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Other peoples' babies (pg. 11)
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| The17sss |
| quote: | Originally posted by chimera66
see you do like children! you just like those that are directly related to you which makes sense...men typically care more about that than women hence the reason i think women are more open to the idea of adoption. |
I think you're on to something there. I am not open to adoption becuase I have a hard time believing I could love a child that came from someone else as opposed to my own. Plus, I'd fear for the inevitable point in that kid's life when he/she would want to seek out their "real parents" and find out what happened. |
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| samochod |
| While I don't go out of my way to hold a baby and don't emote over them as much as their mother (which is only natural), I still think they can be pretty cool. Every once in a while I'll be shopping or stuck in line caught up in the hum-drum motions of everyday life, when this baby ahead of me in line will start looking at me with those big bright eyes and make those funny expressions. It makes me laugh and forget about all my troubles. I know sappy right. |
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| The17sss |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aortik
That aside, do some of you actually think you are that much more special than other people's children? That you're far more clever or intelligent or educated, or that even any of those things are important at all? :stongue: That kids are beneath you because you're just sooooo ing smart? :stongue: |
It's not that some people may feel more special or better... it's a matter of being unable to relate to them. Nobody is saying they won't be clever or intelligent when they get older, but for christ's sake... of COURSE we as adults are much more educated, wise, and clever than a 10-30 pound ball of flesh that doesn't know how to use a toliet or speak in coherant sentences. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
Exactly right. It's as though people are unaware of the fact that kids are kids, and their inability to accept something that is different to them seems a monumental weakness, if you ask me.
For the record, you're not one of those people I was talking about. Truly, being able to relate to someone is important, and of course it makes a difference in some way or another, but to hate children merely because you don't 'get them' or have to 'dumb yourself down' seems immensely arrogant, and actually untrue considering many of the people saying such things. |
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| coroknight |
I've found that my opinion of kids has pretty much followed the course of this thread.
At first I was like "i don't really care for kids that much"
Then come all the people who absolutely love kids and feel the need to pound their love of kids into your skull over and over and over "omg isn't my cousin/son/adopted son so cute?!?!?!?!?" until you're yelling "I ING HATE GODDAMN KIDS."
Exposing me to more children has actually made me dislike kids even more. I would much rather enjoy a pet dog or cat than a kid. It's pretty simple no kids = me happy. It's just a preference and on top of it i don't think kids could fit into my lifestyle anytime soon.
Hells yeah :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: |
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| Cpt.Cocaine |
| quote: | Originally posted by coroknight
Then come all the people who absolutely love kids and feel the need to pound their love of kids into your skull over and over and over "omg isn't my cousin/son/adopted son so cute?!?!?!?!?" until you're yelling "I ING HATE GODDAMN KIDS." |
Exactly! I can't relate to rocks either - but I don't hate rocks, because everyone else can't relate to them either, so there isn't any kind of expectancy that you're supposed to go all mushy when you see rocks. Besides, rocks are quiet. Kids are ing annoying. |
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| Cpt.Cocaine |
I don't know why I started talking about rocks, but now that we're on the subject, rocks are so much more awesome than babies.
You know what you can do with rocks? You can kick them. God I want to kick babies so hard sometimes, but I can't.
Another great thing about rocks; you can throw them at babies. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by Cpt.Cocaine
so there isn't any kind of expectancy that you're supposed to go all mushy |
See, I am 100% with you there. The worst part about kids are people's expectations of them or how we are supposed to react to or treat them, etc. Many of these expectations make sense, but many of them are stupid and pointless, and it's really not the childrens' fault at all. |
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| wotyzoid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Cpt.Cocaine
Exactly! I can't relate to rocks either - but I don't hate rocks, because everyone else can't relate to them either, so there isn't any kind of expectancy that you're supposed to go all mushy when you see rocks. Besides, rocks are quiet. Kids are ing annoying. |
:stongue: Worst ing analogy ever. You guys are just a bunch of pussies who don't know your way around with children. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| Well you must keep in mind that many of us aren't technically children anymore, unlike yourself. |
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| enydo |
| quote: | Originally posted by wotyzoid
:stongue: Worst ing analogy ever. You guys are just a bunch of pussies who don't know your way around with children. |
Someone not preferring to be around children does not mean that at all. When I was younger I used to teach little s swimming for a summer job, I could not stand it, and I was pretty good at dealing with kids. |
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| wotyzoid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
Well you must keep in mind that many of us aren't technically children anymore, unlike yourself. |
Ouch, my pride.
| quote: | Originally posted by enydo
Someone not preferring to be around children does not mean that at all. When I was younger I used to teach little s swimming for a summer job, I could not stand it, and I was pretty good at dealing with kids. |
Most like you're just an impatient person.
This "I hate dumbing myself down" is the biggest bull ever. Kids aren't ing retarded they just think diffferently. What do you ing want? To have a conversation about quantum physics with a 3 year old? |
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