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ADVICE: Relationships (pg. 7)
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| tiesto14 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Massive84
You are seeing her for 1 year? Mind if i ask you if you guys kiss? have sex? Or just talk and do fun stuff?
I think you need to ask her how she feels about you. Does she sees you only as a good friend? Or maybe someone that she is intrested in building a future with? If it is the second then you need to prepear your self to give her room for what she does.
If she is really kind and understanding she will know that she must spend time with you as well sometimes.
But mainly you need to ask her how she feels about you. And of cource you tell her how you feel.
Whatever you do. Don't say i love you so stop working..(something in that direction) |
Yes we are intimate and even talk about marriage and kids. We both tell each other that we love one another and dont want to be with anyone else. Also that we want a life together and we are (or were) planning on moving out together in about 7 months...but that all is changing on my part if SHE can not give me any time.
I dont tell her not to work....i tell her IF she wants to do this business and we move out together that i would need a day off per week with her and not have her work till 9pm every night....so we can have a relationship. |
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| Omega_Blue |
| quote: | Originally posted by tiesto14
Yes we are intimate and even talk about marriage and kids. We both tell each other that we love one another and dont want to be with anyone else. Also that we want a life together and we are (or were) planning on moving out together in about 7 months...but that all is changing on my part if SHE can not give me any time.
I dont tell her not to work....i tell her IF she wants to do this business and we move out together that i would need a day off per week with her and not have her work till 9pm every night....so we can have a relationship. |
DUDE IT'S ONLY 9PM???? what the that's not even late. damn man, that's what happens when you both have lives. you make time when you can. geez. you made it sound like she gets off at 4 in the morning or something. wow. |
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| Omega_Blue |
| what do you think happens when one spouse works first shift and the other works second shift? happens dude, deal with it. |
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| RJT |
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| Omega_Blue |
| quote: | Originally posted by RJT
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not for long though.
dejavu? |
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| netroM |
| quote: | Originally posted by whiskers
also, asking COR for relationship advice is like letting a gorilla perform a lobotomy on you. |
almost what I was gonna say:
ADVICE: Don't ask the C0R |
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| RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by Omega_Blue
not for long though.
dejavu? |
repost :o |
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| Omega_Blue |
| quote: | Originally posted by RJT
repost :o |
:rolleyes:
BAM!!! |
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| tiesto14 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Omega_Blue
DUDE IT'S ONLY 9PM???? what the that's not even late. damn man, that's what happens when you both have lives. you make time when you can. geez. you made it sound like she gets off at 4 in the morning or something. wow. |
9pm is late when we crash at 2ish and never have a day off together...every hour counts when u have no full days. |
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| tiesto14 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Omega_Blue
what do you think happens when one spouse works first shift and the other works second shift? happens dude, deal with it. |
I have thought about that and other situations similar...but that is not something i want...and she NEEDS to tell me her plans...because in the end it affects my life, not just her. AGREED? |
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| RJT |
| I think you should in her breakfast and then send her a letter saying that it's over. |
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| Omega_Blue |
| quote: | Originally posted by tiesto14
I have thought about that and other situations similar...but that is not something i want...and she NEEDS to tell me her plans...because in the end it affects my life, not just her. AGREED? |
sounds like you're the one with the problem. if she's that important then you have to get over that, otherwise move on. |
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