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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by elFreak
lol massive friend zone pwn...the worst part is the spoon friend zone is usually reserved for gay friends, so that says a lot about how she views you sexually...ie:she doesn't. |
Reminds me of a friend of mine. She told me she was flabbergasted when a friend of hers said he loved her. I can clearly remember her words:
I never thought he'd say something like that to me. He was my greatest friend. Ever. I'd change clothes in front of him, he'd sleep over at my place, and I thought that was all there was to it. A guy that I could feel comfortable with. Whenever I think of us naked in front of one another, I always picture him flaccid. Because, you know, there was no tension between us. Or so I thought.
Forgot to share that. I met her in my freshmen year at uni. |
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| Dervish |
| Yeah but guys can have (girl) friends who you have that nagging "hope she doesn't see anything happening" thing too. Not just the other way round. |
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| phoooo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
Reminds me of a friend of mine. She told me she was flabbergasted when a friend of hers said he loved her. I can clearly remember her words:
I never thought he'd say something like that to me. He was my greatest friend. Ever. I'd change clothes in front of him, he'd sleep over at my place, and I thought that was all there was to it. A guy that I could feel comfortable with. Whenever I think of us naked in front of one another, I always picture him flaccid. Because, you know, there was no tension between us. Or so I thought.
Forgot to share that. I met her in my freshmen year at uni. |
what happened between them? |
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| elFreak |
she ended up moving in with a weirdo she just met and put him in the friend zone hard.
if you guys are spooning, something would have happened by no if you had balls or she wanted it. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by phoooo
what happened between them? |
Well, the story is quite amusing, to such an extent it seems made up. But, here's what she told me:
She was a trouble teen: did drugs, hang out with the "bad guys" and sniffed glue when she was bored. And, she befriended this cuddly punk rocker. They became bff and she did all these things I mentioned. One night, as she was coming back from the club, the guy ran after her and told her to wait. He said he had been in love with her since he met her, but he never had the guts to tell, because he was afraid she would run away. She stood there, flabbergasted, shocked and feeling betrayed. She couldn't believe the guy she saw as the most genuine of all friends on Earth actually wanted to bang her. She told him to give her a minute, and she literally ran away. They stopped hanging out after that. She met some guy who happened to be a jerk and started going out with him.
Incidentally, 3 years later, the opposite happened: we met, she broke up with this jerk and, soon after, she told me she loved me. I jokingly told her I loved her too. She said I didn't understand, and I told her no one had ever said that to me before. Well, not in Portuguese.
Nothing happened between us, as it was my turn to walk away. She got back to that jerk later and, last I heard, she broke up with him again.
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I think I should write a book about all this. It's too weird to be real. |
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| daphunky1 |
I'm starting to think some people here might be right. I might be shafted to the friend zone. But the way i see it, if we cuddle/spoon, since that is somewhat physical, then she shouldn't be too surprised if I try something else. Even if she doesn't want it, she can't say she didn't see it coming. I if she really does just want a cuddle bitch, then that is pretty weird...... but I would take it. sigh.
That's it, next night out I'm making a move. But I think the next night out involves pills. That's a much different situation than both being drunk. That could be a lot more weird, no?
Anyways I just bought us 2 tickets to see MSTRKRFT at the end of December.But the true test I think, will be if I can really party with her. I've had nothing but bad experiences with girls who like me and are intrigued in my "be high and go nuts to good music" strategy (who obviously aren't into edm). |
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| Sushipunk |
| Hahaha this is gonna be sweet. |
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| Arbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by daphunky1
But the way i see it, if we cuddle/spoon, since that is somewhat physical, then she shouldn't be too surprised if I try something else. Even if she doesn't want it, she can't say she didn't see it coming. I if she really does just want a cuddle bitch, then that is pretty weird...... but I would take it. sigh. |
Okay...
/popcorn |
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| Jake Benson |
| quote: | Originally posted by daphunky1
I just moved to a resort town where the housing situation is extremely tight, so everyone
I mean what if she actually doesn't even like me at all, she's just all chill and happy all the time. Then I gotta share a room with a girl I'm crazy about? |
Tell her you're gay and talk about guys with her. Eventually (maybe within minutes) she'll let you help her take off her bra, shower with her, shove your penis in her vagina, etc. |
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| daphunky1 |
Hmmm, ok might try that.
But here's the new big question. Is it better to break the ice with something physical (ie: kiss) or vocal confession "I think about you all the time, blah blah blah.'??? |
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| The17sss |
maybe it's just me, but all this strategizing and these complicated "what if's" are rediculous. Any guy knows for certain if and when a girl is into him. There's just no mistaking it when the tension is real.
Girls should expect guys to not "just be cool being friends" and be ing surprised when that actually happens, not the other way around. This chick must be naive, or playing dumb. |
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| Sushipunk |
| quote: | Originally posted by The17sss
maybe it's just me, but all this strategizing and these complicated "what if's" are rediculous. Any guy knows for certain if and when a girl is into him. There's just no mistaking it when the tension is real. |
This.
| quote: | Originally posted by The17sss
Girls should expect guys to not "just be cool being friends" and be ing surprised when that actually happens, not the other way around. This chick must be naive, or playing dumb. |
Not this. It's him who's playing dumb remember? And now he's in the friend zone. Lol. |
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