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Your first time sex (pg. 10)
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| TranceDiablo |
| quote: | Originally posted by decibel08
well, i can only say if you hope the fact that you 'know each other very well' will keep her from getting pregnant, you are one sorry sap.
don't be an idiot and think that nothing bad will happen to you. you are not invincible, although many teens think they are. you won't be thanking god anymore when he sends a bloody and wailing package to your bathroom floor. and no im not putting religion in here, its just a reference to your 'thank god (knock knock)'.
if this is your personalized decision on 'how to be safe', then you don't know what the word 'safe' means. sorry !
while you're at it, you should both get tested for stds. you may have been virgins before you met each other, but oral sex can give you all the same things.
--dannyB-- |
alright so PLZ tell me what "safe" means to you than...huh...as I mentioned previously ..you think by wearing a condom will protect you?It only might lower the risk but theres still a big chance of getting pregnant or catching STD's. And NO i dont think im invincible....i just think im luckey...we try to use condoms every time..but there are these times that you dont have one, and im sorry but im willing to take that chance.:tongue2 |
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| decibel08 |
| quote: | Originally posted by TranceDiablo
alright so PLZ tell me what "safe" means to you than...huh...as I mentioned previously ..you think by wearing a condom will protect you?It only might lower the risk but theres still a big chance of getting pregnant or catching STD's. And NO i dont think im invincible....i just think im luckey...we try to use condoms every time..but there are these times that you dont have one, and im sorry but im willing to take that chance.:tongue2 |
godspeed son, you are running full speed towards the edge of a cliff. you seem to think an abortion is no big deal, and that being 'more' (ie 10000x) safe isn't warranted than not being safe at all, because nothing is absolute. well, i don't have the energy to respond more thoroughly, but..
TranceDiablo and (unknown) have first child ! you heard it here first !!
i give you 1 month til she's pregnant, if she isn't yet. have fun ing up three people's lives with your 'im willing to take that chance' attitude.
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| TranceDiablo |
| quote: | Originally posted by decibel08
godspeed son, you are running full speed towards the edge of a cliff. you seem to think an abortion is no big deal, and that being 'more' (ie 10000x) safe isn't warranted than not being safe at all, because nothing is absolute. well, i don't have the energy to respond more thoroughly, but..
TranceDiablo and (unknown) have first child ! you heard it here first !!
i give you 1 month til she's pregnant, if she isn't yet. have fun ing up three people's lives with your 'im willing to take that chance' attitude.
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Just WHO the HELL you think you are telling me how my life is going to be...HUH???and about abortion....CAN you read?????or do i have to spell it out for you...we are not interested in abortion...and where did you get that i think abortion is a big deal???GOD....and for ur information we have been having sex for 2 years now and so far we good...so i think we being safe....so back off...dont make me angry.
And if you are so SMART, why dont u tell us about ur relationship...DO U EVEN HAVE ONE???? |
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| whiskers |
| quote: | Originally posted by TranceDiablo
you think by wearing a condom will protect you?It only might lower the risk but theres still a big chance of getting pregnant or catching STD's. |
actually.. the chance is there, but it's not as big as you might think. birth control pills work in 99.9% of the cases to prevent birth (gah, sorry if the number's off, i took sex ed 4 years ago)... they prevent 0% of stds...
condoms are one of the few things that prevent pregnancy AND stds. and AFAIK, they work in 99.9% of the cases too...
what not many people know, is that you can impregnate someone without actually "cumming"... there's this thing called "preorgasmic ejaculate" or something... long story short, omitting formal terms, sometimes little droplets of sperm come out of your dick before you even insert it into the girl |
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| whiskers |
| quote: | Originally posted by TranceDiablo
we are not interested in abortion...and where did you get that i think abortion is a big deal???GOD....and for ur information we have been having sex for 2 years now and so far we good...so i think we being safe....so back off...dont make me angry.
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i don't think you understand what all those things are.
you're not interested in abortion? so are you going to support the baby when it's born?
you think having sex for 2 years and not getting pregnant counts as "being safe"?
don't make outrageous claims. think before you do serious things that require mature judgment |
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| TranceDiablo |
| quote: | Originally posted by whiskers
actually.. the chance is there, but it's not as big as you might think. birth control pills work in 99.9% of the cases to prevent birth (gah, sorry if the number's off, i took sex ed 4 years ago)... they prevent 0% of stds...
condoms are one of the few things that prevent pregnancy AND stds. and AFAIK, they work in 99.9% of the cases too...
what not many people know, is that you can impregnate someone without actually "cumming"... there's this thing called "preorgasmic ejaculate" or something... long story short, omitting formal terms, sometimes little droplets of sperm come out of your dick before you even insert it into the girl |
ARE you sure that the use of condoms protect you 99.9%...i can tell you this much...i heard a lot of ppl got pregnant even if they use condoms...including 2 which i know. AND yes I took sex ed for 2 years too so i know about that one. it dosnt happen to all ppl tho. |
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| TranceDiablo |
| quote: | Originally posted by whiskers
i don't think you understand what all those things are.
you're not interested in abortion? so are you going to support the baby when it's born?
you think having sex for 2 years and not getting pregnant counts as "being safe"?
don't make outrageous claims. think before you do serious things that require mature judgment |
HOW do you know im not mature HUH???maybe I can support the baby...and dont tell me i dont understand what abortion means...im catholic and catholic church is against abortion..even if it werent I wouldnt want it...i mean Do you understant the significance of that..you are actully killing a human being...AND on the margin if you were in a long relationships you would understand that sometimes you have the urge to do it but theres no condom..U'LL do it anywayz! |
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| TranceDiablo |
| quote: | Originally posted by whiskers
i don't think you understand what all those things are.
you're not interested in abortion? so are you going to support the baby when it's born?
you think having sex for 2 years and not getting pregnant counts as "being safe"?
don't make outrageous claims. think before you do serious things that require mature judgment |
HOW do you know im not mature HUH???maybe I can support the baby...and dont tell me i dont understand what abortion means...im catholic and catholic church is against abortion..even if it werent I wouldnt want it...i mean Do you understant the significance of that..you are actully killing a human being...AND on the margin if you were in a long relationships you would understand that sometimes you have the urge to do it but theres no condom..U'LL do it anywayz! |
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| starglider |
| quote: | Originally posted by TranceDiablo
HOW do you know im not mature HUH??? |
Because you seem to think having unprotected sex is safe, and because of the way you're reacting to criticism of your ignorant viewpoint. Sex is a responsiblity, and if you're not mature enough to consider the issues involved you're probably not mature enough to have sex, either.
| quote: | Originally posted by TranceDiablo
AND on the margin if you were in a long relationships you would understand that sometimes you have the urge to do it but theres no condom..U'LL do it anywayz! |
See above. If you don't want to get her pregnant then don't have unprotected sex. It's possible to control your "urges", too. |
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| TranceDiablo |
| quote: | Originally posted by starglider
Because you seem to think having unprotected sex is safe, and because of the way you're reacting to criticism of your ignorant viewpoint. Sex is a responsiblity, and if you're not mature enough to consider the issues involved you're probably not mature enough to have sex, either.
See above. If you don't want to get her pregnant then don't have unprotected sex. It's possible to control your "urges", too. |
OH yeah...RIIIIIGHT....when did I say unprotected sex is safe..I dont recall that. If you would follow me you would notice that I just simply said once in a while we dont use a condom. I never said its safe....al I said about safe is that having sex with someone u now is much safer and better i might add then with someone you have just met. And im sorry to dissapoint you but being mature is more then just your decisions about safe sex. I understand your piont...so try to understand mine. dont just criticise me and then dare to tell me that im ignorant because the way i respond...i have protect my decision dont I. so why dont YOU be more mature about this debate. |
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| decibel08 |
| quote: | Originally posted by TranceDiablo
Just WHO the HELL you think you are telling me how my life is going to be...HUH???and about abortion....CAN you read?????or do i have to spell it out for you...we are not interested in abortion...and where did you get that i think abortion is a big deal???GOD....and for ur information we have been having sex for 2 years now and so far we good...so i think we being safe....so back off...dont make me angry.
And if you are so SMART, why dont u tell us about ur relationship...DO U EVEN HAVE ONE???? |
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where to begin...
who do i think i am ? i am someone who recognizes that unprotected sex and an increasingly more obvious immature attitude leads to babies. that's where my prediction comes from. you're right in that i misread one of your posts, thinking you said you would just get an abortion if she got pregnant. my bad. so you wont get an abortion. even better. :rolleyes: i sincerely hope you don't get put in that situation just for the kids sake.
the fact that you've been having sex for 2 years with no bad results is surprising, but statistically you're due for a baby now. you've used up all the statistical deviation (or been working at the wrong hole, who knows).
if i am so smart, i should tell you about my relationship ? interesting. i have had my share of adventures, good times, and mistakes, but im not one to go on about that here on a relatively anonymous forum. whats the point ? i don't really want to stoop to your level and rattle off how many relationships ive had, when i lost my virginity, and how often i get laid. simply not interested in discussing this with you. my impression is that i am significantly more 'relationship experienced' than you, if that is a quantifiable thing, and it would serve you well not to attack that credibility.
--dannyB-- |
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| ahlamalek |
| quote: | Originally posted by TranceDiablo
True...True.. but all people are different, you have to decide for yourself how to be safe...like me and my gf we dont use protecction, shes not on any pills i dont have nothing done to me...we know each other very well and we feal comfortable with it..its been a long time since we stopped using protection and so far thank god(knock knock) othing happen:gsmile: it all depends on personalities |
same here pal, don't listen to these fools and most importantly don't worry about that retarded sothis... getting her guy to do vasectomy, this IS a sign of no intelligence. Maybe this guy will want to have kids later on, wtf is he supposed to do? Why didn't *you* go get your uterus removed??
we have a case of raging feminist here.
sothis, take your rethorics somewhere else.:rolleyes: |
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