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Love: Geting over it/on with it (pg. 8)
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| iLLnaDa |
Wow some very interesting posts on here.
Well here's my story literally in nutshell, cuz if I sat here and babbled Nine years of history I think I would fall asleep writing and everyone else would fall asleep reading.
I'm presntly in a transitional stage...Not exclusively dating but not looking to date either....I met Ali in grade 10 and we started dating in grade 11. Broke up, got back, broke up got back....you know how it goes until OAC year. Since grade 10 until last year he was ALL about me...and I was alwaysrunning away from him...many reasons...other guys...committment blah blah...so finally we both decided to go away to uni's. I went to Queen's and he went to Ottawa. First year uni I decided to take a break just because I was new at doing this not seeing u everyday and spending all my time with u....blah blah blah...five years go by and in those years we had some amazing times, not so amazing times...I dated two other ppl...he dated nobody UNTIL last summer.
Guys n girls basically what i realize now is that because of my actions he CHANGED and his change was out of all the hurt I caused over the years...not an excuse for doing drugs and lying to me but he did all of that last summer and Believe me I got a SLAP right in my face....I realized that I was losing A HUGE PART Of my life right before my eyes and it hurt like no other time. Not because we weren't together but because I saw him change from this ANGEL man into a deviant guy. I realized for the first time how much he meant to me and how much I loved him. I never felt that way before in my life...basically we were both at a point where we came to terms with how much we both loved each other but we had lost a big aspect of a healthy relationship-TRUST...That is all we're working on now.....it's super hard but we are both trying because we both want the same thing.
So my advice to everyone would be to not take anything in life for granted...Honestly! it is the most painful experience to see someone who loves you so much get hurt so bad that their life changes in a very negative way!! One thing i never did before was to appreciate him and now I wish I could turn back time and do that! :(
sorry for the blurb! |
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| zoogla |
| Damn, it was sad to hear about that guy, Nada...I hope you both can work it out together...trust is soooooooooo important in ANY relationship LET ALONE a long distance one... |
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| arek |
sad... :(
but hopefully there will be a happy ending. |
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| Nikitha |
well i think we can honestly say that the whole 'getting over it' part is much more of a struggle then 'getting on with it'.. i just find it so crazy that something so amazing as the feeling of love can make you feel so unbelievably miserable at the same time... it really doesn't seem fair and yet we all put ourselves through it.. we always fight with the little voice in the back of our mind that only seems to know two words : "What if..."
These are the two words that can break a person in to tiny little peices.. what if i didn't say those things? what if i never told them how i feel? what if we had just tried to make it work for a little longer? what if we had just gave it a shot? what if they were the one?
in my personal opinion you never get over the people you love.. not becasue you can't or your too weak.. but because they have had such an impact on your life and they have just meant so much to you that even the coldest seeming person knows that without that one that got away they wouldn't be the person they are today..whether it was a good turn out or bad.. and not only just 'the one that got away' but also the ones that you never had as well... which in my personal opinion/expirience are the worst kind
Nikitha |
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| pia |
Endlesswave, jrmacca
thanks :) |
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| dance2dabeat |
Love is a great thing..but it can definately hurt.
One thing I have learned through experience....time heals and life goes on......... |
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| LittlePoonzgirl |
I love my bf with all my heart.
It was a rocky road at first, but it was worth it. I hope I never have to be in a situation to get over him. I can't imagine my life without him.
Now too bad he still lurks here and won't actually post, lol. |
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| zoogla |
| quote: | Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl
I love my bf with all my heart.
It was a rocky road at first, but it was worth it. I hope I never have to be in a situation to get over him. I can't imagine my life without him.
Now too bad he still lurks here and won't actually post, lol. |
All is not lost, poonz! My fiancee hated EDM at first, now listens to it and took the next step of actually lurking here!!! It's a gradual build-up...just give it patience!!!
My goal is to have Jenny partying with us on Canada Day weekend!!!! |
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| LittlePoonzgirl |
| quote: | Originally posted by fayraree
All is not lost, poonz! My fiancee hated EDM at first, now listens to it and took the next step of actually lurking here!!! It's a gradual build-up...just give it patience!!!
My goal is to have Jenny partying with us on Canada Day weekend!!!! |
Yes, but you see he loves trance. He's partied since 96 or 97, lol |
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| zoogla |
| LOL damn I was trying to make it look better...nevermind!!! ;) |
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| virtualtrancer |
| wow these are all interesting stories! i wish i could add to this all but umm i've never been in love. I'm almost 21 now and no love in my life yet! but from all these stories i know i'm kinda lucky to not have go through with the period of losing a loved one. |
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| arek |
if anyone is looking to see a really good love movie..
go see
My Sassy Girl. it's Korean and soooo good.. |
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