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squirrelly
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Originally posted by stace
Squirelly, can I just say this.....

Every time you have ever put a picture up on this site tens of guys have told you how hot you are right?

You have a hot boyfriend right?

And you yourself are happy with how you look no?

So...... do you really need to worry? I think not! :)


haha awe, thanks.

And yes, I do think my boyfriend is hot hot hot!

I'm not worried per se, it's just... more annoying than anything else.
stace
quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
haha awe, thanks.

And yes, I do think my boyfriend is hot hot hot!

I'm not worried per se, it's just... more annoying than anything else.


I used to get the exact same thing. Strangers would come up to me in clubs and ask me if all I ate were carrots and my mum and dad tried to take me to a doctor (until my nan told me my mum was exactly the same growing up). It effected me a lot and as I result I suffer from a complete lack of self confidence.

The thing is now I can and have put on a little weight I worry about that too and hit the gym 3 times a week.

I guess no one is ever truly happy with they way they look.
squirrelly
quote:
Originally posted by stace
I used to get the exact same thing. Strangers would come up to me in clubs and ask me if all I ate were carrots and my mum and dad tried to take me to a doctor (until my nan told me my mum was exactly the same growing up). It effected me a lot and as I result I suffer from a complete lack of self confidence.

The thing is now I can and have put on a little weight I worry about that too and hit the gym 3 times a week.

I guess no one is ever truly happy with they way they look.


I don't have a problem with the way I look... I used to have some insecurities but they've all diminished with age. I think when people are young they're heavily influenced by what the media defines as "beautiful", but then something happens to make them realize they should be happy with the way they are. For me, it was meeting my bf. Him telling me I look gorgeous when I have a hydrating facial mask on makes me laugh to where I nearly have to pee. He made any insecurity I had disappear. :)
MeLLyMeL
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Originally posted by squirrelly
I don't have a problem with the way I look... I used to have some insecurities but they've all diminished with age. I think when people are young they're heavily influenced by what the media defines as "beautiful", but then something happens to make them realize they should be happy with the way they are. For me, it was meeting my bf. Him telling me I look gorgeous when I have a hydrating facial mask on makes me laugh to where I nearly have to pee. He made any insecurity I had disappear. :)


haha that is ADORABLE!!!!!!!

and lol @ the mask thing. You're not supposed to smile with those on :whip:
Slylee
what happens if your boyfriend dumps you?
squirrelly
Why would that make a difference? He made all the negativity disappear. If for some reason we broke up [which I highly doubt will happen] I wouldn't all of a sudden have insecurities again.
Slylee
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Originally posted by squirrelly
Why would that make a difference? He made all the negativity disappear. If for some reason we broke up [which I highly doubt will happen] I wouldn't all of a sudden have insecurities again.


ok just making sure. i've seen it happen a lot and it's sad. girls feel like they are nothing without the guy...been there and done that myself. it builds character though if you are able to overcome it.
squirrelly
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Originally posted by Slylee
ok just making sure. i've seen it happen a lot and it's sad. girls feel like they are nothing without the guy...been there and done that myself. it builds character though if you are able to overcome it.


Yea I know, I've watched it happen to a few of my girlfriends. It sucks. People lose themselves just because they're in a relationship.
stace
quote:
Originally posted by squirrelly
I don't have a problem with the way I look... I used to have some insecurities but they've all diminished with age. I think when people are young they're heavily influenced by what the media defines as "beautiful", but then something happens to make them realize they should be happy with the way they are. For me, it was meeting my bf. Him telling me I look gorgeous when I have a hydrating facial mask on makes me laugh to where I nearly have to pee. He made any insecurity I had disappear. :)


Gareth could (and does) tell me a million times over he thinks im beautiful and it still doesn't fix me.

I think I'm broken :(
squirrelly
quote:
Originally posted by stace
Gareth could (and does) tell me a million times over he thinks im beautiful and it still doesn't fix me.

I think I'm broken :(


You won't be forever. I promise :)

Slylee
quote:
Originally posted by stace
Gareth could (and does) tell me a million times over he thinks im beautiful and it still doesn't fix me.

I think I'm broken :(



What the are u smoking? You really should get over that because there is nothing lamer in this world than a beautiful girl who doesn't think she's beautiful.

Go look in the mirror and then look at all the ugly average people around you the next time you're out and about. You should feel fortunate for what you have.


Sorry for sounding mean.
RickyM
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Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
hehe i lol'ed


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