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ADVICE: Relationships (pg. 2)
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| tiesto14 |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
For two, it's pretty obvious that putting you as a priority in her life is not at all important to her, and she's gradually phasing you out of her life instead of abruptly phasing you out because she probably doesn't want to shoulder the burden of ending the relationship.
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Thats how it feels...no joke.
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
It's also likely that's she's sleeping with her boss.
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not likely he is a 45 year old guy and a family friend since childhood to her parents, plus my girlfriend is good friends with his wife....i used to think that but not so much anymore. |
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| smakmagik |
Are you Tiesto?
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| Orbax |
everyone has priorities. Looks like your low on hers. Bail on her. Cut her off cold turkey. Lifes too short to waste time on bull games. Let her live her awesome 84 hour work weeks (by your calculation) and hang out with older married couples?
, that was pathetic to read. |
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| Zoso |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
For one, LOL.
For two, it's pretty obvious that putting you as a priority in her life is not at all important to her, and she's gradually phasing you out of her life instead of abruptly phasing you out because she probably doesn't want to shoulder the burden of ending the relationship. It's also likely that's she's sleeping with her boss.
My advice is to end the relationship and deal with the fallout. Spend some time with your friends and take up a hobby. I don't want to be mean but you come off as pretty pathetic saying you sit around all weekend doing nothing because you aren't independent enough to function and have fun on your own. |
There's your thread right there. Sucks, but it's best to get out now. You're going to hurt like a bastard for a while, but that too will pass. |
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| bas |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
, that was pathetic to read. |
Yes it was. Stop being a and dump this bitch. She's obviously not into you if she'd rather spend her free time ing her boss and his wife.
Anally of course. |
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| tiesto14 |
| I just dont get how you tell someone u love them and u want to marry them but not make time for them....it bugs me out. |
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| Orbax |
its called talking out both sides of your mouth, being two faced, cowardice.
People say crazy about their lives as rock stars and then go back to work at taco bell and get yelled at by their bosses. People are ing nuts.
End the trying you bitch. Delete her number so its like who the is this when it rings on your phone. THE BALL IS IN HER COURT you need to stop playing both sides.
100% radio silence until she calls to ACTUALLY HANG OUT and if its just to talk say you got to go.
Ladder theory dude, ladder theory. |
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| bas |
| quote: | Originally posted by tiesto14
I just dont get how you tell someone u love them and u want to marry them but not make time for them....it bugs me out. |
She told you that or you told her that? |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
End the trying you bitch. Delete her number so its like who the is this when it rings on your phone. THE BALL IS IN HER COURT you need to stop playing both sides.
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That's pretty much spot on. |
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| tiesto14 |
| quote: | Originally posted by bas
She told you that or you told her that? |
She told me that it feels "right" with me...something she has never felt with anybody else in her life. her family doesnt like me and doesnt want herr around me but she tells them to piss off cus she wants to be with me. YES, she tells me she wants to be my wife.
She however says that she isnt sure if she is going to do this business and give me the time.....so how can u say u love someone and not want to spend quality time together? makes ing no sense. |
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| glass |
I'd say have her go ass to mouth while you still can.
Only way:rolleyes: |
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| tiesto14 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
THE BALL IS IN HER COURT |
meaning if she isnt willing to compromise and spend more time together and a little less at work then she should hit the road? |
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