thats a very good question. and I have a vague answer because no matter what you picture, life makes treats you to something different. generally and essentially speaking i always see myself with a woman that I love, a job that I love in a place that I love. how all these things come together I don't know but that's the goal.
squirrelly
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Originally posted by Rose
Ahh since this thread is now about marriage (sorry Renzo lol) what do you guys thinking about those couples that get engaged and married really young (18-21)? I don't know......I just think they are rushing things to bit and will eventually end up divorced or something. It's rare to see a couple that got married at 18 (in today's world) last.
I think those people are ing retarded. No way do you know what you want in life at that age. They may THINK they do, but even in a couple of years you'll grow up more and realize what you really want. I also think those people think they are "adults" and want to live the "grown up life". ing idiots.
And when our grandparents got married at young ages, they still had those moral values instilled in them of "I will never get divorced and I am going to stay married even if I hate that person until I am in my grave".
meriter
All I want out of life is to go to the Sacred Earth Open Air event...
Originally posted by squirrelly
And when our grandparents got married at young ages, they still had those moral values instilled in them of "I will never get divorced and I am going to stay married even if I hate that person until I am in my grave".
I think it's also that they learned a lot more responsibility and being less selfish. Couples that get divorced often do so because one feels like he needs to pursue other dreams / goals in his life and his partner is hindering him. To me it seems that this loosening of commitment, responsibilty and "settling down" is characteristic of todays society.
squirrelly
I agree. They were taught at a young age to work and help the family and to respect commitments.
Holy , I just said I agreed with you. :(
Meat187
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Originally posted by squirrelly
Holy , I just said I agreed with you. :(
OMG how terrible. Let's both explode!
3... 2... 1...
squirrelly
YOU can explode. I'll pass.
Meat187
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What I also find ing stupid is teenagers getting pregnant. There are those who are to dumb to use protection, but I'm even more annoyed by 15 year old girls who WANT to be a mother. The have no damned clue about life and can't even care for their kid alone, yet intend to take one of the biggest possible responsibilities.
IMO it's just not possible to know what you want from life at such an age, and one seriously can't value "knowing what you don't know" high enough.
yukii
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Originally posted by Meat187
:sadgreen:
What I also find ing stupid is teenagers getting pregnant. There are those who are to dumb to use protection, but I'm even more annoyed by 15 year old girls who WANT to be a mother. The have no damned clue about life and can't even care for their kid alone, yet intend to take one of the biggest possible responsibilities.
IMO it's just not possible to know what you want from life at such an age, and one seriously can't value "knowing what you don't know" high enough.
:stongue: :stongue:
Rose
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Originally posted by Meat187
:sadgreen:
What I also find ing stupid is teenagers getting pregnant. There are those who are to dumb to use protection, but I'm even more annoyed by 15 year old girls who WANT to be a mother. The have no damned clue about life and can't even care for their kid alone, yet intend to take one of the biggest possible responsibilities.
IMO it's just not possible to know what you want from life at such an age, and one seriously can't value "knowing what you don't know" high enough.
I know exactly what you mean. If you're going to at that age, be ing smart about it and use condoms and get on the pill. Is it that hard really? "oh but I don't want my mom to know I'm having sex" then don't tell her? Go to the doctor and tell him/her you want to get on the pill and they can't tell your mother . If your mom keeps asking why you're on it tell her the doctor put you on it to regulate your period (which is a perfectly valid excuse). I hate these stupid excuses they come up with. Oh and the best one "he pulls out, I won't get pregnant" and then you tell them about precum and they are like "wait, what's that?" people that stupid should not be having sex.
And the ones that want to have a kid at that age, WTF? Seriously? 15? 16 years old and having a kid? I know why they want one, because mommy and daddy will be there to raise the kid and pay for everything. So ing stupid.
yukii
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Originally posted by Rose
I know exactly what you mean. If you're going to at that age, be ing smart about it and use condoms and get on the pill. Is it that hard really? "oh but I don't want my mom to know I'm having sex" then don't tell her? Go to the doctor and tell him/her you want to get on the pill and they can't tell your mother . If your mom keeps asking why you're on it tell her the doctor put you on it to regulate your period (that's the excuse I told her lolol but she later found out the truth but wasn't upset). I hate these stupid excuses they come up with. Oh and the best one "he pulls out, I won't get pregnant" and then you tell them about precum and they are like "wait, what's that?" people that stupid should not be having sex.
And the ones that want to have a kid at that age, WTF? Seriously? 15? 16 years old and having a kid? I know why they want one, because mommy and daddy will be there to raise the kid and pay for everything. So ing stupid.
LOL, yep.
i had a teacher once who was really badass- rlly down to earth, we were in our hschool health class & the topic was 'sex' & he walks in & stays there for the 'chat' & someone was talking about precum.. he's like.. Yeah, i got a joke for you guys.. you know what you call the people who use the 'pull-out method'? --- parents. he was sharing his story & how he later got a vasectomy..
but anyway, i think 15-16 is too young to be having sex.. i mean i know girls that started right at the age of 12-13.. are you serious? you still don't even know how to wipe your ass properly w/o leaving skid marks on your barnie undies :wtf:
