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So your recently turned 15 sister... (pg. 4)
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| tribu |
| I dated a 16 year old when i was 19 and that was the most fulfilling relationship I've ever had, but only because the girl was mature beyond her age, very rationale, and could communicate with me. I've also dated down a few other times but mostly the girls can't communicate,or almost fear you because you're older and have more power. This is a childish thought and has no use in a relationship. |
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| SomewhatDamaged |
| When I was 16 I was dating a 19/20 year old (he had his birthday when we were going out)... I don't think it's that big of a deal. Better relationship than any high school relationship I have had. |
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| Floorfiller |
say i'm 20 years old... i meet a girl that i like that's 24. what are the chances that i'm going to get the time of day? not very good...sure it happens, but on average that 24 year old girl is gonna think "oh too young" unless you really impress.
same girl, maybe she hasn't found someone and now she's 30. well know i'm 26. yeah i could probably get with you now. i have my own place, a steady job, but i can also get with the girl that is 24 because now i'm older and more "mature" in her eyes. so why would i date the older woman if they are relatively the same level of attractiveness? there really isn't any incentive. i'm established and financially secure, i want to have fun, i know you're gonna wanna start getting all serious because your clock is ticking. all the while the 30 year old chick gets together with her other single friends and talks about how there are no good single men their age that wanna date them because of lil' miss new boobs and so they are stuck dating 40+ year olds that just got divorced who are just looking to bang some skirts after their troubled 5 year marriage.
well...you were lil' miss new boobs and you already had your turn with the theoretical me six years ago when you weren't interested in me because i was "too young". i wanted to date you seriously, but you just wanted to have fun and maybe more if the right guy came around, someone financially secure and out on their own. you probably shouldn't have been dating that older guy because he wasn't taking you seriously and it was more of a physical relationship to him, but you enjoyed yourself and look at everything as a growing experience. now you're ready to find "the one", but i'm not because i was stuck dating teenagers that wanna go shop at the mall every weekend. now i don't want a serious relationship because now i want to have fun for a while with the theroretical you i didn't get the chance to date 6 six years ago and ironically you've become "too old". i'm not looking for something serious because when i look at the 24 year old girl now i see someone who is, just as you once were, young and wanting fun. well that works out great for me because i can get away with not too serious and have casual sex with lil' miss new boobs because in her mind she's maturing through the experience and wants to have the clout among her friends of dating that coveted older man. all i really want from her is the sex because in reality she has nothing else to offer me other than a physical relationship because despite her own concepts of her maturity, she is a student and i don't think you're at a maturity level equal to my own. |
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| SomewhatDamaged |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
say i'm 20 years old... i meet a girl that i like that's 24. what are the chances that i'm going to get the time of day? not very good...sure it happens, but on average that 24 year old girl is gonna think "oh too young" unless you really impress.
same girl, maybe she hasn't found someone and now she's 30. well know i'm 26. yeah i could probably get with you now. i have my own place, a steady job, but i can also get with the girl that is 24 because now i'm older and more "mature" in her eyes. so why would i date the older woman if they are relatively the same level of attractiveness? there really isn't any incentive. i'm established and financially secure, i want to have fun, i know you're gonna wanna start getting all serious because your clock is ticking. all the while the 30 year old chick gets together with her other single friends and talks about how there are no good single men their age that wanna date them because of lil' miss new boobs and so they are stuck dating 40+ year olds that just got divorced who are just looking to bang some skirts after their troubled 5 year marriage.
well...you were lil' miss new boobs and you already had your turn with the theoretical me six years ago when you weren't interested in me because i was "too young". i wanted to date you seriously, but you just wanted to have fun and maybe more if the right guy came around, someone financially secure and out on their own. you probably shouldn't have been dating that older guy because he wasn't taking you seriously and it was more of a physical relationship to him, but you enjoyed yourself and look at everything as a growing experience. now you're ready to find "the one", but i'm not because i was stuck dating teenagers that wanna go shop at the mall every weekend. now i don't want a serious relationship because now i want to have fun for a while with the theroretical you i didn't get the chance to date 6 six years ago and ironically you've become "too old". i'm not looking for something serious because when i look at the 24 year old girl now i see someone who is, just as you once were, young and wanting fun. well that works out great for me because i can get away with not too serious and have casual sex with lil' miss new boobs because in her mind she's maturing through the experience and wants to have the clout among her friends of dating that coveted older man. all i really want from her is the sex because in reality she has nothing else to offer me than a physical relationship because despite her own concepts of her maturity, i don't think you're at a maturity level equal to my own. |
WOW Someone is venting... |
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| tribu |
| quote: | Originally posted by SomewhatDamaged
WOW Someone is venting... |
Phrased quite well though |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Grrrrr
...has just started dating an 18+ year old (not exactly sure of his exact age one of her friends thought he was 20). Do you kick him to a pulp or just put his man bits out of action?
My sister was 14 this time last week, this guy is some sick
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pics or stfu of sister. |
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| eye_03 |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
is your sistar a cheerleader and is the guy in question named craig? if so he's older than 18. :eek:
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also tell her not to go to sleep around him:nervous:
im sorry, i just read teh pr0nz thread:rolleyes: |
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| SuspicionVandit |
| have sex with him. tell your sister if he was good/bad |
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| stevieboy32808 |
| Just out of curiousity Grrr, who far apart agewise are your parents? |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by SomewhatDamaged
WOW Someone is venting... |
i swear i don't have any hang ups related to this topic haha...i'm just creating discussion :p
i suppose i can get a little riled up at the idea of "women being more mature" and the social ideas that go with it because...well...i think that is a load of crap hehe :p |
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| SomewhatDamaged |
| quote: | Originally posted by tribu
Phrased quite well though |
I would have to agree. |
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| Lepanto |
I don't even talk to the dude, I come up to him tell him how it is, if he has any sort of problem with it, I beat the out of him.
Dude, if your parents are okay with it then don't bother but if they don't know or you don't want your sister to get in trouble with them then just handle it yourself. |
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