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Battle of the sexes (not the show) (pg. 7)
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| wizniz |
| quote: | Originally posted by AminWRX
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sounds like ur her bitch.
go ahead. hang up on her. and when she gets pissed, tell her she does the same if she freaks tell her you want to see other people. |
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| Mr. Pink |
| quote: | Originally posted by AminWRX
My GF is usually a pain in the ass and I'm starting to get fed up with it. I can never talk back to her, even when I agree with her, she will either get very defensive and yell back, or say "I don't want to talk about it anymore!". I dare not hang the phone up on her, she does it frequently on me and it's ok. I'm not allowed to make a scene it may embarrass her, but she does it all the time. When we're deciding on something to eat, she hates when she has to decide, and calls me indecisive, however every place I recommend she's not in the mood for. If I'm not in the mood for sex, she overanalyzes our relationship, and we end up on the brink of breaking up. I have to assure her that i'm just tired. When I'm in the mood and she's not, she goes, "Nooooooo, please,.. i'm sorry, i'm tired". I hear this every other night, heck we only have sex like once a week now maybe less. I hate driving her anywhere! I can't drive near trucks, go over the speed limit, have to slow down on turns. She really pushes my buttons when she criticizes my driving. She pays for our meals once every 15 times. I can't fall asleep when she's awake, she'll think i'm ignoring her, when I'm just trying to take a stupid nap. There are so many things that bother me about her nowadays. Whenever I try to hug her she complains about bone on bone interaction. When I kiss her, she complains that it tickles. I guess the only thing I can do is massage her. God forbid I don't massage her one day, she'll freak.
Yeah I guess you can say my life is pretty terrible right now. I'm a very laid back person, I take calm approach to life's issues. I don't like to make scenes, and don't consider myself dramatic. She's the opposite. I wish I could just escape... |
BALLS!
if you dont ditch the bitch, ill call her pretending to be you and do u one big favor!
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| biznology |
| quote: | Originally posted by AminWRX
My GF is usually a pain in the ass and I'm starting to get fed up with it. I can never talk back to her, even when I agree with her, she will either get very defensive and yell back, or say "I don't want to talk about it anymore!". I dare not hang the phone up on her, she does it frequently on me and it's ok. I'm not allowed to make a scene it may embarrass her, but she does it all the time. When we're deciding on something to eat, she hates when she has to decide, and calls me indecisive, however every place I recommend she's not in the mood for. If I'm not in the mood for sex, she overanalyzes our relationship, and we end up on the brink of breaking up. I have to assure her that i'm just tired. When I'm in the mood and she's not, she goes, "Nooooooo, please,.. i'm sorry, i'm tired". I hear this every other night, heck we only have sex like once a week now maybe less. I hate driving her anywhere! I can't drive near trucks, go over the speed limit, have to slow down on turns. She really pushes my buttons when she criticizes my driving. She pays for our meals once every 15 times. I can't fall asleep when she's awake, she'll think i'm ignoring her, when I'm just trying to take a stupid nap. There are so many things that bother me about her nowadays. Whenever I try to hug her she complains about bone on bone interaction. When I kiss her, she complains that it tickles. I guess the only thing I can do is massage her. God forbid I don't massage her one day, she'll freak.
Yeah I guess you can say my life is pretty terrible right now. I'm a very laid back person, I take calm approach to life's issues. I don't like to make scenes, and don't consider myself dramatic. She's the opposite. I wish I could just escape... |
jesus...i have friends that are bad, but if you are putting yourself through that...in stop!
a hooker could give you a more enjoyable life WITH the monetary payments and STDs.
i just dont understand why so many men settle. i have a gf and im concerned with settling, but at the same time, she doesnt make my life miserable, is intelligent, self sufficient, etc.
all of this, my girlfriend-controls-every-aspect-of-my-life is bull. you can be committed to someone without having them run your life beyond what you had done before. its not like you died of starvation before this person existed, so get some ball remnants| |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
Man all you guys who are telling yourselves that you're just lazy or don't care are fooling yourselves. If you don't treat yourself well you shouldn't expect anyone else to. |
yea i agree. i know everyone will get defensive when i say this, but i think a lot of you are using "i don't care that much" as an excuse. i think you guys are just intimidated by confrontation so you avoid it all together. that's the whole point i was trying to make.
and aminWFX...dude, your gf sounds like a controlling bitch, you are better off without her. |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by AminWRX
My GF is usually a pain in the ass and I'm starting to get fed up with it. I can never talk back to her, even when I agree with her, she will either get very defensive and yell back, or say "I don't want to talk about it anymore!". I dare not hang the phone up on her, she does it frequently on me and it's ok. I'm not allowed to make a scene it may embarrass her, but she does it all the time. When we're deciding on something to eat, she hates when she has to decide, and calls me indecisive, however every place I recommend she's not in the mood for. If I'm not in the mood for sex, she overanalyzes our relationship, and we end up on the brink of breaking up. I have to assure her that i'm just tired. When I'm in the mood and she's not, she goes, "Nooooooo, please,.. i'm sorry, i'm tired". I hear this every other night, heck we only have sex like once a week now maybe less. I hate driving her anywhere! I can't drive near trucks, go over the speed limit, have to slow down on turns. She really pushes my buttons when she criticizes my driving. She pays for our meals once every 15 times. I can't fall asleep when she's awake, she'll think i'm ignoring her, when I'm just trying to take a stupid nap. There are so many things that bother me about her nowadays. Whenever I try to hug her she complains about bone on bone interaction. When I kiss her, she complains that it tickles. I guess the only thing I can do is massage her. God forbid I don't massage her one day, she'll freak.
Yeah I guess you can say my life is pretty terrible right now. I'm a very laid back person, I take calm approach to life's issues. I don't like to make scenes, and don't consider myself dramatic. She's the opposite. I wish I could just escape... |
Umm, dump the bitch. |
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| dj_mdma |
| quote: | Originally posted by biznology
all of this, my girlfriend-controls-every-aspect-of-my-life is bull. you can be committed to someone without having them run your life beyond what you had done before. its not like you died of starvation before this person existed, so get some ball remnants| |
A-ING-MEN TO THAT!
sorry, just had to say that.
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| igottaknow |
Sly i just read your initial post too busy to read the rest of the thread. You make a good point but i've had male friends who thrive on conflict. I think it has more to do with whats at stake, your personality type, and how your raised.
I grew up in a large family, we didn't have a lot and you had to get by with whatever you were given . I was also the 2nd youngest had to take a lot of from my older brothers without letting it bother me.
Obviously there is a balance between being a push over and being an annoying bitch who never happy and complains about everthing. In addition to that I used to get pissed when I had to be the "bad cop" with my last ex. You shouldn't be the one having to take the heat while your bf sits back and lets you do all the work. |
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| NiteMer |
| quote: | Originally posted by AminWRX
My GF is usually a pain in the ass and I'm starting to get fed up with it. I can never talk back to her, even when I agree with her, she will either get very defensive and yell back, or say "I don't want to talk about it anymore!". I dare not hang the phone up on her, she does it frequently on me and it's ok. I'm not allowed to make a scene it may embarrass her, but she does it all the time. When we're deciding on something to eat, she hates when she has to decide, and calls me indecisive, however every place I recommend she's not in the mood for. If I'm not in the mood for sex, she overanalyzes our relationship, and we end up on the brink of breaking up. I have to assure her that i'm just tired. When I'm in the mood and she's not, she goes, "Nooooooo, please,.. i'm sorry, i'm tired". I hear this every other night, heck we only have sex like once a week now maybe less. I hate driving her anywhere! I can't drive near trucks, go over the speed limit, have to slow down on turns. She really pushes my buttons when she criticizes my driving. She pays for our meals once every 15 times. I can't fall asleep when she's awake, she'll think i'm ignoring her, when I'm just trying to take a stupid nap. There are so many things that bother me about her nowadays. Whenever I try to hug her she complains about bone on bone interaction. When I kiss her, she complains that it tickles. I guess the only thing I can do is massage her. God forbid I don't massage her one day, she'll freak.
Yeah I guess you can say my life is pretty terrible right now. I'm a very laid back person, I take calm approach to life's issues. I don't like to make scenes, and don't consider myself dramatic. She's the opposite. I wish I could just escape... |
Get the outta there, fast. |
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| Falcon-X |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
yea im pretty much like you.
falconx, wine snobs are the best! hahahah "umm, are u sure this bottle hasn't been opened for a while?"
"yes i just opened it at the bar"
"can i have another bottle i'm sorry this tastes bitter"
LKDJS:LKJF:L!
idiots. whatever i'm not a wine snob so i don't know but it sounds ridiculous. i can't tell the difference between a $10 bottle of merlot and $100 bottle... |
ALWAYS OPEN THE BOTTLE AT THE TABLE!!!!!! so they cant say anything |
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| smokeape |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
is it just me or are men becoming less and less agressive/confrontational these days? |
I live in the world of Army Infantry, you know those in your face killers... Aand folks here ain't like your bortrayal of whimpy males by a long shot. Most of the folks I deal with are peaking testosterone levels. Better check mine, while I'm at it... Lol!
Reckon things are different down here than at the Wal-Mart or Flower Shop...
:p
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Markus Schulz - Sentient (Vocal) |
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| Orbax |
| Makes life easier for alpha males. Cant complain too much. |
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| Falcon-X |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Makes life easier for alpha males. Cant complain too much. |
alpha males usually tend to get women.... |
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