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ADVICE: Relationships (pg. 4)
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| LeopoldStotch |
| also one more thing. it's about "investment". it sounds like you want to invest in a lot into your relationship with her, but she doesn't want to invest much. it's like you putting down $1,000 to keep you guys together, but she is willing to pay out $10 max. are you sure you want to keep this up? are you willing to keep a relationship alive, when your significant other doesn't want to put out the same effort you are willing? |
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| Omega_Blue |
| dude if she wanted to be with you she'd work you into her life. she's on some bull. |
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| tiesto14 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Omega_Blue
dude if she wanted to be with you she'd work you into her life. she's on some bull. |
then why cant she just tell me that? |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by tiesto14
how is never seeing your grilfriend except for a few hours late at night and wanting more being too needy? |
Okay maybe you're not needy. You want to spend time with your girlfriend and don't get to. But just the way you come off, saying how you spend your weekends longing and crying ... get out there and ing do something on your own! Realize that she's not into you anymore! Stop sitting around wasting days and weeks and months of your life. You're ing 32 already. Honestly, man. Is this situation that hard to read? |
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| Omega_Blue |
| quote: | Originally posted by tiesto14
then why cant she just tell me that? |
couldn't hurt to put her on the spot and ask her wtf is going on |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by tiesto14
then why cant she just tell me that? |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
She is too much of a coward to own up to how she really feels and is just stringing you along to appease you and avoid hurting your feelings because she feels guilty that her priorities in life have shifted from you to being a successful entrepreneur. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
People do not change - they just get better or worse at hiding their true selves.
Doesn't that just totally justify your inklings towards hatred? lol
Perhaps you forgot to mention it in your original post, but have you actually tried talking with her about this? I know it sounds as though it's hard to get a hold of her anymore, but if you call her up one day and just say "we really need to talk in person - it's important" then she'd better find some time to allocate to you, even if only a few minutes. Tell her exactly how all of this feels. It is not going to be easy at all, so prepare yourself for whatever happens.
And at this point, don't hold on to the things she says - she loves you, she wants to marry you, forever-ness, etc... - it's easy to say these things to others whom you feel close to, but not actually have any eventual intentions of following through with them. Her actions are speaking much louder than words, even if it's an ugly thing to come to realize this. |
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| tiesto14 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Omega_Blue
couldn't hurt to put her on the spot and ask her wtf is going on |
i have and she says she has to work...she needs the money. |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by tiesto14
i have and she says she has to work...she needs the money. |
DUDE. That right there says enough. Cut her the off. If she can't even make time to talk about how your relationship is crumbling she obviously couldn't give a less about it. |
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| Omega_Blue |
| quote: | Originally posted by tiesto14
i have and she says she has to work...she needs the money. |
well then obviously you're not worth her time. quite literally speaking. ditch the bitch. |
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| Omega_Blue |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
DUDE. That right there says enough. Cut her the off. If she can't even make time to talk about how your relationship is crumbling she obviously couldn't give a less about it. |
^5 |
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| VAR |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
DUDE. That right there says enough. Cut her the off. If she can't even make time to talk about how your relationship is crumbling she obviously couldn't give a less about it. |
bingo! |
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