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Your first time sex (pg. 13)
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| TranceDiablo |
| quote: | dude! had you said that since your first response to me, i wouldnt have given you ANY of the ive been giving you. you said:
im guessing to 100% of people who read this, it sounded like you meant that you do NOT want children, and thus, are happy that she hasnt gotten pregnant yet. had you just said "we want children, so we are ok if she gets pregnant", like i said, i wouldnt have given you at ALL. the problem i have is with people who really dont want to get pregnant, yet still take zero precautions to prevent it.
so yea.. might help to clarify next time right away to save everyone some trouble :cool: |
OK..LOL...well but it wouldnt been so fun right? and to make things more complicated. I dont want a kid now maybe in 2 years but if it happens im not gonna scream and yell and make my gf get abortion or anything.and yes ur information has been good.thank you. but what pissed me off is that u assumed things about me..
| quote: | | and yes, what are my hypocritical comments? id like to see those. ive had sex without condoms before, but ive ALWAYS been on at *least* one other form of birth control. (at one point, i was on depo provera, AND the pill... for a complicated reason). ive never had sex without birth control, and without condoms. ever. so i assume my hypocrisy is related to something else? |
so I assumed some thing bout u too...and thats where the hypocritical comments came from. BUT anyways you dont want kids?I have a friend that feels the same.She things that there are so many poor children out there that are dying (like china) that she would abopt all of them if she could.BUT its very expensive I think she said for a 4 year old girl from china you have to pay around 50,000 dollars...Its insane. Is that how you fela???sorry if im wrong. |
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| sothis |
yea, i really dont want kids. at all. i dont plan on ever wanting them. not only do i not like children, or babies, or being pregnant, but i just dont want that responsibility. i want to live my life, with my sig other, and do fun things. i want to travel everywhere.. work in other countries, do exciting and amazing things. kids would tie me down, suck up my money, and in general, take over my life. thats not the life i want.
some people think thats strange or "wrong", but i dont see why. millions and billions of people out there are raising children, so i dont see why theres anything wrong with not wanting to be one of those people.
as far as adopting, you are right, its super expensive! but i guess my point just was that IF i ever change my mind, its not like if i get a tubal ligation, that i wont have any more options. |
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| Dumonde Trancer |
| with my girlfriend (she wasnt at the time) after futuregods last year. |
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| TranceDiablo |
| quote: | Originally posted by sothis
yea, i really dont want kids. at all. i dont plan on ever wanting them. not only do i not like children, or babies, or being pregnant, but i just dont want that responsibility. i want to live my life, with my sig other, and do fun things. i want to travel everywhere.. work in other countries, do exciting and amazing things. kids would tie me down, suck up my money, and in general, take over my life. thats not the life i want.
some people think thats strange or "wrong", but i dont see why. millions and billions of people out there are raising children, so i dont see why theres anything wrong with not wanting to be one of those people.
as far as adopting, you are right, its super expensive! but i guess my point just was that IF i ever change my mind, its not like if i get a tubal ligation, that i wont have any more options. |
HEY nothing wrong with that. but what happens if you get older, i think you would want to have someone there, some grandkids,but as you said you can always adopt. As for traveling, I did A LOT of traveling with my parents when I was younger. All around the good US of A. so I didnt stop them. I guess im just of a family man.:gsmile: |
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| TranceDiablo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Dumonde Trancer
with my girlfriend (she wasnt at the time) after futuregods last year. |
DUDE !!WHAT does THIS have to do with ANYTHING??? |
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| ahlamalek |
| quote: | Originally posted by Dumonde Trancer
with my girlfriend (she wasnt at the time) after futuregods last year. |
hey dude, remove your signature. People are dying, have some respect. |
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| Spyder |
| WHy ammm i not suprized that sothis is posting in this thread.. LOL :D :happy2: :toothless |
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| cammie |
| quote: | Originally posted by RenderedDream
believe me it won't get routine *gets kamasutra* :disbelief :disbelief =P |
I have my own book. I call it the 'cammie sutra' and I don't let sex ever get boring!!!
First time was planned tho. His parents were away for the weekend so we had lots of time for getting it right. No pain for me, just plenty of exhausting pleasure. |
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| whiskers |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spyder
WHy ammm i not suprized that sothis is posting in this thread.. LOL :D :happy2: :toothless |
kim, you go get them, girl! |
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| zorra |
| oh god my first time sucked...his mom walked in his room saw me there and was like GET THE HELL OUT!! I saw her the next weekend at the restaurant where I worked and she gave me the evilest eye, I freaked and ran to the bathroom and puked. bad experience |
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| TrAnCeAkI |
| quote: | | kim, you go get them, girl! |
who is kim lol |
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| DarkTrance |
| quote: | Originally posted by sothis
yea, i really dont want kids. at all. i dont plan on ever wanting them. not only do i not like children, or babies, or being pregnant, but i just dont want that responsibility. i want to live my life, with my sig other, and do fun things. i want to travel everywhere.. work in other countries, do exciting and amazing things. kids would tie me down, suck up my money, and in general, take over my life. thats not the life i want.
some people think thats strange or "wrong", but i dont see why. millions and billions of people out there are raising children, so i dont see why theres anything wrong with not wanting to be one of those people.
as far as adopting, you are right, its super expensive! but i guess my point just was that IF i ever change my mind, its not like if i get a tubal ligation, that i wont have any more options. |
I totaly understand what you're saying, kids tie you down, you have to either care for them or find care for them (baby-sitter, day care, ect.) which takes a lot of time and money out of your life. I like you want to travel, have fun in my life with my partner and live in differnt countires, hell i'm going to become an archeologist (what i am currently studying for at the university) and that takes a lot of time and travling. With all that said aside though, still I haven't 100% sure decided on either if I do want a kid now or not, I'm still young and having fun in my last few 'party' years and I will look at the situation more seriously in a few years. |
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