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What do you guys want from life? (pg. 17)
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| squirrelly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rose
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awwww, how long were you guys together before he popped the question? |
We're not married yet but we've been talking about the beginning of next year (backyard wedding!! haha) I just always call him my hubby cause he might as well be. The only thing that's missing is that my last name changes ;) We had a list of reasonable expectations to have prior to getting married (living together for x amount of time, putting finances together, meeting families, discussing future, etc) and so far, so good! We never argue (and people who say it's boring to never argue clearly don't have a good sex life :stongue: )
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Our guest list is about 27 people :gsmile:
Oh, and to answer your question (lol) the serious marriage talk (like are we going to do this or what) came around in March-ish - like a little over 1.5 years together? |
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| Rose |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
We're not married yet but we've been talking about the beginning of next year (backyard wedding!! haha) I just always call him my hubby cause he might as well be. The only thing that's missing is that my last name changes ;) We had a list of reasonable expectations to have prior to getting married (living together for x amount of time, putting finances together, meeting families, discussing future, etc) and so far, so good! We never argue (and people who say it's boring to never argue clearly don't have a good sex life :stongue: ) |
oh...lmao I thought you guys were already married. well that's great! you guys sound made for each other :) |
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| squirrelly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rose
oh...lmao I thought you guys were already married. well that's great! you guys sound made for each other :) |
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Everyone does. Doesn't help that we refer to each other as "hubby" or "wifey" or "the old ball and chain" or "the boss" or "mama" :thepirate |
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| Rose |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
:gsmile:
Everyone does. Doesn't help that we refer to each other as "hubby" or "wifey" or "the old ball and chain" or "the boss" or "mama" :thepirate |
ahaha cute. for the keys are you looking for a house IN islamorada or just any key? |
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| [N]ûk|êû[Z] |
what do i wish from life?:
-plenty money to do what id like when i like [without being too rich]
-great sex life
-be able to make music and be able to play it out to people and see them enjoy it.
realistically what do i want from life?:
-just to be happy [one thing ive not been for a few years [/emo] |
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| squirrelly |
| aren't you happy now? isn't that why you're engaged? |
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| [N]ûk|êû[Z] |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
aren't you happy now? isn't that why you're engaged? |
ah ofcourse.. im getting married in 15 weeks.. but the general feeling of 'you know what, im completely happy with how my life is panning out' .. ive not felt like that in years |
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| squirrelly |
| Really? What do you think is missing? Are you not on track for something or do you not know what you want...? |
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| [N]ûk|êû[Z] |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
Really? What do you think is missing? Are you not on track for something or do you not know what you want...? |
i dunno, without getting to deep into it.. my life is basically.. go to work.. do whatever needs to be done until 5pm.. go home and do whatever needs to be done to make me forget about work.. what i need or want is generally a side issue |
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| Brian Scott |
| quote: | Originally posted by Halcyon+On+On
I mostly just want whatever happens to be the result of my own doing; for better or for worse. |
+1000000000
This has actually been a sore topic that has strained my marriage. My wife and I have different projects going on on top of our day jobs and our new life together. |
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| squirrelly |
| But that's a good thing. You SHOULD have your own separate lives, and then your lives together. If you can't be happy by yourself... you can't be happy together. |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
But that's a good thing. You SHOULD have your own separate lives, and then your lives together. If you can't be happy by yourself... you can't be happy together. |
I totally agree with this. You have to have outside of your marriage/relationship to keep you busy. It makes you cherish and enjoy the times you have together. |
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