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ADVICE: Relationships (pg. 6)
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| Xevious |
| quote: | Originally posted by Omega_Blue
well then obviously you're not worth her time. quite literally speaking. ditch the bitch. |
agree... |
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| tiesto14 |
| what would be the best way to approach her on the fact that you guys dont think i am high on her priority list and she wont give me the time? i tend to fly off the handle...so whats the best way to tell her? |
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| VAR |
| don't call or talk to her- let her come to you. |
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| DJ_Eternal |
| quote: | Originally posted by tiesto14
what would be the best way to approach her on the fact that you guys dont think i am high on her priority list and she wont give me the time? i tend to fly off the handle...so whats the best way to tell her? |
Well, I'd maybe keep yourself quiet for a while and see if she does any of the running to gain some understanding of how she feels.
Basically be aloof, but not overly so.
Your honestly sitting in the last chance saloon here, so i wouldnt get my hopes up. |
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| ikhouvanu |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
COR version please. |
+1 |
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| tiesto14 |
| well, i just spoke to her and she gave me the day i requested her to take off next week off....so thats a plus i suppose...right or wrong? |
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| tiesto14 |
| she also told me in the event she does this business next season that she will guarantee me a day off each week....so thats also a plus...i guess she is willing to compromise a little right? |
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| tiesto14 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Ladder theory dude, ladder theory. |
whats the ladder theory? |
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| DJ_Eternal |
The plot thickens.
No idea my friend. Without actually knowing this chick, I couldn't give you any more info/advice.
Maybe she is willing to comprimise or she could be using this as a day to 'talk' about things. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
That's a step in the right direction, I guess...
But it sounds like she is negotiating a business deal or something. lol
It would be unfair for you to ask that she drastically change her work schedule or for her to spend her every free minute with you, but if she is already avoiding spending time with you after only a year together...then you guys didn't make it past the honeymoon. It's ok - relationships have to end sometimes. Some people just weren't meant to be married and spend the rest of their lives with somebody. Good times stay good however - cherish that memory and end it if you don't feel satisfied with the compromise. It will hurt a lot, but I think you will be better for it in the end. |
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| Massive84 |
You are seeing her for 1 year? Mind if i ask you if you guys kiss? have sex? Or just talk and do fun stuff?
I think you need to ask her how she feels about you. Does she sees you only as a good friend? Or maybe someone that she is intrested in building a future with? If it is the second then you need to prepear your self to give her room for what she does.
If she is really kind and understanding she will know that she must spend time with you as well sometimes.
But mainly you need to ask her how she feels about you. And of cource you tell her how you feel.
Whatever you do. Don't say i love you so stop working..(something in that direction) |
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| whiskers |
let me summarize the advice for you:
| quote: | Originally posted by Omega_Blue
ditch the bitch. |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
Cut her the off. |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Bail on her. Cut her off cold turkey. |
| quote: | Originally posted by bas
Stop being a and dump this bitch. |
also, asking COR for relationship advice is like letting a gorilla perform a lobotomy on you. |
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