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ADVICE: Relationships (pg. 3)
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| bas |
| quote: | Originally posted by tiesto14
She however says that she isnt sure if she is going to do this business and give me the time.....so how can u say u love someone and not want to spend quality time together? makes ing no sense. |
People change mate, it happens. Plus if her family doesn't agree, chances are she's not going to marry you. |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by tiesto14
She however says that she isnt sure if she is going to do this business and give me the time.....so how can u say u love someone and not want to spend quality time together? makes ing no sense. |
She is too much of a coward to own up to how she really feels and is just stringing you along to appease you and avoid hurting your feelings because she feels guilty that her priorities in life have shifted from you to being a successful entrepreneur. |
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| tiesto14 |
| quote: | Originally posted by bas
People change mate, it happens. Plus if her family doesn't agree, chances are she's not going to marry you. |
This was all said 2 nights ago by her in tears when i almost left and she begged me to stay and i told he i was going to find someone else and she cryed hardcore and said "i am so supposed to be your wife".... |
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hold on loosely, but don't let go.
enjoy your time together, but don't invest so much of yourself that you can't be happy unless she's around.
you are driving yourself crazy, and probably her too. |
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| tiesto14 |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
She is too much of a coward to own up to how she really feels and is just stringing you along to appease you and avoid hurting your feelings because she feels guilty that her priorities in life have shifted from you to being a successful entrepreneur. |
And that is what i tell her everyday.....and she keeps coming back at me with "i really havent made up my mind yet"....even you realize she has and doesnt know what to do with me....she should own up and tell me NOW. |
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| UWM |
| Okay - just so I can make a more accurate analysis of this situation, how old are the two of you? |
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| bas |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
Okay - just so I can make a more accurate analysis of this situation, how old are the two of you? |
AND! where do you live? |
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| tiesto14 |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
Okay - just so I can make a more accurate analysis of this situation, how old are the two of you? |
i am 32 and she is 25. |
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| LeopoldStotch |
#1 i agree with everyone. too bad swamper removed birthdays so we don't know how old you are. you sound young enough to be immature (don't take this word harshly) to get married anyways. you need to get out more. meet other women. enjoy what's there in the world. you can't commit your life to just this one woman at the moment.
#2 as everyone said above, people change. she's changed. her feelings for you probably have drastically changed, now that she works practically all day. think about it? if you do get married with her, do you want to be at home late at night wondering where she is? and do you actually think you can talk her out of her current job, and take a "less stressful" job just to have more "together time" with you?
#3 get out more. do some recreation. watch some movies. talk and interact with others. this will make you forget all about her, because sorry to break the bad spirits to you, but she's done in your life. time to move on. |
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| LeopoldStotch |
| lol you just answered my first point. you're 32. :) |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by tiesto14
i am 32 and she is 25. |
Are you serious?
I don't really know what to say. I was going to guess you were like 23 and 21. Tops. You are obviously far too immature and needy, based upon what you've written, to be on your own. It looks like the both of you, though, are far too retarded to be open and honest with each other about the relationship you're in together so it looks like, either way, it's destined to be a total trainwreck. |
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| tiesto14 |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
Are you serious?
I don't really know what to say. I was going to guess you were like 23 and 21. Tops. You are obviously far too immature and needy, based upon what you've written, to be on your own. It looks like the both of you, though, are far too retarded to be open and honest with each other about the relationship you're in together so it looks like, either way, it's destined to be a total trainwreck. |
I agree i am immature at times...however our main issue in the relationship is the time we have together...how is never seeing your grilfriend except for a few hours late at night and wanting more being too needy? |
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