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Love: Geting over it/on with it (pg. 5)
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| naesean3 |
| quote: | Originally posted by loca
hmmmmmmmmmmmm
well he goes to work so i don't see him then but i don't think that counts... so uhm... 0. :(
But technically that will change when we're both back in school. :D |
absence makes the heart grow fonder........
another cliche - but true none-the-less......
you have to have ME/ALONE time - everyone needs time for self-reflection and self-development - it is when we do not have this time that we sometimes suddenly find oursleves lost in the other person - not knowing who WE ourselves are anymore.......
everything should be able to relate to this/heard of this: the moment when you can no longer determine what exactly happened/went wrong and where...... |
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| loca |
| quote: | Originally posted by Callie5
:stongue:
That's like newr and I. We've seen eachother everyday since we met and we're going on 1 year next week!!!
I'm not going to see him today, it's just soooo weird! I know that it will make seeing him that much better though... |
i live with him so there's no avoiding him really :p LOL |
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| loca |
| quote: | Originally posted by naesean3
absence makes the heart grow fonder........
another cliche - but true none-the-less......
you have to have ME/ALONE time - everyone needs time for self-reflection and self-development - it is when we do not have this time that we sometimes suddenly find oursleves lost in the other person - not knowing who WE ourselves are anymore.......
everything should be able to relate to this/heard of this: the moment when you can no longer determine what exactly happened/went wrong and where...... |
I agree lol. Until recently we had a long distance relationship (me in europe, him here) so we definitely had "me" time :wtf:
Not now though because i live with him, but i think we both miss it hehe |
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| naesean3 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Callie5
:stongue:
That's like newr and I. We've seen eachother everyday since we met and we're going on 1 year next week!!!
I'm not going to see him today, it's just soooo weird! I know that it will make seeing him that much better though... |
that's amazing - KUDOS!
a sense of maturity must resound in your relationship - congrats! |
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| Jem_hadar |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Furious
Unconditional love can only come from a stalker. |
LOL! That sounds like something Vivid should have said ;) |
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| Jem_hadar |
| quote: | Originally posted by loca
Yet this same practice is perfectly acceptable for men. WHY?! :whip: |
I agree. i think its bull that girls get bad reps for sleeping around (and called sluts or whores) while men dont (and infact its something they get props for, as was said).
i dont see a problem with have mulitple partners, so long as your safe. safety is whut matters. if u have a high sex drive and wanna alot of ppl, go nuts... thats your choice, but be smart about it and be safe always! I strongly disagree w/ girls that get called sluts and whores for sleeping around alot. its not something i feel they shoudl be judged negatively about.
-jem- |
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| tha_broad |
| quote: | Originally posted by loca
"embrace the libido!!! |
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| TheVrk |
| quote: | Originally posted by naesean3
I tend to think that you never get over real love. You only tend to learn to cope better with its loss. |
Agree 100%.
Def teaches you HOW to cope with problems of any kind |
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| loca |
| quote: | Originally posted by tha_broad
| quote: | Originally posted by loca
"embrace the libido!" |
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damn right :tongue2 |
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| naesean3 |
I am a non-confrontational person in general - but one piece of advise my mother gave me about relationships: was to "never go to bed angry - and if you do than do not go to bed together".....resentment can play havoc on a relationship.....
If you seriously need time to think about things because you are SO angry then get yourself away from that person - (don't torture them by staying there angry and insolent beside them, expecting them to shut up and go to bed next to you) - having to make the effort to find somewhere else to stay for night usually puts things into perspective.
If the other person cannot do this - you do it - saying that you will not stay and deal with this uneasyness/disrespectfulness but find somewhere else to sleep for the evening.......this usually snaps them back to reality as well.
The above only works too if you actually follow through if called on it - stay true to your convictions and they will see you through....
YOU MUST HAVE MUTUAL RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER!!!!!
She learned alot from her first marriage........never to allow the same mistakes to happen twice. In her second - it is amazing how happy they truly are. :tongue2 |
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| loca |
| quote: | Originally posted by naesean3
I am a non-confrontational person in general - but one piece of advise my mother gave me about relationships: was to "never go to bed angry - and if you do than do not go to bed together".....resentment can play havoc on a relationship.....
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I think a lot of mothers have given that same advice!! My mom said the same thing to me, and i have a few friends whose moms have said that to them :D Best advice i've ever been given :) |
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