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Can men and women be just friends? (pg. 11)
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| Jiffy |
| quote: | Originally posted by enferno
no hella people posted asking for help with chicks (i.e. i'm lame, how can i get chicks, etc.) |
Guys are stupid too.
heh |
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| trancebrat |
| quote: | Originally posted by enferno
the ladder theory is no joke, it is quite real if you open your eyes.
thanks to me for posting it that is :P |
*Yawn* |
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| enferno |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jiffy
Guys are stupid too.
heh |
that's because they haven't red the ladder theoyr yet! |
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| Toufas |
first of all
magissa= witch in greek so she is half greek or a greek who lives in au.
second
for some peeople who said : only if the guy is gay and only if the girl is fat...did u ever imagine the the girl might want to have sex with the guy even he is gay or even if she is fat/ugly? come on lots of girls fall for gay guys coz they just cant have them and u know how fubared they womans mind is (no offence ladies)
and of couse the ugly girl would like the cute/pretty guy coz we are looking first for looks. its like that in nature. |
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| Jiffy |
| quote: | Originally posted by enferno
that's because they haven't red the ladder theoyr yet! |
Honey, some men and women could NEVER even reach a higher level of thought processes and intellect with a ladder shoved up their asses. |
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| Rodrico |
| I think that while girls and guys can be friends, there is always going to be some sort of attraction, because otherwise you would not spend any time being around the person. It just some of us have the ability to supress lust and our natural instinct to have intercourse in the name of some rules and imposing guidelines in our society. No doubt TB, while you are your friend know each others place in the relationship after so long, I still wouldnt put it behind you that at one point, you might of thought of having sex with him, or been in a situation where you might of done it, and the future is always unclear (say hes divorced and a situation comes up, you both could find yourself in a position of sexual tension). I think all relationships are not doomed between men and woman, but thats not to say that theres never sexual attaction or emotional connection that could begin something that you never thought would ever happen. We are only human, and that means we are limited by our limited thoughts are emotions. |
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| enferno |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rodrico
I think that while girls and guys can be friends, there is always going to be some sort of attraction, because otherwise you would not spend any time being around the person. It just some of us have the ability to supress lust and our natural instinct to have intercourse in the name of some rules and imposing guidelines in our society. No doubt TB, while you are your friend know each others place in the relationship after so long, I still wouldnt put it behind you that at one point, you might of thought of having sex with him, or been in a situation where you might of done it, and the future is always unclear (say hes divorced and a situation comes up, you both could find yourself in a position of sexual tension). I think all relationships are not doomed between men and woman, but thats not to say that theres never sexual attaction or emotional connection that could begin something that you never thought would ever happen. We are only human, and that means we are limited by our limited thoughts are emotions. |
that is exactly what the ladder theory dictates |
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| ShadoWolf |
| quote: | Originally posted by trancebrat
Priorities? So without speaking with with any of my friends you base how they view me on some stupid "theory" that someone wrote? I sincerely hope that you are joking. If not...I'm very surprised that came from you. :rolleyes: |
I know that Ladder Theory is correct based on my own experiences. Interestingly, I didn't come accross it until about a month ago, although I had derived most of its principles on my own.
Most of my friends are women. Most if not all of them are in relationships. What I realized is that I really do want to sleep with them. All of them. In order to come to that conclusion I had to be really honest with myself. I don't like that conclusion, but it's the truth.
However, that doens't mean that my sexual drive is my sole motivation for being friends with them. There is a component that is truly based on comradery. What percentage is sexual drive and what percentage is comradery is debatable.
Ladder Theory is an application of certain other evolutionary psychology theories - in particular, the notion that women want monogamy and men want polygamy. Women want a man with money/resources to provide for her and their children. Men in contrast want many women, and want women that can provide them with many children (fertility) - that translates into looks and other features (breasts, hips, etc.)
It's important to reiterate that MEN DON'T WANT TO BE THAT WAY - it's our curse. But it was necessary to survive as a species.
Edit: I have always been faithful. My post referred more to subconscious urges. Our minds usually trump our animal desires. |
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| enferno |
we thick with our small head instead of our big head
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| trancebrat |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rodrico
I think that while girls and guys can be friends, there is always going to be some sort of attraction, because otherwise you would not spend any time being around the person. It just some of us have the ability to supress lust and our natural instinct to have intercourse in the name of some rules and imposing guidelines in our society. No doubt TB, while you are your friend know each others place in the relationship after so long, I still wouldnt put it behind you that at one point, you might of thought of having sex with him, or been in a situation where you might of done it, and the future is always unclear (say hes divorced and a situation comes up, you both could find yourself in a position of sexual tension). I think all relationships are not doomed between men and woman, but thats not to say that theres never sexual attaction or emotional connection that could begin something that you never thought would ever happen. We are only human, and that means we are limited by our limited thoughts are emotions. |
The point of this whole thread is "can men and women be just friends". Everyone has responded NO. I say yes. Since my initial response everyone has decided that I need to acknowledge the fact I want to all of my male friends and they want to me and we should all have one big orgy. Retarded...immature...close minded. Trying to say that my best friend MIGHT want to me one day is just stupid. He MIGHT get divorced. Hypothetical...not good for debate. This is exactly what his wife needs to read and worry about...his best friend and him secretly want to get it on! Damn...why bother having friends? No one should trust anyone.
This is not directed to you Rodrico. I do NOT...let me repeat this for all of those that cannot read English...do NOT want to all of my male friends. You are an idiot if you think otherwise. The idea of letting some of my male friends touch me makes me want to vomit. God love them but there is no way in hell that I would let some of them touch me. I am not desparate and I'm damn sure not confused. I'm not some silly little girl wishing that some stupid man would pay attention to me. If you think all of your female friends want to you, you need to get over yourself.
This thread has become stupid and boring. You guys post to get a rise. You got one out of me...I'll give you that. In the end...I don't live my life by someone else's theory. |
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| Rodrico |
| Ladder Theory has some steeper guidelines, meant to be more of a joke. Thought similar, it follows a more manly guideline, which I will follow more closely now, due to the fact I hate wasting time trying to get with a girl, to have them put the friend sign up...no offence, but if im interested and your not, im not gonna torment myself just to please your close friendship and comfort relationship with me. The Ladder Theory does state alot of obvious feelings one gets from situations that arise from girl and guy friends, while most girls hate to believe it, alot of Ladder Theory can be seen in everyday life. |
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| ShadoWolf |
| quote: | | everyone has decided that I need to acknowledge the fact I want to all of my male friends |
That's not at all what I'm saying. |
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