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messed-up situation (pg. 10)
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| daphunky1 |
| quote: | | sorry to hijack the thread but aren't you from the old raversnet? |
Ya for sure dude. I lived in Regina for 5 years, but now I live in Whisler.
| quote: | | keep it up OP. don't listen to anyone here. the more you live together without intimacy the more sweet the intimacy will be after you burst (what a great anime series) |
That's my theory man. Like eventually it won't make sense for us not to be intimate. It should just be the next natural step.
And about the guy who said 1 month is way too long in a girl's book. Remember it's not like I've been going on dates for one month. She didn't move in to get a boyfriend. She moved in because she couldn't find any other place in town, and I wasn't about to make her regret moving in, 1 week later when we hardly know each other and I'm trying to get on her. By now we know each other pretty well, and we know that our personalities and ideas of fun are pretty close.
And about her being drunk...well we've went out 3 times drunk together. the first time we ditched everyone we were with and went dancing at a different club, the second time it was just the two of us that went out all night, and then last night when we went out with a bunch of people, but still ended up spending the whole night together and wandering off through town on our own at the end of the night. That all sounds pretty positive to me. I don't want to be "just another guy who hits on her at the bar". In fact last night she was using me to dance close to her and our other friend, whenever dudes started creeping on them. She ended up falling asleep on me for a half hour for the bus ride home. I really can't figure out then, when would be a good time to do something. I'm a pretty chilled-out guy so I live by the "just let it happen" approach, which can be good and bad. |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by daphunky1
In fact last night she was using me to dance close to her and our other friend, whenever dudes started creeping on them. |
Hahahaha. Friend zone lol. You're ed mate.
What are you going to do when she brings some guy home? I mean, she's your friend right? It'd be pretty rude if you didn't give up the room for the night so she can enjoy herself, with that dude. |
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| daphunky1 |
Ya dude. That would be terrible.
But the only times she goes out to get drunk is when she's made plans that always involve me. Like we already know we are going out next monday, thursday, and the next monday. you don't make plans with only one other person unless you really like being aorund them. So maybe that does mean that she's being pretty "obvious" and it's up to me to make the next move. |
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| squirrelly |
| quote: | Originally posted by daphunky1
you don't make plans with only one other person unless you really like being aorund them. |
LOLOL Yes you do! Especially if you've got no one else to hang out with! And if there's no one better! But then once someone you actually would want to date comes around, your "special" time gets cuuuuuuuut off. With a quickness.
Kr00t, aren't you engaged? I'd be PISSED if my fiance developed that kind of friend while we were engaged! or dating. or married! |
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| boris_the_bear |
| OP, just do what your heart tells you to do. people are so ing cynical nowadays. maybe I'm just to emo but it's great you are so close together yet not crossing the line. it's something a lot of people have forgotten now, it's called romance and you're going to enjoy recalling all those sweet days spent together like crazy.. don't rush, don't be a casual walking dick. you did not have strict intentions to screw her so why regret not doing it every day? enjoy the moment;) ;) ;) |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by boris_the_bear
keep it up OP. don't listen to anyone here. the more you live together without intimacy the more sweet the intimacy will be after you burst:stongue: (what a great anime series) :happy2: |
| quote: | Originally posted by daphunky1
That's my theory mate. |
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| iella |
cuddle bitch
(n) a guy who never gets to sleep with a girl but gets to have intimate moments with her like cuddling, spooning, or otherwise being affectionate. This guy makes up for the lack of intimacy in that females relationship.
That poor guy is being used as a cuddle bitch, when will he see he is being used?
"John is so gay, he thinks he is pimp but he is just her cuddle bitch"
Girl: "After I visit my buddy, I can swing by my Cuddle bitch's house to sleep"
http://www.urbandictionary.com/defi...h&defid=1488834 |
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| MrJiveBoJingles |
| quote: | Originally posted by boris_the_bear
people are so ing cynical nowadays. |
What else would you expect on a forum? It's de rigeur on the net to project tough-minded worldliness when it comes to relationships. Who knows whether people are really as "together," experienced, and free of romantic illusions as they like to portray themselves.
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| boris_the_bear |
| jenny loves the pink color and sleeps with a cute teddybear. i sure.. |
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| elFreak |
| lol massive friend zone pwn...the worst part is the spoon friend zone is usually reserved for gay friends, so that says a lot about how she views you sexually...ie:she doesn't. |
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| CraveTheRave |
| Sounds like you're in the friend zone but there is a possibility for more.. IF YOU MAKE A DAMN MOVE!!! I don't think this will be one of those times where it'll naturally progress into something more, you gotta do something about it. I would actually make a move BEFORE her bday celebration or whatever. That way if things work out, then it'll be a better birthday with you there and if it doesn't work out, then that tension for you won't be there anymore and it can just be 2 friends partying. |
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