind of girl you can “bring home to mom”, but the sad truth is that their man is always going to be wishing sex was better, and possibly engaging in watching lots of porn and jerking off...or even worse, having the dirty sex he craves with other chicks! I don’t care what anyone says... every man has a dirty side to him. Guys are turned on by sluts and dirty sex and dirty talk and high heels and lipstick, which is exactly what you see in pornos that are made and produced by MEN. of course there are a few oddballs who truly aren't in to that stuff, but whatever, i'm talking about the majority of the male population. and i'm not saying they want that kind of sex or girl ALL the time either. I’m also not saying that they want that sort of chick to be their girlfriend that they introduce to all their friends and family...but i think it is a girl's duty to give them the best of both worlds, and be a respectable, intelligent and cool person overall, and then not be so uptight to act like a total slut in bed once in a while. i think girls are scared that their boyfriend won't respect them, but if they have been together for a long time, then they should know by then that having some dirty sex will not all of a sudden make him not respect them...it'll probably make him fall in love all over again! |
I don't see why a guy would be turned off by a girl being a freak in bed. Most of us want a woman in public that's a freak in the bed. I know I do. Maybe a girl doesn't have to unleash all of her kinks on the first time, but if you've slept together a few times, I don't see what the problem would be. Especially if you have a good relationship and are eager to please each other. I would do a lot of experimenting, to an extent, if it pleased my woman. |
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| UWM |
Hell yeah, there's nothing wrong with being "Perfect."
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
hehe
no but seriously, its good when you laugh while in foreplay, or having sex.
Having a light, playful atmosphere is good for a solid sex life.
you dont need it to always be hardcore or whatever.
Somtimes its nice to just mess around ;)
but then again mario, you like men.
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I agree with this. One time with a girl that I dated, we were having sex all over her apartment, because her roommate was out of town. We were in the kitchen and she was bent over the counter, but she kept hitting her head on the blender and the toaster, so we moved to being over the stove. (I might have already told this one, but it's pretty funny. Sorry, if so) Anyway, she hit her head on the timer and it set the buzzer off. We both busted out laughing and had to take a short break.
| quote: | Originally posted by Lucid
one thing i've always wondered though, why do guys take offense if you tell them their dick is "just the perfect size". it's like they're not happy unless you tell them it's "HUGE"... and really, most girls don't want a huge dick. they want one that pleasures them yet doesn't poke them painfully. |
Yeah, that's lame. If you are truly compatible, it should fit just right. That's completely the opposite of a cut down. I would prefer to be just right, as opposed to being the size of a 2-Liter bottle. Would scare all the women away. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
why do guys take offense if you tell them their dick is "just the perfect size". it's like they're not happy unless you tell them it's "HUGE"... |
just like you don't need to be told the truth all the time neither do we. I could see how "just the perfect size" could be interpreted as "i love you even though you have a small dick". Hey at least we don't get silicone implants to improve our self esteem. Just throw us a big dick complement now and then. Is that too much to ask?  |
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| UWM |
| It's when they say your dick is "just fine" that you should start to be a bit self-conscious. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
It's when they say your dick is "just fine" that you should start to be a bit self-conscious. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
just like you don't need to be told the truth all the time neither do we. I could see how "just the perfect size" could be interpreted as "i love you even though you have a small dick". Hey at least we don't get silicone implants to improve our self esteem just throw us a big dick complement now and then. Is that too much to ask? |
i need to be told the truth. i can't respect a man who would lie to me just to make me feel better about myself.
what i don't understand is when a guy obviously knows his dick is a good size, and he obviously pleases the girl, why does he need to hear that his dick is huge? if a guy interprets "just the perfect size" as "i love you even though you have a small dick" then he's obviously insecure with himself.
i mean, for me, sex isn't really even about size. some of the best lovers i've had weren't what i would consider "big" or "huge"... but they sure as hell knew what they were doing. better than having a guy with a 10" who doesn't know what to do with it! |
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| UWM |
| Who really gives a if your dick is 2" or 12" as long as you're satisfying your woman? |
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| Slylee |
just to clarify...i wasn't saying that guys won't respect their girlfriends if all of a sudden they bust out some toys or want to be on top and talk dirty or something. i was just saying that maybe that's what all the prudish girls THINK will happen if they start acting a little trashy in bed. and i’m sure a lot of it has to do with how girls are raised too. but you'd think that once they become adults and have experienced sex, they'd throw those rules that their parents told them out the window and be curious and confident enough to try stuff with their boyfriends.
i love experimenting and trying new things, but i have to really be connected to the person and be totally involved with that person and the relationship in order for me to really let loose and enjoy sex. i think the best sex is when you're in love, and the relationship is solid enough to where you guys are down for anything...i just can't see myself being really kinky and doing all that stuff with just anyone. you kinda have to earn that with me. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
what i don't understand is when a guy obviously knows his dick is a good size, and he obviously pleases the girl, why does he need to hear that his dick is huge? |
I don't need to hear it's huge but on a few occasions I’ve gotten complimented it really made my day. If that’s bad I don't want to be good. I also believe in the old saying never ask a question you don't know the answer to. So I've never asked the question. Besides it puts the other in an unfair position. That's why I don’t like the "am I fat question". It’s a setup, entrapment or whatever you want to call it. |
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
just to clarify...i wasn't saying that guys won't respect their girlfriends if all of a sudden they bust out some toys or want to be on top and talk dirty or something. i was just saying that maybe that's what all the prudish girls THINK will happen if they start acting a little trashy in bed. and i’m sure a lot of it has to do with how girls are raised too. but you'd think that once they become adults and have experienced sex, they'd throw those rules that their parents told them out the window and be curious and confident enough to try stuff with their boyfriends.
i love experimenting and trying new things, but i have to really be connected to the person and be totally involved with that person and the relationship in order for me to really let loose and enjoy sex. i think the best sex is when you're in love, and the relationship is solid enough to where you guys are down for anything...i just can't see myself being really kinky and doing all that stuff with just anyone. you kinda have to earn that with me. |
That makes sense. I think it comes down to insecurity and self-conciousness. They feel like they'll look bad if they indulge in, what they think is, abnormal bedroom practice. Those are the kind of girls that I would love to open up to new experiences. |
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| beats and beeps |
| quote: | Originally posted by tribu
Imagine sticking your dick into a wet warm crevice, which creates a vacuum around the entire emerseped portion. Said vacuume gently pulls on the surface area while insertion/removal generates a pleasant friction. Most feeling (but certainly not all) is on the sides and underside of the penis' head. |
Sounds scary. |
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