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Your first time sex (pg. 9)
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| RenderedDream |
| how can we feel that a girl is coming? i mean with all those aah uhh we can get lost if she's comin or not |
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| Maaz |
| quote: | Originally posted by RenderedDream
i mean with all those aah uhh we can get lost if she's comin or not |
lol... stay focused, young jedi :D |
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| whiskers |
| this thread = hilarious! :haha: :haha: |
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| TranceDiablo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Maaz
lol... stay focused, young jedi :D |
HAHA :haha: good one...lol |
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| sothis |
i only read 2 pages of this and didnt want to read the rest, but i wanted to comment on something i read:
| quote: | but if she's on birth control.. whats the proB? unless she ain't a V...
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how about her protection from you? unless you are a virgin as well. many stds are not testable. the two most common, HPV and herpes, are prime examples. a HUGE percentage of sexually active people have them and never show symptoms, thus, they keep getting spread. unless you show symptoms, for the most part, they are undetectable.
its called being safe.
not to mention, birth control can be faulty. it depends on the type, as well. if a girl is taking a pill daily, there is a definite chance of user error. the pill is only 99% effective IF its taken at the same time every day.. if its not, the effectiveness goes down. thus, it IS possible to get pregnant, even with birth control. maybe its just me, but i personally DO NOT want to get pregnant, and thus, my boyfriend always wears condoms. if he doesnt like it, he can deal with having to get the abortion when i get pregnant because of it. doesnt matter tho, hes getting a vasectomy, and thats the only time ill feel comfortable with him not wearing condoms. |
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| TranceDiablo |
| quote: | Originally posted by sothis
i only read 2 pages of this and didnt want to read the rest, but i wanted to comment on something i read:
how about her protection from you? unless you are a virgin as well. many stds are not testable. the two most common, HPV and herpes, are prime examples. a HUGE percentage of sexually active people have them and never show symptoms, thus, they keep getting spread. unless you show symptoms, for the most part, they are undetectable.
its called being safe.
not to mention, birth control can be faulty. it depends on the type, as well. if a girl is taking a pill daily, there is a definite chance of user error. the pill is only 99% effective IF its taken at the same time every day.. if its not, the effectiveness goes down. thus, it IS possible to get pregnant, even with birth control. maybe its just me, but i personally DO NOT want to get pregnant, and thus, my boyfriend always wears condoms. if he doesnt like it, he can deal with having to get the abortion when i get pregnant because of it. doesnt matter tho, hes getting a vasectomy, and thats the only time ill feel comfortable with him not wearing condoms. |
True...True.. but all people are different, you have to decide for yourself how to be safe...like me and my gf we dont use protecction, shes not on any pills i dont have nothing done to me...we know each other very well and we feal comfortable with it..its been a long time since we stopped using protection and so far thank god(knock knock) othing happen:gsmile: it all depends on personalities |
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| decibel08 |
| quote: | Originally posted by TranceDiablo
True...True.. but all people are different, you have to decide for yourself how to be safe...like me and my gf we dont use protecction, shes not on any pills i dont have nothing done to me...we know each other very well and we feal comfortable with it..its been a long time since we stopped using protection and so far thank god(knock knock) othing happen:gsmile: it all depends on personalities |
well, i can only say if you hope the fact that you 'know each other very well' will keep her from getting pregnant, you are one sorry sap.
don't be an idiot and think that nothing bad will happen to you. you are not invincible, although many teens think they are. you won't be thanking god anymore when he sends a bloody and wailing package to your bathroom floor. and no im not putting religion in here, its just a reference to your 'thank god (knock knock)'.
if this is your personalized decision on 'how to be safe', then you don't know what the word 'safe' means. sorry !
while you're at it, you should both get tested for stds. you may have been virgins before you met each other, but oral sex can give you all the same things.
--dannyB-- |
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| sothis |
| quote: | | like me and my gf we dont use protecction, shes not on any pills i dont have nothing done to me...we know each other very well and we feal comfortable with it..its been a long time since we stopped using protection and so far thank god(knock knock) othing happen |
this is the type of irresponsible attitude which is the cause of millions of teenage mothers and an unwanted birth rate. tell me, what makes you think she wont get pregnant? do you pull out? does that make you feel safe? check out some statistics. that method has an extremely high fail rate. so, what are you going to do once she does get pregnant? (note i didnt say "if", i said "WHEN".) are you going to use abortion as a means of birth control? if not, i can only assume that at this point in your life, you want a child... because i cant for the life of me think of any reason besides that that you would be doing the most irresponsible thing EVER.
i really hope you are 15, or uneducated.. that would be the only excuse.
for s sake.. go to planned parenthood, get some free pills and dont be a selfish idiot who is just going to spawn accidentally and pollute this society with another unwanted child.
| quote: | | it all depends on personalities |
no, it depends on intelligence, which you obviously dont possess related to this issue. its one thing for your girlfriend to be on birth control and to not wear condoms, and to be fine with that. its another to use NOTHING, and to still have this farfetched idea that you wont have a child together. why is this concept so hard to grasp?
by the way, i would also like for you to explain how you and your girlfriend are deciding to be "safe". |
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| X-Hale |
| It was pretty good...but it gets better :D |
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| TrAnCeAkI |
| rofl at the stay focused my young jedi!!! |
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| decibel08 |
| quote: | Originally posted by sothis
this is the type of irresponsible attitude which is the cause of millions of teenage mothers and an unwanted birth rate. tell me, what makes you think she wont get pregnant? do you pull out? does that make you feel safe? check out some statistics. that method has an extremely high fail rate. so, what are you going to do once she does get pregnant? (note i didnt say "if", i said "WHEN".) are you going to use abortion as a means of birth control? if not, i can only assume that at this point in your life, you want a child... because i cant for the life of me think of any reason besides that that you would be doing the most irresponsible thing EVER.
i really hope you are 15, or uneducated.. that would be the only excuse.
for s sake.. go to planned parenthood, get some free pills and dont be a selfish idiot who is just going to spawn accidentally and pollute this society with another unwanted child.
no, it depends on intelligence, which you obviously dont possess related to this issue. its one thing for your girlfriend to be on birth control and to not wear condoms, and to be fine with that. its another to use NOTHING, and to still have this farfetched idea that you wont have a child together. why is this concept so hard to grasp?
by the way, i would also like for you to explain how you and your girlfriend are deciding to be "safe". |
yea, what she said. especially that it depends on intelligence, not personality
--dannyB-- |
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| TranceDiablo |
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this is the type of irresponsible attitude which is the cause of millions of teenage mothers and an unwanted birth rate. tell me, what makes you think she wont get pregnant? do you pull out? does that make you feel safe? check out some statistics. that method has an extremely high fail rate. so, what are you going to do once she does get pregnant? (note i didnt say "if", i said "WHEN".) are you going to use abortion as a means of birth control? if not, i can only assume that at this point in your life, you want a child... because i cant for the life of me think of any reason besides that that you would be doing the most irresponsible thing EVER.
i really hope you are 15, or uneducated.. that would be the only excuse.
for s sake.. go to planned parenthood, get some free pills and dont be a selfish idiot who is just going to spawn accidentally and pollute this society with another unwanted child.
no, it depends on intelligence, which you obviously dont possess related to this issue. its one thing for your girlfriend to be on birth control and to not wear condoms, and to be fine with that. its another to use NOTHING, and to still have this farfetched idea that you wont have a child together. why is this concept so hard to grasp?
by the way, i would also like for you to explain how you and your girlfriend are deciding to be "safe". |
OK...how does it depent on intelligence..I mean you can be a recket scientist and still get a girl pregnant. I mean cmon its not intelligence its more like a choice...what you think if i dont use condoms Im retarded or something..NO
anyways birth control pills have many side effects, I dont want my girl to take them, nor does she. I know we should be using condoms...trus me I KNOW,i dont want her to get pragnent,but if she did we wouldnt get an abortion, getting bac to the other thing...we use condoms once in a while...when its there...but you know how it is sometimes it just happens and a condom isnt there...I trust her and she trusts me. I understand the consequences that we are taking by not beying "safe" but what i meant be safe is that I know her, shes not some girl to me I met in a bar,we have been going out for more than 2 years.maybe it dosnt mean much too you but people are different. AND I know what the stats say...these are just stats...you can be SAFE as safe can possibly get and still get pregnant or get STD's(by the way we did get tested and it came out negative) I dont want to get nasty here...but plz what you said about polluting society is just ed up. You have no right of judgeing me, you dont know me.We are being carefull in a way which works for us OK.....theres always a possibility of getting pregnant even if you use every single anti-pregnant "things" SAFE sex is no sex at all!! |
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