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I'm a pro loser.
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| Turbonium |
Ok, so I'm studying at the library in a cubicle, and this super cute girl who I've seen (noticed) in the library before sits at a cubicle near me (one over, and behind). She is seriously cute and I would ask her out... if I knew how. I'm a moron with this . But I had very very slight sense that she may kinda like me too, judging from previous and unnecessary eye contact.
So anyway, I stayed to study for maybe 2 hours more than I would have had the girl not been there, since I thought "maybe something will happen" (yes I'm ing lonely/pathetic). But I was actually hardcore studying, so it wasn't time wasted.
You know how they say "you never know"? Well, GUESS WHAT HAPPENED!!!!!!
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NOTHING!!! Yea, I'm a ing loser.
A bit before she left, I asked her for a calculator (I actually needed one), but it was so awkward and spontaneous, I think she was like "wtf". Wasn't rude or anything, but I think I freaked her out. I mean, I don't even know her or anything.
me: "Excuse me, do you have a calculator I can borrow?"
(man, I felt like grade 4)
her: "A what? oh... a calculator? No, sorry."
(meanwhile I'm doing a gesture with my hand, like it's a calculator, treating her like she's a moron and like I'm a mime)
me: "It's ok, thanks."
her: "..."
. I think I just ruined any chances I might have had in the future on striking up some conversation that can actually LAST and lead to something, like asking her out. All for a stupid calculator. Shouldn't have used it as an excuse to talk. I should have waited for some other day where I'd get a better chance/situation.
I am a moron.
btw she's in fourth year I'm pretty sure, judging by the book she was reading. I'm third year. That can't be a good thing either. |
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| XoxidE |
u failed.
good try though. |
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| DjConfessions |
| these mexican girls clean our store every morning and there is one that is particularly "posh spice." so today she was burning microwave popcorn and i totally passed up the chance to cum on her face. i'm a total loser |
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
You: Do you have a calculator?
Her: wtf... no!
You: Well how am I meant enter my phone number into your memory if you dont have a calculator??
Her: hehe, *gets wet panties*
You: I guess i'll right it down on a piece of paper then *pass her your number* Call me tonight & we'll catch up *winks*
Her: fap fap fap *pulls off wig* |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by Xenocreator_PG_
You: Do you have a calculator?
Her: wtf... no!
You: Well how am I meant enter my phone number into your memory if you dont have a calculator??
Her: hehe, *gets wet panties*
You: I guess i'll right it down on a piece of paper then *pass her your number* Call me tonight & we'll catch up *winks*
Her: fap fap fap *pulls off wig* |
Minus the fapping and the wig, that actually wouldn't have been bad at all Xeno. |
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| Turbonium |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sushipunk
Minus the fapping and the wig, that actually wouldn't have been bad at all Xeno. |
I fail. |
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| Sunsnail |
| There seem to be a lot of socially-inept people on TA |
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| jonSun |
| quote: | Originally posted by DjConfessions
these mexican girls clean our store every morning and there is one that is particularly "posh spice." so today she was burning microwave popcorn and i totally passed up the chance to cum on her face. i'm a total loser |
LOL |
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| Echo of Silence |
I think you didn't know how to make a move...?
Guys just come up and ask me out all the time.
They don't know my name. They don't even know where I'm from (one guy said so yeah, you're the Dutch girl. Wanna go out Friday night?), they don't know if I'm bitchy or sweet, they don't know if I have even an iota of personality. It's annoying.
But, lemme tell you what worked ONCE on me so I suppose it could work on others...
I was in the lab, working and working and working and this guy who was in the lab (also working and working and working) suddenly stood up and stretched and came over and looked at my work (like just taking a break, not being intrusive) and he said, hey I'm gonna go get some coffee. Want me to bring you back a cup of coffee or a soda or something?
And I said yeah, that would be cool. So he did and when he gave me my drink, he sat down at the station across from me and asked me what I was working on and we ended up talking for like an hour or so...
So that's one way, I guess, to kind of get to know someone that you're interested in. He did ask me out but at least he knew my name and had interacted with me a bit before asking. |
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| Turbonium |
| quote: | Originally posted by Echo of Silence
So that's one way, I guess, to kind of get to know someone that you're interested in. He did ask me out but at least he knew my name and had interacted with me a bit before asking. |
Actually, that's the ideal. If I were to ask a girl out, it'd be after we'd talked for a bit.
That's why I think it was retarded to talk to her for 2 seconds, and end it. I should have at least kept talking or something.
But yea, I really don't know how to make a move. I'm inept when it comes to interacting with a girl I'm interested in. If there's no situation to strike up a "normal, natural conversation", then it'd be too obvious that I'm interested. That's usually why I hesitate.
Maybe I'm an idiot for not wanting to be initially obvious? .
Maybe I'll make love to my textbook. I spend a lot of time with it, and know how to interact with it. Maybe I'll cultivate the relationship. |
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
| Chrissi had a good one. It's all about confidence. Just be yourself & dont think about it too much. Usually you know in the first minute whether she's interested anyhow. If the awkwardness continues after you have tried to be friendly, then it is obvious she doesnt want your company & you just walk away. If she is keen, then she will react & chat back. It's as easy as asking her a couple of questions & seeing if she will take it in the pooper. |
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