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What do you guys want from life? (pg. 8)
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| Zoso |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
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I can do WHAT to your WHAT?! :eek: :D |
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| The17sss |
| quote: | Originally posted by yukii
when you married her, how did you *know* she was the right one for you?
from the rest of the girls you'd been with, what made her stand out to you?  |
well... It's hard to explain. I had always heard that saying about "you'll know" and I thought it was bull. But it wasn't. It just became really obvious right away... that feeling of the butterflies (pardon my emo speak) never went away and for a guy who was deathly afraid of the idea of marriage and didn't care if never happened, I REALLY wanted to be married to her. All of the problems I had in the past with other girls didn't exist, and still dont- no drama, never complains if and when I spend time with freinds, even if it means flying to other cities for a weekend, gets along awesome with my parents, and the list goes on. For the first time, I never had the "what if the grass is greener on the other side" thoughts. |
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| Rose |
| quote: | Originally posted by The17sss
well... It's hard to explain. I had always heard that saying about "you'll know" and I thought it was bull. But it wasn't. It just became really obvious right away... that feeling of the butterflies (pardon my emo speak) never went away and for a guy who was deathly afraid of the idea of marriage and didn't care if never happened, I REALLY wanted to be married to her. All of the problems I had in the past with other girls didn't exist, and still dont- no drama, never complains if and when I spend time with freinds, even if it means flying to other cities for a weekend, gets along awesome with my parents, and the list goes on. For the first time, I never had the "what if the grass is greener on the other side" thoughts. |
awwwwwww......I want that to happen to me (eventually) :(
/lame LOL
but that's really cool 17sss, how long did you guys date for? |
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| yukii |
| ROSE ask these q's in my thread! :mad: |
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| squirrelly |
| Awe, that's the speech my honey gives! Except he was single for 8 years before he met me :gsmile: |
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| Rose |
| quote: | Originally posted by The17sss
no rush. haha |
def. not I'm still young that's why I said EVENTUALLY :p
| quote: | Originally posted by yukii
ROSE ask these q's in my thread! :mad: |
perdoname! :( |
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| Slylee |
i'm actually really nervous to get married. only because i know it seems to jinx a lot of couples lol everyone is always happy until they get married. it's so discouraging.
i can honestly say that my biggest fear in life is getting cheated on by my husband or having a failed marriage for whatever reasons...especially when kids are involved. ughh...i dunno if i could handle that. it's scary. my bf and i have talked about it and i know he's gonna pop the question some day, probably even later this year, who knows...but sometimes when we talk about it, it's like i'm happy, but inside my heart starts beating a little faster like 'oh , this is for real'. :stongue: |
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| Rose |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
i'm actually really nervous to get married. only because i know it seems to jinx a lot of couples lol everyone is always happy until they get married. it's so discouraging.
i can honestly say that my biggest fear in life is getting cheated on by my husband or having a failed marriage for whatever reasons...especially when kids are involved. ughh...i dunno if i could handle that. it's scary. my bf and i have talked about it and i know he's gonna pop the question some day, probably even later this year, who knows...but sometimes when we talk about it, it's like i'm happy, but inside my heart starts beating a little faster like 'oh , this is for real'. :stongue: |
I think that's a pretty common fear with married couples. No one wants a failed marriage but then you hear numbers like 1 out of 3 marriages end up in divorce and it's like oh :nervous: |
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| squirrelly |
| I don't have that fear. I used to. I don't know, when I'm around him... it's like everything settles and nothing scares me. Every insecurity I ever had just disappeared. The only thing I genuinely feel is that something will happen to him (like an accident) and he'll get taken from me. |
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| RickyM |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
to go on vacations and be in love and be able to pay my bills and live comfortably. pop out a few kids and raise them well, bla bla bla |
Agreed...apart from myself being the one giving birth. I've always thought that if I was given one wish, it would be to be 'content'. That way it covers everything, money, women job etc. You can't get ed over with an answer like that. |
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| yukii |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rose
I think that's a pretty common fear with married couples. No one wants a failed marriage but then you hear numbers like 1 out of 3 marriages end up in divorce and it's like oh :nervous: |
y pq esto no puede ir en mi pinche hilo?!?!?!11 |
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