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Achtung Ladies: Advice for spicing up sex life.
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| töbias |
This post may be a little long winded, and at the risk of giving out a plenty of personal informatioI would really like some opinions on spicing an already exciting connection between two people just in the feeling out stage of a hands-on friendship.
I am spending time with a charming and fun loving girl that preceeds me by a few years in age and along with being a great friend, we have some wickedly wild times as well. She has a large adventurous streak and tends to go extremely wild after a few drinks.
It is important to me that she always feels comfortable in my company and that our bind, chemistry and level of trust gets better not worse. And at the same time I want to ensure that she does not get bored and I am able to satisfy her sexual desires.
She has never said no to anything I have suggested and although she may not talk about her fantasies, she has many and her boundaries are wide and expansive. In the past when spending time with wild girls, and these I much prefer to innocent prudish types, I have regretted not pushing the limits and trying lots of new things.
This is something she said to me in email when I said that I hoped that my crazy wild side would not scare her off:
I like lots of things in the bedroom hey haha I just not one of those people who likes to talk in too many details
about things I have done with other ppl, I don’t know
why just doesn’t seem polite haha, as gay as that sounds
I don’t know anyway! But I like lots actually I like yeah haha
there’s not much I don’t like @ all so bring out the crazy side ;)
So far we have have loads of sex, like between 1 - 5 times per day, oral, conventional, all positions, in all places, inside and outside of the house, in private and public. Road dome is quite fun, so is using sexual toys and massage oils. We have played around with a camera (anybody that says pics or stfu I will slap) and handcuffs with blind folds. We tend to kiss alot and things are really passionate, and she says she likes girls, but would probably not like me prodding someone else. |
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| Rodrico |
| quote: | Originally posted by töbias
This post may be a little long winded, |
Your right, I stopped reading after this. |
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| töbias |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rodrico
Your right, I stopped reading after this. |
My sincerest apologies for wasting your time then Rodrico, I can only wish that there are people in this world and forum with the mental strength and courageousness, not to mention maturity, to reply to my post in an constructive fashion, and not try and be humourous through stupidity. |
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by töbias
she says she likes girls, but would probably not like me prodding someone else. |
u never know |
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| Lumps |
| quote: | Originally posted by töbias
My sincerest apologies for wasting your time then Rodrico, I can only wish that there are people in this world and forum with the mental strength and courageousness, not to mention maturity, to reply to my post in an constructive fashion, and not try and be humourous through stupidity. |
burn. |
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| Spacey Orange |
| quote: | Originally posted by töbias
I can only wish that there are people in this world and forum with the mental strength and courageousness, not to mention maturity, to reply to my post in an constructive fashion, and not try and be humourous through stupidity. |
Where are you going to find any those around here?:D |
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| malek |
where are the pictures?
seriously? |
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| töbias |
Haha, well, I did qualify my initial thread by saying that women were actually mature, hence the titling of my thread.
I would also hate to think that lack of sexual experience is the reason for the poor responses to what was a serious question to begin with.
And floorfiller, I have perused the 'gina thread thank you, and a little more specialised advice is what I am looking for.
And Spacey Orange, nice name. |
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| Vivid Boy |
| just let her play with ur balls then her and make her go make u a sandwhich. like jesus people is i dont understand why people want to get all kinky..oo shove this bottle of shampoo up my ass ooo im gonna shave my legs tuck my dicck in between my thighs and drop to my knees. ooo look at me! yeah see that cd spin it on my knob oooo eeee aaaaaaaaaa.. that just bang the bitch and go back to work |
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| töbias |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
just let her play with ur balls then her and make her go make u a sandwhich. like jesus people is i dont understand why people want to get all kinky..oo shove this bottle of shampoo up my ass ooo im gonna shave my legs tuck my dicck in between my thighs and drop to my knees. ooo look at me! yeah see that cd spin it on my knob oooo eeee aaaaaaaaaa.. that just bang the bitch and go back to work |
Your viewpoint on sex could perhaps lead to your chosen woman becoming bored and looking elsewhere to satisfy her adventurous streak.
I'm sure that many people are content to lead rather conservative sex lifes and along wih copious amounts of missionary position and sex in the dark I find that most women I have met also have a desire for stuff that is a little different once in a while and a change from the usual routine.
When starting out having sex I never tried anything different but have now found the joys that a little spice can bring. Some men view sex like pizza, there is no such thing as bad sex, but I disagree. |
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