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Best way to talk to a girl? (pg. 5)
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| tc-fan |
| quote: | Originally posted by Omega_M
Modesty is not the word I'm thinking right now. |
so what you saying? |
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| Spirit5 |
| quote: | Originally posted by tc-fan
thats the attitude..Be yourself. Maybe you are meeting them in the wrong place? Clubs hell no. What about work place?
I met mine at a company Christmas party, through a co-worker. |
I work with a bunch of ladies over the age of 25. The youngest well..is 20 but she's only summer help. The other youngest is my store manager. So really...no one at work. I've met a few girls at clubs but they left before I could get their # and it was so loud anyways....I don't really go to clubs anymore. The only place is school or just out and about. |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by tc-fan
so what you saying? |
He's saying that, by presenting yourself to be "1 in a million" and "the perfect boyfriend", you aren't really displaying much in the line of modesty.
Pretty straightforward if you ask me. |
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| luisjb82 |
| quote: | Originally posted by dallastar
Courting female date
1. Short absences (for 5-7 days).
2. Courting her friend.
3. Looking for mediators.
4. Bait. Bring flowers or small gifts to her every time you go out with her.
5. Admiration. Every woman is dreaming of being admired. |
It really depends on the final target... if Spirit wants a steady boring ass relationship he should follow your advices... if not I'd suggest he only follows #1, the rest will most likely get him in the "friends" zone, and that's the kiss of death.
p.s.: I'm just joking about the boring part... everyone lives their lifes their own way. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spirit5
I work with a bunch of ladies over the age of 25. The youngest well..is 20 but she's only summer help. The other youngest is my store manager. So really...no one at work. I've met a few girls at clubs but they left before I could get their # and it was so loud anyways....I don't really go to clubs anymore. The only place is school or just out and about. |
you should join a sex club, or something.
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or craigslist.org |
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| UWM |
| Spirit how old are you? |
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| Silky Johnson |
Seems to me you've got everything going for you except confidence. If you really know your self worth, then you should be approaching girls with a job interview mentality.
What I mean by that is, you are the employer, and they are the possible employees. Your self worth factors into that in the sense that when you have it, you look for specific things in girls to compliment your needs and desires.
This should bring you the confidence you need to talk to girls without being nervous.
Basically, forget about what girls might think of you...because A)most women aren't gonna be worth your time anyways, and B)it's not JUST about them, it's about you too - remember YOUR needs! If you can do that, you won't feel so foolish when talking to girls.
I hope that makes sense. |
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| lex400sc |
| this is not something that can to taught or explained. flirting is an art. get yourself a sex drive and the rest will come naturally. |
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| Spirit5 |
I think what i've really been searching for all these years is just a girl who will accept me for me, no matter how long the relationship would last. I guess before I am looking for commitment, I am looking for acceptance. I mean everyone wants to be accepted, and when your routinely rejected...that sucks..believe me.
I mean even if she's just a really good friend, a potentional "girlfriend", i'de be fine with that. My biggest problem..haven't found her, and there have been girls like that who did accept me from high school, but they were neither potentional girlfriends (didn't have a chance with them) nor do I talk to them any longer..unfortunitely.
You know once high school ends, and people go away to college...people don't always keep in touch. I think sometimes I wish I did keep in touch with them...but I don't think I was super-great friends with them either, just people I knew I could trust and accepted me. |
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| Spirit5 |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
Spirit how old are you? |
21, and I never really had a girlfriend. Those girlfriends I did have, it was mostly a joke. I had one that lasted three months that was close to being real but it still felt artificial...there really weren't strong feelings and the relationship left me more hurt than anything else... |
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| Aquarian |
| quote: | | Originally posted by Spirit5 You know once high school ends, and people go away to college...people don't always keep in touch. I think sometimes I wish I did keep in touch with them...but I don't think I was super-great friends with them either, just people I knew I could trust and accepted me. |
Blah - there's better sorts of people in college anyways. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by jennypie
If you really know your self worth, then you should be approaching girls with a job interview mentality.
What I mean by that is, you are the employer, and they are the possible employees. |
where do you see yourself in 5 years? :disbelief |
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